MiMi's "Teach Children Character"
Building character in your children is probably the most important aspect of your parental life. Being the parent of a child who grows up with emotional intelligence is entirely in your power. A child whose character is developed will have a markedly increased chance for an adulthood that's happier and healthier than could be possible otherwise.
Here, you'll find the motivation and encouragement you may be searching for to help you raise your child to have emotional control — character strength. You'll find it in the form of tips, recommendations, pertinent links, book recommendations, free lesson plans and more.
A Young Person's Bill of Rights
I have a right to live rather than merely exist.
I have a right to personhood rather than being an object of possession.
I have a right to equality with every other human being regardless of age.
I have a right to be respected as a human being.
I have a right to be uniquely myself with my own identity.
I have a right to speak my thoughts and feelings, and to be heard.
I have a right to ask "why?" and to receive an answer.
I have a right to receive discipline without insults, yelling and put-downs.
I have a right to be encouraged to grow to maturity at my own pace.
I have a right to be free of physical harm at the hands of others.
I have a right to be loved for who I am.
I have a right to think for myself and, with guidance, to make my own decisions.
I have a right to be responsible for myself.
I have a right to feel joy, happiness, sorrow, bereavement, and pain.
I have a right to my acheivements and a right to my mistakes.
I have a right to care and be cared for, to give and to receive.
I have a right to develop my own convictions, beliefs and standards.
I have a right to know and experience personal freedom.
I have a right to my own body, mind, and spirit.
I have a responsibility to recognize and accept the rights of others regarding their Bill Of Rights.
—Author Unknown
Character Words
List of Character Words to Teach Your Children
Action
Attentiveness
Attitude
Caring
Compassion
Citizenship
Civility
Contentment
Convictions
Confidence
Cooperation
Courage
Courtesy
Dependability
Determination
Diligence
Empathy
Enthusiasm
Fairness
Feelings
Freedom
Friendship
Generosity
Helpfulness
Honesty
Honor
Hope
Humility
Integrity
Joyfulness
Kindness
Listen
Love
Loyalty
Manners
Obedience
Optimism
Orderliness
Patience
Peace
Perseverance
Punctuality
Reputation
Respect
Responsibility
Self-Control
Sharing
Thankfulness
Teamwork
Thoughtfulness
Togetherness
Tolerance
Trustworthiness
Work
Here's an artistic view of these character words made at Wordle.net. Wordle is free to use. You can also use your results to create and sell t-shirts — even the Wordle creations of other people. Click this Character Wordle to see it big. (Displays using a Java applet.) Top 3 Tips for Raising Mentally Strong Children
No Labels. Never tell your child that he is stupid, not as smart as his sister, uncoordinated, worthless, a mistake... Watch what you say; your child could be scarred for life by careless words.
Be Consistent. Your child needs to know what to expect from you at any given time. Consistency creates the feeling of security that all children crave.
Hug Your Children Often. Children need to feel your touch. Hug them, stroke their hair, give them your warmth!
Character Quotations
Character isn't something you were born with and can't change, like your fingerprints. It's something you weren't born with and must take responsibility for forming. Jim Rohn
Good character is more to be praised than outstanding talent. Most talents are, to some extent, a gift. Good character, by contrast, is not given to us. We have to build it piece by piece — by thought, choice, courage and determination. John Luther
Nearly all men can stand adversity. But if you want to test a man's character, give him power. Abraham Lincoln
Character Lessons Online
Free lessons and sample lessons for building character
- Character Counts!: Free Teaching Tools: Character Education Lesson Plans, Curriculum, Handouts
- Resources that help you teach character to youth.
- The Peaceful Solution Character Education Program... Sample Lesson Plans
- Free Sample Lesson Plans
- Kindness Lesson Plans
- These are geared toward teachers, and since mothers are teachers, too, these will help you teach your child about kindness. :)
- Diversity Appreciation & Understanding | PBS Kids
- Creative, fun, and interesting ways to teach your child about different cultures and tolerance — to name just a couple. Use the dropdown box to select an activity. Really explore this one. It's chock full of learning fun.
- Social & Emotional Development | PBS Kids
- Another PBSKids area teaching emotional and social development. Explore, teach, have fun!
