Moissanite or Diamond, which is better?
Better is all about what's important to you and you alone! But there is another high quality, near colorless gemstone with TONS of sparkle on the market to give Diamond a run for it's money, Moissanite! The picture to the left is of my 1ct moissanite white gold Solstice ring. It was my test piece I wore daily to prove to my now husband that moissanite was the way to go for my engagement ring. It just made sense financially and I have an extremely beautiful ring.
Quick Facts
- Moissanite is a near colorless gemstone.
Most common Diamonds are classified in this range. - Moissanite ranks 9.25 on the Mohs Hardness scale making it the second hardest gem.
Diamond ranks 10 making it the hardest gem. - Moissanite possess more fire or dispersion (the flashes) at .104
Diamond rates considerably lower at .044 - Moissanite also has a higher refractive index or brilliance (the sparkle) at 2.65
Diamond comes in at 2.42 - Moissanite is only available as a lab-created stone as its natural state is not found on Earth (it was discovered in a meteorite).
Diamond is readily available in its natural state and there are now companies creating lab-created diamond see Apollo, Gemesis, Takara or even Life Gem. - Moissanite costs a fraction of its diamond equivalent.
Diamonds are sold to us as an "investment", but the average consumer isn't purchasing investment grade stones and very few jewelers will buy them back at full price unless you "upgrade" with a more expensive stone. - One company Charles and Colvard holds the patent for jewelry grade moissanite.
One company has been known for controlling the diamond market and its prices.
Wow, so I'll save lots of money with a moissanite engagment ring!
Probably, but do NOT make that choice for her!
Ask most women and none would turn down a diamond, but that doesn't mean there are not other alternatives that are just as beautiful, if not more. However, and take this advice at what you may gentleman... society has us trained that diamonds and engagement go hand-in-hand. Buying an alternative gem without being 100% sure of her opinion may get an unpleasant reaction. Even more dubious is trying to pass that alternative off as diamond. One day while getting her ring cleaned at a jewelers she will find out the truth, and it probably won't turn out pretty. As long as your beloved knows the truth, no one else has to.The best news is just about all of us are so diamond engagement brainwashed that we'll automatically accept a high quality colorless gem like moissanite in an engagement ring as diamond. With a sparkle like moissanite has it's hard not to think of it like a diamond. My 3 stone engagement ring in the picture above is fawned over by strangers that have no idea it isn't "real". Especially mall jewelers... they coo over my "ideal" cut so sparkley diamond.
Guys if moissanite sounds like your dream come true for an engagement ring, but you aren't sure how to get your lady on board? Try introducing the gem as another jewelry gift. It'll be your chance to educate her and fall in love with the stone on her own.
The 4C's of Moissanite
Although an official grading system is not in place, the majority of moissanite fall into these diamond grading scales.
- Color: The gem typically falls into the near colorless range of a diamond F-G-H-I, but a slight green or yellowish undertone can be found in some in particular lighting. Round Brilliant faces up the whitest. Fancy shapes hold more of the slight green/yellow body color. When buying from any online store where you won't be able to see the moissanite before purchasing, make sure they have a return policy if you get a stone with more color than you like.
- Clarity: VS1-VS2. Moissanite should be eye clean, but under magnification needle or tube like inclusions from the creation process can be seen.
- Carat: Keep in mind that carat is a weight, not a size. Gemstones are typically sized by MM. For example a 6.5MM round moissanite is the equivalent to a 1ct round diamond. Check out the Actual Diamond Sizes for a complete list of sizes.
- Cut: Moissanite would not be as beautiful if it were cut to the same proportions as diamond due to differing optical properties. This brochure from the manufacture explains how they developed the specifications for cutting moissanite: Cut Brochure in PDF format
Shape: Moissanite comes in several different shapes, the best way to view them all (other than in person) is the manufacturer's brochure:
Shapes & Sizes in PDF format
Do your Homework
- Charles & Colvard
- The manufactures web site.
- Diamonds Suck
- An essay on why this person chose a moissanite engagement ring over diamond. Great personalized information.
- SimsTalk
- Forums devoted to stimulant gemstones where you can get the experiences others have had with moissanite.
- JCPenney Moissanite
- If you live near a JCPenney's this is probably the easiest way to see moissanite in person. However there are much higher quality online vendors out there as I found JCPenney's to be overpriced and the settings lacked in quality. Ready made jewelry doesn't always have the best stones either.
- Wiki link on Moissanite
- It's used for much more than just jewelry.
- Actual Diamond Sizes
- Remember carat weight is not the same as size. Two one carat diamonds can be different MM sizes. This chart will help you convert the average MM size to Carat weight.
Reasons you wouldn't call moissanite a man-made diamond.
- It does not have the same chemical make-up of a diamond. Moissanite was discovered from a fallen star. It's not a natural element to earth like diamond is.
- It is double-refractive (the reason it throws off more sparkles). Diamond is single-refractive. To a trained eye this is the most common trait that will "give away" a Moissanite.
- Moissanite is naturally green. Diamonds can be colored too, but colorless is the most common.
- Moissanite is not graded like diamonds. It's all priced by size and treated the same regardless of any color differences.
Just for Fun!
An Average Price Comparison updated June 30, 2009
I took Blue Nile's search engine filtering for the 4C's that moissanite is equivalent to diamond in to show you the difference in $$$. I choose the cheapest diamond of the selection.
