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The best advice someone could give to you, if you are willing to listen to it, is to get pre-marital counseling if you are seriously considering marriage. What you don't know about a person CAN hurt you. If I had to do it over again, I would take the person I was dating and pondering marriage with, run their name through a detective search of their criminal background and then introduce them to at least five people who had known me for a long time and who love me dearly and get their impressions of my new love. The people closest to you can always see things from a different perspective than you and can often spot character flaws or serious vices before you can since you are always so blinded by love, infatuation or loneliness. If you have any questions about who they are calling or who is calling you, there is a service that will give you the name of the owner of any cell phone number.

Sometimes no love is better than a bad love! Better to wait than to suffer needlessly. There are some wonderful people in the world and there are some villains, be careful, be watchful.
Important!

The Most Important Thing

is to get help before it too late!

How Can I SAVE my Marriage?

You have to be willing to work at it - here's some help!

What do you do when you want to save your marriage? There are many books and resources to help you in this area. Have you ever stayed awake at night obsessing and stressing over what you are going to do about your marriage? ... and what you can possibly do to save it? You can put an end to the stress and anxiety of not knowing what to do to save your troubled marriage!
There are proven methods to getting your marriage back on track even if you are struggling to communicate with your spouse and you are the only one working on your marriage.
You must apply yourself with the same intensity that you do to your career or your favorite passion to resolve conflicts in a marriage. It can not be left to chance or one person trying to do all the patch work. Two people were joined in holy matrimony, two people are joined in horrible conflict at the same time.

Marriage can be wonderfully sweet, but it takes a lot of effort and mutual respect. First, the parties must know each other as well as possible. So many people go into a marriage relationship half-blind with love or lust and don't have a clue what awaits them. There must be more talking and less courting to ensure that both parties do actually know what the other person thinks about what-if situations. No one can ever know everything that will come into their path, but the big ones are interrelationships with other family members, potential children , in-laws, pets, career changes, thoughts on God and church preferences and how to raise your children in the church. All of these issues must be addressed because they will be addressed by the natural flow and rhythm of life itself.

Better to be prepared about how to agree to disagree than to wait for constant conflict, stress and tension that comes when one is blindsided by a forced choice by the other partner and where there is one way or the highway. Don't wait until that happens. Seek pre-marital and marital counseling to work these issues out fairly with an objective third party that can help you sort out truth from fiction.

Did you do pre--marital counseling and did it help?

How much pre-marital counseling is enough?

I would love to hear what others have to say about how pre-marital counseling can help or enhance their future as a marriage partner.

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Are you and your spouse facing a potential divorce?

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Better to be prepared about how to agree to disagree than to wait for constant conflict, stress and tension that comes when one is blindsided by a forced choice by the other partner and where there is one way or the highway. Don't wait until that happens. Seek pre-marital and marital counseling to work these issues out fairly with an objective third party that can help you sort out truth from fiction.

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  • MarriageSaved Aug 8, 2010 @ 12:27 am | delete
    good lens, the into is a little short though :)

    4/5 stars from me!
  • amandah25 Mar 23, 2010 @ 6:19 pm | delete
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  • Marriage Counselors Sep 5, 2009 @ 5:59 am | delete
    Marriage relationship is not all about to compromise; it is actually about recognizing one spouse's compromise by his/her partner. if you know that your partner is passionate and desperate about you and you also have the same feeling about him, only then marriage relationship goes in a healthy and conflict free way. Sometimes one spouse take advantage of his/her partners emotions because he/she knows that his/her partner can do anything for him. As I already mentioned that it is about recognizing each other compromises and emotions is stead of making fool of your spouse. But the fact is that, not sooner but later your partner will recognize your behavior and try to get rid from you. So please try to trustworthy, passionate, faithful, and honest for your partner. If your partner is not doing the same then it is your partner's mistake, not yours. If couple recognize any such situation and still want to restore marriage relationship can take help of marriage counselors. For more help and support visit us at:
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  • deepansh Aug 21, 2009 @ 6:14 am | delete
    Marriage counseling can help you learn skills to solidify your marriage relationship. These skills may comprise to communicating openly, problems resolving together and discussing differences rationally. In some cases, such as mental illness or substance abuse, your marriage counselor may work with your extra health care professionals to give a full spectrum of treatment. In this helpful marriage counseling , you will learn how to avoid blaming one another and to rediscover what it was that brought you together as a couple in first places. You will explore new way to communicate and to make your needs known to each other in a positive way that helps strengthen your relationship.

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  • Marriage Counseling Jul 21, 2009 @ 2:37 am | delete
    There are so many challenges and difficulties face in couples and families. Whether it is communication problems, infidelity, parenting, substance abuse, or loss of a family member, the professional marriage counseling can be very prove very beneficial for your marriage relationship. There are so many well qualified doctors who have designed special tips for happy marriage which helps solving many marriages problems. They have developed special programs on pre marriage counseling, marital counseling, relationship counseling and marriage guidance that helps couples to work on the causes and solutions for unhappy marriage.
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  • SaveAFailingMarriage Apr 15, 2009 @ 5:17 pm | delete
    Nice lens. It really is good advice to get some help before it's too late. Or even to talk about your marriage with your partner as soon as you see the signs.
  • lizziemcg Apr 1, 2009 @ 1:36 pm | delete
    Thanks for the nice lens. Very helpful.

    Liz McGowen, MA, LCSW
    Marriage Counseling Chicago
  • MommyMachelle Dec 14, 2008 @ 12:15 pm | delete
    Great Len's. Every marriage need tips and tools in order to be successful! Thanks

    Machelle at http://www.mommymachelle.info
  • BethErickson Jul 5, 2008 @ 12:20 am | delete
    A very good lens hope you could visit mine too.. you could leave a comment if you like. :) i give you 5 stars for this.
  • kchiles Mar 23, 2010 @ 9:08 pm | delete
    Thanks so much, Beth! Will do! Kristie

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