- Teaching Guide Topics for Character Education
- Teaching guides for K-12. Geared in conjunction with videos they have produced; however, there's great information here to create/modify the lessons according to your own needs.
- Helping Your Child Become a Responsible Citizen
- Excellent lesson plans for parents from the US Dept. of Education. View online or download PDF version.
- Education World: Lesson Plans
- A collection of teacher-submitted lesson plans. Though geared toward a classroom, I am sure that you can tweak them into your own character-building lessons for your child.
- Teaching Ideas - Character Education
- Great ideas from teachers. Character lessons/ideas for you to tweak and implement.
- Feelings Game
- Learning About Faces. Free online game teaches the skill of reading emotions.
- Facial Expressions Game
- Very interesting. The child manipulates a woman's face, making her look mad, sad, happy, angry or however they so choose. In this way, they learn how the face conveys emotion.
Character Building Through Talk
Wonderful books for helping your child to think and enjoy the exchange of ideas
If You Had to Choose, What Would You Do?
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It's Up to You... What Do You Do?
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More If You Had to Choose What Would You Do?
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Getting Your Children To Talk
Enhance Dinnertime, Travel
Food for Talk (Recipes for Living Series)
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Food for Talk Travel Deck: Conversation Starters for Families on the Road
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Table Topics Conversation Cards
More ways to grow as a family
Table Topics Conversation Cards - Family Edition
Amazon Price: $25.00 (as of 11/07/2009)
Table Topics Conversation Cards - Family Gathering Edition (Cyan)
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Table Topics Purple Spirit Edition Conversation Cards
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Table Topics Orange Teen Edition Conversation Cards
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Give A Character-Building Party
Fun idea for helping kids learn about character
The nuts and bolts: Invite your child's friends to a Character-Building Party. Plan a few events. Depending upon the weather, it could be horseshoes, a basketball game, swimming, Pin the Tail on the Donkey, or other indoor and outdoor games. Between events, use a dilemmas book or the conversation-starter cards like the preceding ones I've recommended, and select questions to ask the children. They will probably surprise you with their thoughtful answers. You'll, no doubt, be doubly surprised at how much they enjoy this thinking and growing party!
Character Parties Business Idea
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For Entrepreneurial Moms
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Following up on the preceding idea for giving your children a Character Party, why not make a business plan for hosting other Character Parties? Market your business, book your parties and host an organized, memory-making event where children learn about character, emotional intelligence, and social skills in a fun-filled party environment. An inspiring and worthwhile business.
Teaching Your Child to Meditate
Nancy Brady Discusses Child Meditation
Meditation for Children Books
An Anonymous Father's Letter to His Son's Teacher
Old letter stands the test of time
A Word To Teachers
He will have to learn, I know,
that all men are not just,
all men are not true.
But teach him also that
for every scoundrel there is a hero;
that for every selfish politician,
there is a dedicated leader.
Teach him for every enemy there is a friend.
Steer him away from envy,
if you can;
teach him the secret of
quiet laughter.
Let him learn early that
the bullies are the easiest to lick.
Teach him, if you can,
the wonder of books.
But also give him quiet time
to ponder the eternal mystery of birds in the sky,
bees in the sun,
and the flowers on a green hillside.
In the school teach him
it is far more honourable to fail
than to cheat.
Teach him to have faith
in his own ideas,
even if everyone tells him
they are wrong.
Teach him to be gentle
with gentle people
and tough with the tough.
Try to give my son
the strength not to follow the crowd
when everyone is getting on the band wagon.
Teach him to listen to all men,
but teach him also to filter
all he hears on a screen of truth,
and take only the good
that comes through.
Teach him, if you can,
how to laugh when he is sad.
Teach him there is no shame in tears.
Teach him to scoff at cynics,
and to beware of too much sweetness.
Teach him to sell his brawn
and brain to the highest bidders
but never to put a price tag
on his heart and soul.
Teach him to close his ears
to a howling mob
and to stand and fight
if he thinks he's right.
Treat him gently,
but do not coddle him,
because only the test
of fire makes fine steel.
