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Relationship Advice: Is BIGGER Really Better?
Relationship Advice: Does Size Matter?
Does society dictate how we behave within our relationships -- or do we?
Does SIZE really matter? Ahhh yessss... the age old question that refuses to go away. As a society, we tend to strive for perfection. For women, it would be their breast size. Women often feel the pressures not only from men, but from other ladies as well regarding their breast size. We see movies, celebrities, models, billboards, etc. -- all advertising women with extremely large, perfectly round breasts. As teenagers growing up, we long to have lovely breasts to get more attention from boys. We're practically taught (from a mental standpoint) that girls with larger breasts get more out of life than small breasted women... or at least it seemed that way when we were younger. Larger breasts help boost a young girl's self esteem. Oddly enough though, when asking men to their faces, we seem to hear the same old song and dance, which is, "It doesn't matter what your breast size is." But if it didn't matter, then why are so many women obsessed with making them bigger?
As for men, the same sort of issues applies regarding the size of their male organ. Successfully sold products like ExtenZe further prove that men actually do care about being larger than average, whether they'd like to admit it or not. With the pressures of women commenting about "How great an 8 incher feels" in the gossip world and magazines, and considering the average size of the male organ is around 6 inches, it's no wonder why so many men are buying into it. But approach a woman on the street and ask her, and nearly 80% of them will deny that and say "Size doesn't matter." Again, if it really didn't matter, then why are there so many women gossiping about size to begin with?
Is size really necessary? Is this something we REALLY desire in a perfect world, yet often deprive ourselves for fear of society labeling us as being shallow? Or is this really a myth? Let's set the record straight and tell it like it is... ONCE AND FOR ALL!
Does Size Really Matter?
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loldude says:
boobs need to be not toooooo big but definatly not toooooooooo small! id rather have too big than too small!!!
Posted February 20, 2009
hank says:
anything more than a mouthful is a waste.
Posted October 17, 2008
diggyisking says:
Hmmm....I like breasts on a girl, not more than a handful though, but nice and bouncy;) hehe
Posted October 03, 2008
vindicarlo says:
It matter NOT on the size. It all depends on how you accept what you have. If you accept it, the one that is attached to you will accept it also. But if you don't the women/men you are with won't accept it also. It starts from your self-acceptance.
Posted July 29, 2008
richgerman says:
i think size really doesnt matter! love is what counts on for the relationship not the size, outside beauty or physical aspects of individual. what really counts is the bonding or the connection you can have together!
Posted July 09, 2008
She Said
zee says:
It does not matter!Rather pleasure than pain!
Posted March 10, 2009
Victoria_Neely says:
Yes, but not the way most men think: If it's too big, it's frightening.
Posted January 05, 2009
beempa says:
Absolutely! Bigger is NOT BETTER for women who aren't built for that kind of equipment. I have had a few large ones in my day, but I can assure you, it was not pleasant at all for me, nor them. It came down to a painful chore almost. In my opinion, BIGGER being BETTER is really a myth -- it's just too uncomfortable. Most of my friends would agree too. I'll take a 4-6 inches any day over 8-10 inches.
Posted June 21, 2008
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You can love someone with all your heart yet still be in an unhealthy relationship.
Relationship Advice: Breaking Up
Breakups are difficult -- but when it's over, who has the upper hand?
Relationships are so complex. On one hand, it's the most wonderful thing you can imagine when you're with somebody special. On the other hand, it can get downright ugly at times too. And when it does get ugly, we often times say things that we really don't mean... such as, "I hate you!" or "You're such a loser!"
The thing about breakups though is that when they occur, somebody ALWAYS HAS THE UPPER HAND. It always seems as though one of them is ready to move on right away, find someone new and start all over again, while the other party is sitting there twiddling their thumbs -- just waiting for the phone to ring with an apology and hopes to get back together soon.
Throughout my life, I have witnessed this first hand many of times in my younger years -- and while I always knew what my role was, I have always been amazed by the roles of others -- both men and women. So, as a whole, what gender do you believe consistently has the upper hand in breakups and why do you believe this?
Which Gender Has The Upper Hand?
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diggyisking says:
um...i made a post and it disappeared?
its so sad that men are such wussys, they should be the ones in control and choosing the woman, not the other way around. And its possible, i know this, being able to walk into a club and make-out with a hot girl within 5 minutes and then taking her home,,, why do guys give away their power?hmmm
Posted October 03, 2008
diggyisking says:
Haha beempa...yes its so sad how so many man have submitted to the fact that they cant get women, and that its the woman choosing the man. Its ridiculous really, and im trying to help as many guys as possible to get over that point and just be able to walk into any bar, make-out with a woman under 5 minutes and take her home. It all depends on the attitude and the confidence:)
Posted October 03, 2008
bba says:
I say it's traditional in our culture. The Man Rules:
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Posted July 26, 2008
Tom says:
It depends on the situation. Remember, women can fake orgasms, and men can fake relationships!
Posted June 28, 2008
She Said
beempa says:
Women, simply because they are more desirable by nature than men. After the break up, a woman can waltz into any bar, have a drink and take a man home with her. But most men do not have this type of power, even if they are drop dead gorgeous or have a ton of money. Yes, there are some men that do have this power too, but not nearly as many as there are women who have this power.
Posted June 21, 2008
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