The filter selections were as follows: Color F-I, Clarity VS1-VS2, Cut Ideal, Carat see below, Shape round. The prices on Moissanite come from MoissaniteCo.com's loose stone selection.
- .5 CT Ideal Cut, I Color, VS2: $953
.5 CT equivalent Moissanite: $119
Difference: $834
- .75 CT Ideal Cut, H Color, VS2: $2,336
.75 CT equivalent Moissanite: $249
Difference: $2,087
- 1 CT Ideal Cut, I Color, VS2: $4,451
1 CT equivalent Moissanite: $319
Difference: $4,132
- 1.5 CT Ideal Cut, I Color, VS2: $8,434
1.5 CT equivalent Moissanite: $579
Difference: $7,855
- 2 CT Ideal Cut, I Color, VS2: $15,064
2 CT equivalent Moissanite: $730
Difference: $14,334
- 2.5 CT Ideal Cut, H Color, VS1: $31,614
2.5 CT equivalent Moissanite: $930
Difference: $30,684
- 3.00 CT Ideal Cut, H Color, VS2: $41,977
3 CT equivalent Moissanite: $1,250
Difference: $40,727
Why I told my fiance to go with Moissanite
- I wanted a high quality elaborate setting. Most diamond jewelers pushed us to spend the majority of our budget on the stone and skimp on the setting.
- I couldn't justify spending thousands and then having my heart stop if I happen to drop my ring on the tile bathroom floor or if the cat decides to use it as a hockey puck down the floor vent or god-forbid some one were to steal it. Edit: My heart still stops every time I even bump my engagement ring... but it's not for fear of what it cost; it's because it's so darn gorgeous I don't want to ever hurt it. I'm very clumsy and hard on my jewelry and I have yet to scratch or ding any of my moissanite. From my 4 year old pieces to my wedding set. All the stones are as gorgeous as the day I got them.
- I still wanted a colorless diamond-like gem with great sparkle that wouldn't become cloudy or scratched up. Moissanite fits that. CZ doesn't. Other colorless gemstones lacked the fire and sparkle. Moissanite has more than even diamond.
- I own other moissanite pieces, love them and get compliments on them. And yes, people assume they are diamonds unless I tell them otherwise. Sometimes I do and sometimes I just smile at their presumptuousness. Moissanite isn't well known where I live, which is probably why so many are fooled into thinking it is a diamond.
- I don't put a whole lot of stock into what other's think about my engagement and wedding rings. I love them and my husband is proud of them, and that's what matters most.
However, there are people that turned their noses up, or rather looked down on us after we told them the ring they were just admiring isn't actually diamond. My husband, who took awhile to convince, now looks at this kind of turn about reaction as a way these people justify their own preconceived notions on diamonds, especially the ones that have plunked down quite a bit more cash for rings not nearly as impressive. After all, he felt that way once too.
Our Moissanite Wedding Rings, photography by KandEproductionsonline.com
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- Elisabella Elisabella Aug 6, 2009 @ 3:09 am
- Heh, my fiance suggested getting moissanite instead of diamond for my engagement/wedding rings...I stared at him like he lost his mind. His reasoning was we could get a "bigger, nicer one" for less...I said he was right about the bigger part. My engagement ring is 1/3 carat and my wedding ring is 1/2 ct TW and I am so much happier with them. I don't know if he understands even now why I'd rather have a small diamond than a large moissanite, but my mom does ;)
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- t_j_o t_j_o Jun 30, 2009 @ 9:21 pm
- I proposed with a moissanite engagement ring... mostly because my fiancée wanted a colorless stone and because I have serious reservations about the diamond industry. The great thing is that the purchase was less than I originally budgeted; so I was able to donate the remainder of my budget in her name to her favorite charities (UNICEF and a local animal shelter). She loves the ring! It sparkles, is colorless and is really arresting... plus, she loves the fact that most of our budget went to worthy organizations.
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- Nibbled Nibbled Jun 30, 2009 @ 11:30 am | in reply to lolabettie
- Hi Lola,
Thanks for writing! Our rings came from an online company that is no longer around. Moissaniteco.com gets good reviews in the forums I visit, but I don't have any direct experience buying from them yet.
My stones are white 90% of the time, but the main stone does change color depending on light. This happens most often on an overcast gloomy day and it takes on a pale yellow/green tinge.
Keep in mind that the bigger the stone the more noticeable the color changes will be. Round shapes will show up white more often than any of the fancy shapes. Yellow gold settings can make moissanite or diamonds look yellower.
For someone sensitive to color I'd stick with a round shape 2 carats or under in size for a main stone, use a white gold or platinum setting and buy from somewhere with a good return policy in case you get a stone with more body color than you prefer. Test it out in many different light settings.
Congratulations!
Jillian
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- lolabettie lolabettie Jun 7, 2009 @ 7:51 pm
- Jillian, where did you purchase your rings Online or a store? Your stones look incredibly white in the picture you posted? Are they that brilliant in person.
I'm also going with a Moissanite for my engagement, and all thanks to Blood Diamond and a whole lot of reading on my own. Thanks for all the great information on this site!
~Lola
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- hlkljgk hlkljgk May 7, 2009 @ 3:31 pm
- i love my engagement ring, but knowing what i know now, i would have asked for moissanite. fyi: i worked in a jewelry store a while back, and the basic diamond tester would read moissanite as a diamond...
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