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Marriage Counseling Kansas City: Marital Success With Confidence.

At Marriage Counseling Kansas City  Paul W. Anderson, Ph.D. (913-901-9110) family psychologist and couples counselor reveals truthful and proven ways to save what you think you lost in your marriage or relationship: joy, emotional closeness, trust, respect, communications. The stunning truth is that you can recover these things and it is not you or your loved one who's at fault! It takes you and yours using the right tips in the right ways to find sustained joy in relationship.

It is easy to find a competent marriage and relationship counselor in Kansas City you can work with to help restore what you thought your marriage had lost.

Ask some one you trust for a referral or simply search the internet in your city for a marriage counselor. Most relationship counselors online are licensed by the state they work in and are verified by the website directory which lists their practice. Psychology Today is one example.

 

Marriage Counseling Shows You Which Myth Destroyed Your Relationship Happiness (And What To Do About It.)

Here's a secret: False beliefs are the culprit, not your partner!

We very much like to think that it's a person (usually the other person, your partner) who messes things up in the relationship. "If they would only......" we say.


In reality, it's the patterns of thought and interaction you and your spouse use that messes things up. Those then lead to troubled marriages. It's not people who screw up marriage and significant relationships. It's the interpersonal dynamics and belief patterns we use to try and do marriage that fails people in relationship.


It starts with myths. Here are five you ought not miss because they affect Kansas City marriages just as much as marriage and relationship life any where else:
  • Love is enough. Not so. Durable and successful relationships require skill.
  • Married people have lesser sex, in quality and quality. On contrar. If you talk about it, it gets better. And practice does make sex better.
  • If my spouse or partner loved me, they will know what I need and want. Oh boy, is this a biggie! Do you think you married a clairvoyant? I hope not, if you value your privacy. That's what a marriage is for: to practice telling another person who you are, in depth and detail. I have yet to meet a mind reader who can do that well enough to not need to talk to know the other person's mind, thoughts and feelings.
  • Conflict in the relationship means the love is gone. I don't think so. Couples who fight are not finished with each other. You don't fight with someone you don't have feelings about and we only have feelings for a person we have a relationship with.
  • If we are soul mates, and meant for each other, we can work it out on our own. We don't need a counselor. Do you say the same thing about your car, i.e. if you love it enough it'll run for ever and if it has problems you won't have to take it to the garage? Do you say that about your kid you love but who has appendicitis? Don't need no doctor! We can work it out. I would hope not.

    Then what sense does it make to say that about something as important and precious as your marriage?

Married People, See What I Mean.

We aren't the "baddy" here. The startling truth is, if you're a couple in trouble, it's the patterns of interaction you use with each other that creates the problems, not you, the couple. Take heart. There's hope because patterns of inaction can change and easily so with the right coach or counselor.

Your Marriage Starts Out This Way:

Full of bliss and more dreams of more bliss in the marriage.

Maybe you had a favorite place you dated and courted on the Plaza or some place neat in Kansas City. You had a cozy apartment or condo, set up house and did all the "nesting" stuff couples love to do. Perhaps there was a baby, a new job or promotion. Things were good. Marriage was fun and energizing.

But now, something has happened that disrupts the bliss. The emotional closeness couples need and want so much is gone. Pretty scary. Suspicions set in. Denial and defense, attack and accusations substitute for harmony in the relationship.

Soon Your Marriage May Feel Like This!

But just because it feels broke, doesn't mean it is broke!

Fact and feeling are two different things. Most couples in Kansas City have a lot more going for them when they start counseling than they think. It's just that in those hot emotional times, when you're in conflict with each other, things can feel dismal and hopeless. That's when a skilled counselor focused on lasting success can be very helpful in saving your marriage or relationship and all it goodness.

Contact Me Today In Kansas City For Marriage Counseling. I Can Help.

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Hi, I am Paul W. Anderson, Ph.D.. and I have been helping couples in the Kansas City area feel better and regain emotional closeness for over 20 years. Some call me the "Couples Counselor Kansas City."

I'll show you proven and honest shortcuts to get things right in your troubled relationship and help keep them that way. My unusual tips and techniques reveal the ways to do marriage the smart, not hard, way. Marriage counseling Kansas City is my sincere and professional goal. I can help you put the joy back into your relationship and keep it there!

Contact me to today and find out for yourself How To Save Your Relationship.

More Great Keys To Unlock Relationship Joy For Couples!

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Gifting The One You Love (and Live With)

Now Is Always A Good Time To Give A Gift

Gifts Show "I Took You Into Account. You Are Not Overlooked"

It's never the wrong time to gift a gift to your partner. Really it doesn't matter if it's big or small, expensive or not. What matters is that you offer concrete evidence that you thought about him or her. A gift means "I thought about you. You were on my mind. You are important to me and of all the other things I could have done, I brought you this gift."

A gift to your marriage partner means they are special. It Says, "You Count With Me."

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