mind reading

A persons pupils get bigger when they are aroused, interested and/or receptive. If you look into his or her eyes and see those pupils growing large - it's looking good for you. Basically, big pupils (unless it's just dark) mean a person likes what they see.

Try this experiment, and you'll understand how immediate this effect can be. Go right now and look in the mirror at your own eyes. As you look at them, imagine a sexy man or woman you are attracted to - in whatever way would turn you on. You'll see that your pupils get bigger in just seconds.

Actually, if you love to fish, they may get big just thinking about a lake you love. Anything you like to look at can make your pupils bigger. How do you use this knowledge to read minds?

First, watch for changing of pupil size to know if someone is interested in you or what you have to say. Shrinking or pupils generally mean the person is not interested. Be careful to note if light in the persons eyes is causing the shrinking pupils, or if a darkening room is causing the pupil enlargement.

Besides judging the general level of interest and/or receptivity to you, you can use pupil size to go a little deeper into a person's mind. For example, during the course of a conversation, you could describe various scenes or delve into different topics, while watching the persons pupils. Suppose his pupils shrank at the mention of skiing, and got huge when you described a beach you like. You can be fairly certain they would like the Bahamas over a ski resort.

One thing about this little mind reading trick is that you can easily test it and refine your technique. Practice and read minds with a friend whose interests you know already. Just watch this or her pupils as you describe various places or even ideas. Try getting them to visualize, by saying something "Remember how that car of yours looked," to see if that gets a bigger pupil response.

Watching a persons eyes doesn't have to be limited to checking on that pupil size, though. Just by watching where those eyes go, for example, you can learn a lot. Notice what kind of women a man looks at. Is he paying any attention to the game on the TV? Does he seem bored or interested as he looks at different things? Reading eyes is a good start to reading minds.