Marriage Affair

As my bio says I had an affair, something I am not proud of, hence no bio photo, but through a long, often very painful process my husband and I are still together.

This is in no small part due to his love for me and I know now my love for him. Neither one of us is blameless, something which took my husband a long time to accept, but my marriage affair probably saved our marriage .

I know that sounds like a cliche and it may be, there are certainly better ways to save a marriage, but in the long run it finally forced us to really consider our relationship.

We discovered that we did in fact still love each other, that neither of us was perfect and we would like to stay together no matter how hard that might be.

A marriage affair is possibly one of the most destructive things you can engage in, it can destroy trust, love,respect and a whole host of other things, not least your family.

Before you start a marriage affair it would be wise to consider what you hope to get out of it. The one thing you probably won't get is a great new life with another partner, you may get found out as I did and then you may find that you are left empty and alone.

Find out why marriage affairs start in the first place and what you can do to avoid them. A happy marriage is the greatest thing in the world so please please don't throw away your chance at happiness.