My Favorite "Momwear"

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Most moms have a go-to "uniform." Here's mine...

Back in B.C. days (before children), I used to comb through vintage stores for the coolest '30s through '70s gear I could find, then pair it eccentrically with funky and/or punky footwear and accessories. I still have some favorite items from that era: Shortened to knee length and spruced up with some minor repairs, those '40s dresses still work for a dinner out. But for the most part, the old wardrobe just doesn't cut it as for life as a mom of 3. Comfort is king now. Simplicity rules. But I have found, luckily, that there are ways to work little bits of personal style into a basic momwear template. Here's what you'll see me in almost every day...

1. Pants that always feel good 

A key style moment came when I realized I just don't have closet space for pants that only feel good when I've been running every day and eating salads. I need things that magically fit, and look okay, within a several-pound range. I also have more or less lost patience for dryclean-only pants. Once in a blue moon, sure. But not day to day.

Nine days out of 10, I grab jeans. I am a Levi's girl. Flirted a bit with fancier types, but the bottom line is I feel most comfortabe in the brand I wore as a kid. Only now instead of bell-bottoms and my kid brother's hand-me-down 501s, I wear 504s:

 

Levi's 504 Juniors' Tilted Straight Jean, Show Stopper, 9 Short

Amazon Price: $29.99 (as of 12/23/2009)Buy Now

Why do I love these? Let me count the ways.

They're narrow and straight, but not TOO skinny--so they wear well, in my opinion, on gals of all ages. They come in nice dark washes (my personal fave); in short, medium, and long inseams; and in szs 0 (yeah, I know--whatever) to 17. The "tilted" design helps prevent accidental backside flashes at school functions--never a great thing!

They won't give you that designer cache, but who cares? I don't want to spend too much--or try too hard--with my jeans.

 

I like a nice bootcut, too, and have worn the 518s for years:

LevisĀ® Strauss 518 Superlow Bootcut Juniors Jeans - Available in Many Colors!, Size: 5 x Medium, Color: Blue Rider

Amazon Price: (as of 12/23/2009)Buy Now

Don't be scared off by the "superlow" moniker. The rise on these is 8 inches, which is decidedly below the belly button but downright modest compared to most designer brands.

"B.C." style--Spain, 1986

 

Back in the day--jr. year of college, to be exact--there was no such thing as too much denim! That classic jacket could still work today, if only it were mine and not borrowed. But my skirt in this shot would be too long and voluminous now. And the dyed-black hair would look severe on my 40something self.

Let's face it--jeans can be tough. Hasn't Oprah done 50 shows on jeans alone? Here's a chance to share, if you dare. (If you're like me, you may irrationally fear a run on your jeans, so that when you need 'em they'll be gone! Aagh!)

Which are your absolute favorite jeans? 

Brand, model, price, whatever you want to share. Thanks!

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And a cold-weather alternative...

Corduroys are another holdover from childhood. I just love 'em. I've worn many brands, but my favorite is American Apparel's unisex variety. Full disclosure: These pants are unnecessarily pricey. They fit weird, in that if you try the same size in two different colors, or whatever, you may have a completely different experience. (Why? Beats me. It's just one of the little quirks that those of us who love these pants--and if you check out the customer reviews, you'll see we are legion--have to put up with.) The two shades of gray are almost the same--why did they bother? The inseam is super long, which I like but others may hate.

But when all is said and done, there's just something about these cords. Sigh.

2. Cotton tank tops 

Once in a while I grab a Michael Stars tank on sale. Those, and the stretchy, supportive (if a bit short) American Apparel camis I like in the summer, have the side benefit of being U.S. made, if you're on the buy-American bandwagon. OId Navy is a great source for well-priced cotton tanks and camis in many colors--often at a volume discount. But my favorites right now are from Gap. They fit nice, feel nice, and last I checked were on sale for $10 each. Not bad.

Cotton tanks are ubiquitous, yes, but it's easy to see why. They're simple, comfy, great for layering, machine washable, and--my favorite part--come in loads of colors. I make these "me" through eccentric (some might say iffy) color combos. To that end I also enlist...

3. Cardigans 

I've been a cardigan fan forever and have amassed a sizeable collection over the past 20 or so years, from vintage items to paper-thin cotton to chunky grandpa types. J. Crew has always been a great sweater source, and 2 of my most complimented cardigans (including the red one at right) came from their final-sale clearance events. Gap is coming through this year, too, with cute cotton cardigans in many colors.

Cardigans are terrific layering tools for areas like mine where the weather is unpredictable and, often, chilly. They also are perfect for the eccentric color combining I mentioned earlier. You don't have to be eccentric, of course. You can go conservative or classic or whatever you like.