Let him have the courage
to be impatient.
let him have the patience to be brave.
Teach him always
to have sublime faith in himself,
because then he will have
sublime faith in mankind.
This is a big order,
but see what you can do.
He is such a fine little fellow,
my son!
This letter has been widely attributed to Abraham Lincoln, but Lincoln's historians say that he did not write it. However, I believe in this case the most important thing is not the author, but what was written.
Honoring Children of Character
- Two Maryland Youth Honored for Volunteerism
- Madison Mayster, 17, and Connor Dantzler, 14, are honored for their outstanding volunteer work during The 2008 Prudential Spirit of Community Awards in Washington, DC.
- The My Hero Project - Celebrating Young Heroes
- The MY HERO Project Celebrates Young Heroes
All over the world, young people of all ages, races, and nationalities are going above and beyond to be active members of their local and global communities. - BGCA | Youth of the Year
- 61st Winner. Meet Demetrice Tuttle, 2007-2008 National Youth of the Year, a member of Boys & Girls Clubs of West Georgia.
- BGCA | Youth of the Year Speeches
- 2007-2008 Youth of the Year Speeches — including Demetrice Tuttle's. Inspiring. I loved going to the Girls Club back in the day in Wilmington, NC. It is the perfect place for kids who have troubles and woes at home.
The Prudential Spirit of Community Awards Honors Mid and High Schoolers for Their Volunteer Work
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Question For MiMi at Children: Building Character
How can we get tolerance training and confidence courses, etc into public schools?!?
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Kids learn responsiblity, money management, and other great skills!
Visit the lenses below to learn more and to stay in the know:
- Webkinz - Collectible Plush Toy With Interactive Virtual Twist
- We were introduced to Webkinz when our daughter received one for her birthday. The little stuffed poodle came with instructions to go to the webkinz website to adopt and care for the Webkinz.
- Webkinz World
- Are you new to the world of Webkinz? Maybe you or your child have been kinzing for a while but don't have much time to put into figuring it all out. This is the place to find out cool tips and news from Webkinz World.I update this lens daily so keep checking back!
- Webkinz In the News
- Maybe you are a true fan, like me, or maybe you are a Webkinz collector - either way, you want to keep up on what is happening with our favorite furry pets!I will share with you all the news I find, so you can be the first on your block to know the latest!
- Kid's Birthdays: Webkinz ~ Animal Theme Based Party Ideas
- I decided to create this page to help anyone interested in throwing a Webkinz or animal themed birthday party for their child.Party Invitations ~ Pinata Ideas ~ Balloons ~ Party Favors ~ Games ~ Crafts ~ and More!
- Webkinz Secret Recipes
- How many Webkinz Secret Recipes are out there? It's hard to say, but one thing is for sure, there will always be new webkinz recipes to be discovered.Ganz is constantly releasing new recipes each month for your pet to enjoy in Webkinz World.
- Webkinz For Sale
- How big of a Webkinz Fan are you? I am a big fan of the popular stuffed animal plush toys called Webkinz. Have you heard of them? If not then this lens is where you will learn more about the Webkinz animals and tips and secrets to use with them.
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Squids Care
Other Lensmasters Who Care About Children
- Nurturing Imagination
- When my boys turned 7 and 4, a dear friend gave them each one of the best gifts they've ever received. They were capes, homemade capes made from a silky king-sized bed sheet she had picked up at a yard sale.
- Television and Children
- With the right programming, a television can provide entertainment and education for children. However, as we all know there is a significant amount of violence, harsh language, and sexually explicit content as well as agressive marketing which most professionals and parents wish to eliminate for young children.
- What happened to RECESS?
- Do you remember the games you played during recess as a child? Think about all the physical activity that involved and what you learned from those recess games.Did you know that more and more recess is being replaced by testing and homework? While children are becoming fatter and fatter, schools are eliminating the time for them to exercise, socialize and think creatively.
Important Books for Building Character
Books for you; books for your children
Recommend your favorite from the list by voting for it, or add and vote for your own recommendation.
Inspiring Online Book
Online Parenting Classes
Learn, update parenting skills at home
- Active Parenting Today Online Groups
- From the website: How can I be sure I'm giving my kids what they really need to succeed? You care about parenting and want your children to grow into healthy, cooperative, productive adults.
