Extramarital Affairs

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Married and Cheating

Married and cheating sounds like an oxymoron. By all rights it should be. Unfortunately it isn't. In recent studies 50% of the people surveyed admitted to having an extramarital affair at least once. While it's not the only reason the divorce rate stands at about 53%, marriage infidelity is without a doubt one of the prime contributors.

This lens will explore some of the signs, excuses and motivations of a cheating spouse

Tired of That Nagging Feeling?

You hate thinking about it but it just won't go away. It's nothing definite that you can put your finger on yet you know something is happening. Find out in just three minutes if your spouse is cheating on you.

The Reasons 

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Why Do They Do It? 

Because No One Loves Them Like...

A person maybe in a relationship with someone who does everything in their power to please them but it's not enough. So a philandering spouse tells themselves it is different with the other person because they are more in tune with the cheating spouse's needs and desires.

Her Adulterous Husband 

Yeah It's The video age

But fooling around in the middle of an airport is not too smart

Confrontation of a cheating spouse!!

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Why Do They Do It? The Thrill of The Sneak 

The ultimate game of hide and seek.

The meeting of someone new, the coordinating of schedules to make the rendezvous possible, keeping track of their spouse's activities and whereabouts and maybe almost getting caught but due to their fast thinking and luck are able to avert any suspicions.

It is human nature to get a feeling of exhilaration when you are able to do something on the down low and not get caught. For some philandering spouses the process of an extramarital affair is more exciting than the actual affair.

Preventive Measures 

Till Cheating Do Us Part: A Guide to Relationship & Marital Bliss

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Marriage is a union dreamed about by more folks than not. The early perception was that marriage lasted forever; for better or for worse. In today's society, that perception is virtually non-existent. People marry in passing, on a dare, to correct a problem, or even for fun. A long lasting marriage has become an elusive illusion.

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The Skill No Cheating Spouse Can Do Without 

Unless They Want To Get Caught

Marital infidelity requires a constant covering of one's tracks yet many people when trying to catch an unfaithful spouse keep waiting for the big lie to manifest itself, and sometimes it does, but in a lot of instances it is the little ones which expose the most truth.

The one thing about lying is once a cheating spouse starts telling them then it is crucial they remember all of them. If not then they hope like anything your memory is not that good.

What Would You Do? 

Nobody wants to answer that

But with infidelity statistics at 55%, it's something you have to be prepare for.

20/20 "What would you do" cheating spouses

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Romance Without Finance 

The spouse and the other person may enjoy the physical intimacy in the beginning of an extramarital affair but it won't last without the cash.

If you see certain unexplained charges on your credit card statement ask your spouse what's up and gage their reaction. It may not be a full proof system but it can go a long way to confirming your suspicions.

If you have always left the family finances to your significant other you need to change that habit. Otherwise you are asking to be left in the dark.

Took Him Long Enough 

And unfortunately

No matter how he answers, that marriage is in trouble.

They Are Leaving Right ? 

Not necessarily

They have no want or desire to end their marriage. This type of cheating spouse wants it all including

1.The Security

Comfort in being a part of a "cohesive" family unit.

2.The Reckless Kite

No matter how far their dalliances go they know you are there to pull them back even though you yourself have no idea what's going on.

In essence they want to have their cake and everything that goes with it.

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greenh99 wrote

great lens! a lot of hardwork put into it!

Reply Posted September 24, 2008