May You Be The Mother Of A Hundred Sons

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My Review of Elisabeth Bumiller's Book

Elisabeth Bumiller left the Washington Post as a reporter to follow her husband in India. During the four years she stayed there in the '80s, the romantic image she had of India crumbled completely. The chronicle she has assembled about women in India after meeting and interviewing wealthy sophisticated Indians, movie stars in Bollywood, intellectuals in Kolkata, villagers in the northern plains and health workers in the south, after reading numerous reports and articles and after viewing many films is very rich and thought-provoking. Bumiller's writing is not a detached one. She rightly takes side with the women of India who, though guaranteed equality of rights by the Indian constitution, are powerless in many aspects of their lives due to religious and cultural factors. She writes about bride burning; the preference for baby boys in all sections of the population; female infanticide (poor mothers putting their baby girls to "sleep" to free them from a sure and certain harsh life); arranged marriages and the lives of women in the villages of India; and she couldn't miss Bollywood actresses and their role as women. I loved May You be the Mother of a Hundred Sons. I cannot hesitate to recommend it to all those concerned with the status of women in India and throughout the world.

May You Be the Mother of a Hundred Sons: A Journey Among the Women of India

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I would definitely read a book like this. God bless these women, may they find peace..

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Abortion and Female Infanticide in India

In India there are less than 93 females for every 100 males, compared to 105 females to 100 males in most countries. This situation is the result of the widespread practice of female infanticide and abortion of female fetuses. Whereas many poor families are pushed by the dowry system to have recourse to the practice, female infanticide is very common in middle-class families due to preference for boys.

According to researchers, selective abortion has prevented more than 10 million girls from being born in India over the past 20 years. Sophisticated methods of scanning are used by medical experts to determine the sex of the fetus and families are lured by abortion clinics into having recourse to abortion by charging very cheap prices, often even mentioning and comparing the cost of getting rid of a female fetus to that of a dowry, which can be a hundred times or more higher. An abortion may cost as low as INR600 (about $20.)

What is Sati?

Sati is a Hindu practice by which widows immolate themselves, more often by force, on their husbands' pyre. It is believed that originally the term sati derives its origin from the goddess Sati. She immolated herself as a protest against her father's disrespect for Shiva who was her companion According to Hindu mythology she was reincarnated as Parvati.

As Sati did not burn herself on her husband' s pyre., it is not clear how the practice of sati originated, a practice which has caused hundreds of wives to burn themselves either voluntarily or by force over Centuries. Some Indians deny that sati forms part of the Indian mythology.

Although prohibited by law since 1829, there are several cases of sati occurring in India every year.

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  • ShirlW May 29, 2011 @ 6:13 pm | delete
    This definitely sounds like a book I would read. Great review and blessed by a SquidAngel today.
  • darciefrench May 27, 2011 @ 5:59 pm | delete
    I had an Indo-Canadian friend in college- she was afraid her brother would try to kill her for not marrying into their family caste. She ended up moving to the other side of the country.
  • Margo_Arrowsmith May 25, 2011 @ 5:42 am | delete
    I couldn't answer the poll because I haven't read it. But the lens is wrenching. However, the government forced integration here with lots of blood shed and eventually it worked. Hopefully this thousands of years custom will fall to the law also.

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