Cardigan Care

Cotton sweaters and more delicate tops seem to last longer when I wash them in lingerie bags. They're not just for undies! Works well for scarves and tights, too.

 

Life is too complicated for complicated clothes...

Simplify shirt

4. Scarves and Costume Jewelry 

I love pretty necklaces--Anthropologie sales are a fave source--but lately have been more into scarves. They're harder to lose (a major factor when you struggle with ADD symptoms) and come in a million colors and patterns. Depending on the size and fabric, they can also help keep you cozy.

The price range on scarves is kind of nuts, but you can find really cute, cheap ones at Forever 21. Roughly *none* of the clothing at Forever 21 is appropriate for me, but I love the scarves and wear them all the time. Scarves are a no-brainer for a cheap wardrobe update. Florals, animal prints, whatever trend you're digging at the moment--if you can't afford it in a top or a dress right now, grab it in scarf form for $5-$20.

 

Pretty! And under 10 bucks from Forever 21.

 

Links on Scarf Tying

Brooks Brothers online reference
How-tos for several classy variations
Texere Silk's guide
Cute illustrations and diagrams
A nice Squidoo lens on the subject
Filled with handy polaroids and tips

 

Support Indie Designers!

Shop Etsy for pretty scarves, jewelry, and more. You'll support independent artists and craftspeople--plenty of whom are probably work-at-home moms :) And you'll find handmade and vintage items nobody else will be wearing. Some Etsy sellers even support charitable causes, like the ones featured below. How cute is their jewelry??

 

Some Etsy sellers combine business with charitable goals. For example, this one makes micro-loans through Kiva, and aren't these wood pendants adorable?

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Jangle Some Bangles

Bangle bracelets come in endless colors and styles to wear in any quantity and combination. I've amassed quite a collection of beaded, stretchy ones in addition to the more traditional type. Forever 21, while not much of a source for age-appropriate "momwear" clothing, is a cheap-jewelry paradise, with tons of cute bangle sets well under $10. So you can build your own collection.

 

"B.C." style--San Francisco, early '90s

 

This vintage red velveteen coat was dirt-cheap and very, very long. Too easy to trip on while chasing babies. And by the time my babies had grown past the chasing stage, the coat was too dusty and moth-eaten for alterations. :( Thanks for the memories!

5. Flat footwear 

In my closet are some adorable pointy-toed, highish-heeled shoes that are a direct result of watching "What Not to Wear" for several years while folding piles of little-boy laundry. I weaned myself off the show once I realized it was promoting overspending, especially on impractical (for moms) items like structured jackets, dryclean-only blouses, and the aforementioned high, pointy shoes. I still like those shoes and will pull them out for special occasions, but the fact is, the heels sink into a soccer field like nobody's business ;)

Like many women, I do enjoy shoes, though. That's why I'm so grateful for the explosion of cute **flats** over the years since I stopped watching "What Not to Wear." I still pinch myself sometimes at the variety of flats now available in every style, color, and price range. Long may they live!

If you're on a shoestring, Gojane.com is a source for dozens of cute flats under $20, like the denim pair below. (Pointy flats are back!)

 

 

Take another look at Keds...

Believe it or not, that third row of flats, above, is all Keds.
Folks like fashion designers Nanette Lepore and rock poster artist Eleanor Grosch have helped spice up the iconic but previously bland brand over the past few years. Or YOU can be the designer and create your own Keds at Zazzle. Here are a couple--shameless plug!--that I made from my kids' artwork:

Karate Kat lovely leaves kedsshoe Karate Kat color flurry kedsshoe

High heels: Love 'em or hate 'em? 

Is there a place for high heels in Momland?

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Heck yeah! I love heels, and motherhood hasn't stopped me from rocking them.

GrowWear says:

Dread when I won't ever be able to get my arthritic feet into a pair of heels again. But, they aren't a daily habit by a long shot, now!

NanLT says:

When I developed bone spurs the physical therapist recommended I wear at least a 1.5 - 2 inch heel. I've actually found that I do best with a heel of between 2.5 - 3 inches. Sometimes I can get away with a 1 inch heel, but I pay for it later. Full flats are completely out for me though.

Wysiwigs says:

Definitely not for daily living, but for something special? Absolutely! :o)

No can do. Thank G*d flats are back.

lakern26 says:

I've never been a fan of heels, but I do wear them when I dress up.

Joan4 says:

I have not worn heels in years!

tandemonimom says:

I gave up heels long before I had kids, actually! I'm plenty tall without, and I have a bad back which they don't help at all.

aj2008 says:

I love heels, but when you have balance and co-ordination problems like I do at the moment, not a good idea!