- Online Parent Class
- From the website: Online Parent Class features the world's most comprehensive, approved, completely online parenting class. Free Certificate of Completion.
- Connection Parenting Workshops
- From the website: Parenting education and parenting advice, child development consulting, parenting workshops and classes, from child birth through the teen years.
- The Happy Family Parenting Course
- A four-part parenting course from ValuesParenting.com -- one that helps give you control of your family's destiny. (There is a one-time $50.00 registration to become a member of this site, ValuesParenting.com, and to receive access to all the benefits listed here.
Toss and Learn
Throw a ball; reinforce learning
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Character-Building
Site Spotlight
- Raising Kids with Character - FamilyEducation.com
- From the site: We've gathered a host of expert answers to your most pressing character concerns.
Character-Building CD
Songs and activities
Words Kids Need To Hear
Book by David Staal
In his book, Words Kids Need To Hear, David Staal says the following seven words and phrases are the most important for your children to hear. Please vote for what you think is the most important word or phrase:
Award and Recognize
Everyone loves to be loved!
- Award Certificates
- Positive parenting means letting your child know how you value their efforts. Award your child for being kind, helpful, making the right choice, working hard, etc.
- Award maker at Lakeshore Learning
- Online award maker. Fill in the blanks, and your award or certificate will print out on regular-size paper.
- Printable Certificates for Kids - Free, Printable Award Certificates
- Create a fun certificate to give to someone special.
- Award Certificates for Home and School
- The Squidoo Guide to Printable Awards and Achievement Certificates for kids and adults.
Unique Children's Gifts
My Favorite Websites for Character-Building Information
Learn more about raising children of character
by Christine Carter, UC BerkeleyKidsDiscuss: Parents learn character-building skills. Free parenting articles and free newsletter.Character.org: Developing young people of good character who become responsible and caring citizens.
CharacterCounts.org: The most widely implemented approach to character education -- embraced by thousands of schools, communities, public agencies and nonprofits.
The Virtues Project: The Mission of The Virtues ProjectTM is to provide empowering strategies that inspire the practice of virtues in everyday life through programs of excellence and simplicity which support people of all ages to cultivate their virtues -- the gifts of character.
Motivational Speaker for Kids
Perhaps the Next Mr. Rogers
Respect Poll
The most influential person in a child's life is who he or she respects the most.
Character Education Latest Blog Discussion
The latest blog posts about Character Education
- Character Education - Independent School Educators network
- I am interested in learning about the character education initiatives of your school. Thanks!
- TRAINING FOR THE FUTURE: Vilonia Primary awarded for character ...
- Wallace said they are constantly re-evaluating all of their character education programs to make sure they are working. However, being recognized by a national organization - that means a lot, Wallace said. ?It confirms what we already ...
- Schools reward good character
- This month, the Arizona Character Education Foundation celebrates 10 years of helping youths lead lives that reflect the six pillars of character: trustworthiness, fairness, respect, responsibility, caring and dedication to citizenship. ...
- Achiever McBeaver Character Education Supports President Obama's ...
- In response to that need and to help kids dream, the Achiever McBeaver and the College Crew Character Education program puts a very large focus on helping kids value the idea of attending college. President Obama is exactly right! ...
Character Education Latest News
The latest news about Character Education
- General Colin Powell Receives American Patriot of Character Award
- About CEP Character Education Partnership advocates for quality, comprehensive character education in our nation's schools. It is a national, nonpartisan, ...
- Around Crownsville/Gambrills: South Shore Elementary earns 'Character' title
- This one is bright yellow and proclaims: "Maryland Character Education School." "It's important in our society that we have students of character," said Dr. ...
- Jefferson City Schools adding Character Education
- JEFFERSON CITY, MO (KBIA) - Jefferson City High School and Simmons Middle School are implementing a new program to bring character education into the ...
- Florida schools teach respect, kindness and forgiveness along with academics
- Kindergarten teacher Jenny Kamla works with her kids on character education at the Webster School in St. Augustine. When Jenny Kamla's 19 kindergarten ...
