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Why Marriages Fail - Marriage Counseling Advice

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The best advice someone could give to you, if you are willing to listen to it, is to get pre-marital counseling if you are seriously considering marriage. What you don't know about a person CAN hurt you. If I had to do it over again, I would take the person I was dating and pondering marriage with, run their name through a detective search of their criminal background and then introduce them to at least five people who had known me for a long time and who love me dearly and get their impressions of my new love. The people closest to you can always see things from a different perspective than you and can often spot character flaws or serious vices before you can since you are always so blinded by love, infatuation or loneliness. If you have any questions about who they are calling or who is calling you, there is a service that will give you the name of the owner of any cell phone number.

Sometimes no love is better than a bad love! Better to wait than to suffer needlessly. There are some wonderful people in the world and there are some villains, be careful, be watchful.

The Most Important Thing

is to get help before it too late!

How Can I SAVE my Marriage? 

You have to be willing to work at it - here's some help!

What do you do when you want to save your marriage? There are many books and resources to help you in this area. Have you ever stayed awake at night obsessing and stressing over what you are going to do about your marriage? ... and what you can possibly do to save it? You can put an end to the stress and anxiety of not knowing what to do to save your troubled marriage!
There are proven methods to getting your marriage back on track even if you are struggling to communicate with your spouse and you are the only one working on your marriage.
You must apply yourself with the same intensity that you do to your career or your favorite passion to resolve conflicts in a marriage. It can not be left to chance or one person trying to do all the patch work. Two people were joined in holy matrimony, two people are joined in horrible conflict at the same time.

Marriage can be wonderfully sweet, but it takes a lot of effort and mutual respect. First, the parties must know each other as well as possible. So many people go into a marriage relationship half-blind with love or lust and don't have a clue what awaits them. There must be more talking and less courting to ensure that both parties do actually know what the other person thinks about what-if situations. No one can ever know everything that will come into their path, but the big ones are interrelationships with other family members, potential children , in-laws, pets, career changes, thoughts on God and church preferences and how to raise your children in the church. All of these issues must be addressed because they will be addressed by the natural flow and rhythm of life itself.

Better to be prepared about how to agree to disagree than to wait for constant conflict, stress and tension that comes when one is blindsided by a forced choice by the other partner and where there is one way or the highway. Don't wait until that happens. Seek pre-marital and marital counseling to work these issues out fairly with an objective third party that can help you sort out truth from fiction.

Did you do pre--marital counseling and did it help? 

How much pre-marital counseling is enough?

I would love to hear what others have to say about how pre-marital counseling can help or enhance their future as a marriage partner.

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Are you and your spouse facing a potential divorce? 

Seek some help, now.

Better to be prepared about how to agree to disagree than to wait for constant conflict, stress and tension that comes when one is blindsided by a forced choice by the other partner and where there is one way or the highway. Don't wait until that happens. Seek pre-marital and marital counseling to work these issues out fairly with an objective third party that can help you sort out truth from fiction.

If you are looking for a resource to help, this one may be of use to you.

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