Evelyn_Saenz says:

I go for flat shoes all the way. Comfort is very important.

 
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Look Good, Do Good

For every pair of Toms shoes you purchase, the company gives a pair to a child in need. And you get to feel like you're wearing your slippers outside :)

 

I got these red plaid Toms (right) at a great price using an online coupon code. I'd love to pick up a polkadotted, tie-dyed, or striped pair. For a bit of extra cash, you can choose from extra-cool versions by artist Tyler Ramsey and graphic designer Gabe Lacktman.

 

Jellies: Take Another Look!

A true love 'em or hate 'em shoe born in the '80s, plastic "jellies" have matured this year into pretty--yes, pretty--little flats that survive every type of sloppy summer scene with just a hose-off. Here are the ones I've been wearing with shorts and cotton sundresses...

 

Grendha Women's Show Sandal-Jellies,Gold,8 M

Amazon Price: (as of 12/23/2009)Buy Now

At this price, I grabbed 2 pair--black and gold. Adorable, waterproof, and the polka-dot holes provide ventilation.

Boots rule!

 

Alas, I don't own these classic Frye boots, but I have amassed a small collection in my ongoing hunt for The Perfect Boot. Scrawny calves, like mine, or very athletic ones can make this a challenge. But it's so worth it. Boots are the best.

 

Rainy-day staples...

In the Chicago area we have 4 seasons: Rain, summer, rain, and winter. So I spend a lot of time in an ancient pair of Hunter wellies. Love or hate them, these are the ultimate in practical gear for wet days. And it seems like they're everywhere now in the shops--from Marc Jacobs (rumored to be offering adorable ones at $28!) to Target and the mall.

 

And cool snowboots...

I broke my flats-only rule, and my budget, to pick up some Aquatalia boots for winter. Ended up wearing them at least 5,000 times and plan on doing the same, sigh, again next year. It snows a LOT here. I tuck cords or jeans into these, and they pretty much handle whatever flies at us.

Sierra Trading Post is a good source for winter boots and always has a promotion going on. I got the Aquatalia boots there for way below retail. Be sure to check the promo code sites before you buy at Sierra--or anywhere, really. You never know when a good coupon will pop up.

 

Amazon has boots!

Sometimes at dramatically reduced prices. If you know what you want, or at least know what brands fit you, check Amazon before buying elsewhere. Boots are an investment, but why pay more than you have to?

Here are some spiffy limited-edition styles. Amazon has raised the prices since I first posted these here, but they're still heavily discounted.

 

Skinny Calves?

My boot fixation is reined in somewhat by scrawny calves. Many a gorgeous pair has flopped around too much when I've tried them on. Luckily there are some boot styles that work--like stretch leather and lace-ups. I wrote all about these on this lens, so check it out if you have the same issue.

 

It's so flippin' hot...

Flip-flops will always have their detractors, but there's nothing better for a muggy, messy day with kids. Old Navy does great colors every summer for cheap--I'm a big fan. But Havaianas (right) just keep getting better. 24 bucks for a rubber shoe? It's a little nuts. But they feel great, and what fun.

Stomping around NYC, 1993

 

Remember Sex and the City when Carrie goes nuts over Manolo Blahnik Mary Janes? Well, I had some prized MJs, too, but mine were Doc Martens. The left leg left belongs to the guy I would marry, two years later. And the rest is history <3

6. Easy summer dresses 

For the really hot days, I need ease and good "ventilation"! I wait until summer sales in July-August and pick up cute dresses for cheap, like the one above from Urban Outfitters. (It's a bit shorter than I normally favor, but not obscene, and okay with flats. Plus the neckline is super flattering.) I wash sundresses in large lingerie bags with our other laundry and wear 'em into the ground. Skip the trendy hems (bubble, asymmetrical, etc.) and wear your dresses for years. You can always trend them up with reasonable versions of whatever shoes and jewelry are in vogue. Some sundresses even look good for fall with tights and a little cardigan.

 

Levi's Women's Trucker Jacket,Flirty,X-Large

Amazon Price: (as of 12/23/2009)Buy Now

I may be revisiting my old denim-jacket days this fall. All the style mags lately suggest taking summer dresses into fall with a jean jacket and tights. Cute! I think I'll try it.

What's in your closet? 

Okay, I've shared my momwear staples. I know they're a bit boring and bourgeois, but they're me :) Now, fellow moms, it's your turn. What are the things you throw on day after day, love to death, feel the most "you" in? Thanks for stopping by!

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Style Icon: Francoise Hardy

One of my all-time style heros is '60s French pop singer Francoise Hardy. Jeans and a sweater, a cute little jacket and some boots...a look even frenzied moms can love, don't you think?

(image: Rex Features)

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