Character Building Latest Blog Discussions
The latest blog posts about Character Building
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- Destructoid - Preview: Rooms: The Main Building
- As I mentioned before, Rooms: The Main Building is a puzzle game. The premise is that the main character receives an invitation to a different world, and upon accepting the invitation, the player is transported to the world that Rooms ...
- Halifax News Net: News | Character-defining chimney could be gone ...
- Although the Development Agreement set up in 2007 allows for the original brick exterior of the Greenvale School building to be covered with an Exterior Insulation Finish System, it outlines several other character defining elements ...
Character Building Latest News
The latest news about Character Building
- Professional Coaches and Athletes Provide Advice to Youth Sports Parents and ...
- PCA trains workshop attendees to create a positive, character-building environment for youth athletes, replacing the prevalent win-at-all-cost mentality. ...
- Hamilton Determined to Get Back on Top
- "Every single experience you have, and they're mostly the bad experiences, are the character-building ones. It's how you overcome it, how you bounce back ...
- St. Louis University's Aimee Warnke prepares for Ironman World championships
- Hers is a little light on internships, volunteer work and character-building minimum wage jobs. In their place: class valedictorian, Army ROTC candidate, ...
- Jim Tressel plans March visit
- by Tim Troglen Hudson -- What better way to wrap up a month dedicated to character building than with a visit from five-time national champion college ...
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Teaching Emotional Intelligence
Raise your child's EQ!
Free Stickers
"Pay It Forward"
Promote the pay-it-forward attitude with these stickers. In PDF format, you'll need Adobe Acrobat — most computer users have this already — and Avery #5732 labels. Do you strive to be a better parent?
Please post your questions, concerns, or comments below; I'd love to hear from you.
aj2008 wrote...
This is one of the first lenses I ever visited on Squidoo and it had a great impact on me. I wasn;t an Angel then but I am now, so I am very pleased to be able to Bless it.
Posted November 05, 2009
KathyMcGraw wrote...
I know I have read this before, but for some reason I am back again. The lessons are timeless, and with each reading they say something else to my soul. It is wonderful that you have been able to impart all this with your grandson, he is one lucky boy to have you as his grandmother.
Posted October 31, 2009
LoKackl wrote...
What a wonderful resource for parents. Impressive balance between emotion and reason, to mirror what good parents try to achieve. Love your dedication, commitment to this topic.
Posted October 18, 2009
LeanneChesser wrote...
Excellent lens. Character education is something I focused on as a teacher and as a mom. I really like how you not only present "external" information on teaching character, but also on building character from the inside out. Lensrolled to my emotional intelligence lens. 5 stars.
Posted October 10, 2009
Heather426 wrote...
Wonderful lens, Mimi! So much time went into it, obviously, and like all of yours, you give so much! I am emailing it, besides, 5*,lensroll, fave.
Posted October 03, 2009
24websurf wrote...
Why have I never seen this lens? Having you had it tucked away somehwere? I really thought I had seen them all! This is a truly a work from the heart. It's though provoking and leads us as parents or grandparents to think about what we are teaching as we speak and act. Wonderful lens, MiMi! I'll just bet you are an awesome Mom and grandmother! I already know you are a wonderful friend :)
Posted September 26, 2009
Spook wrote...
It is incomprehensible to me Mimi, that I have never commented or rated this lens. Something wrong there. Oh! well, better late than never. In my teenage years I was always in trouble, especially at boarding school and gave my parents a lot of heartache. My kids are grown up now and I'm thankful to say, they never gave me the slightest bit of trouble. I think it has to do with learning from every bodies mistakes in life and letting children be children. However it is imperative that they must know right from wrong. Have a lovely day.
Posted September 15, 2009
sharpturn wrote...
This lens should be made into a booklet and handed to every new parent in the hospital delivery room.
Posted September 10, 2009
BevsPaper wrote...
This struck such an emotional chord! Having heard the words all my life...If you hadn't been born I could have (fill in the blanks). Parenthood for me was making sure that my girls never felt unwanted or unloved. Raising our children to have good character is a responsibility that many don't even consider. Thank you for this wonderful explanation!
Posted September 06, 2009
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