More Acceptable When Men Do Wrong?
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I Think it's more Accepted in Society When MEN do Women Wrong!
Is it more acceptable for a man to cheat, lie, and play the field? I know that I am opening up a can of worms here but I must ask. When a man cheats it seems to be almost a normality in Society.
I don't know about you, but I am a little tired of the double standard.
When a man acts out it's simply considered "a party" but when a woman steps outside her relationship or plays the field she is considered "all the above"
I will use Karrine Steffans, author of 'Confessions of a Video Vixen' to prove my argument. Karrine Steffans wrote a book exposing the men that she performed sexual favors for and she was thrown in the fire for it.
Is it okay for men to sleep with whomever they want to and talk about it but not a woman? I think the world makes it easier and more acceptable for a man to cheat and lie to get on top but when a woman does it she is called every despicable name in the book and looked down upon. Is this fair? I think not.
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This is not about supporting Karrine Steffans and her work but it's about the argument that men get away with more than women do. What do you think?
Confessions of a Video Vixen
by Karrine Steffans - Exerpt From the Book
"Where young girls once aspired to be models and ballerinas, they now aspire to be hip-hop video girls. I sat down to write this book because I think my story can serve as a warning to anyone aspiring to the kind of life I have led.
Like so many young girls, I grew up wanting to be famous. I used to watch television and dream about the Beverly Hills lifestyle seen in all my favorite film. I reached most of my goals, but I didn't do it in a conventional way. I did it using the oldest trick in the book. Sex.
I was known as "Superhead," the insatiable lover of many Hollywood stars, sports figures, and some of music's most influential performers and executives.
My hips have swayed and popped on MTV while I danced on tabletops and poolside in some of your favorite videos.
The top reason a woman finds herself in a rap video, sprawled undressed over a luxury car while a rapper is saying lewd things about her, is a lack of self-esteem. No one who values, loves, or knows herself would allow herself to be placed in such a degrading position.'
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I once heard it said that there were three key things to the desires of women (although I would argue it applies to both genders):
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Is it More Accepted by Society When Men Do Women Wrong?

Yes, definately!
Chrmdpoet says:
Absolutely it is more socially acceptable for a man to do damn near anything that is normally frowned upon in society; but a woman becomes a harlot. Women are constantly asked to forgive their husbands for cheating, but when the situation is in reverse, it is acceptable for the man to leave their wife if she is caught cheating or the like. Women are held to a double standard in nearly every area of life and it is time it stops, though I doubt it ever will.
adhd-bipolar-depression says:
Probably because men do wrong so often. It is less common for a woman to do wrong and therefore it is frowned upon.
Squidoolinepro says:
Sadly, yes....
Othercat says:
Definitely! That's why men are congratulated and women are called sluts.
Ladymermaid says:
Yes unfortunately it seems to be.
No, Totally Disagree
Tolovaj says:
No, I think the question is not right. The main problem is: what is society? If it is a set of rules (as I understand it), we can ask next who wrote the rules. Men did, right? So we have to ask why women allow that? And conclusion: after every man doing wrong there is a women who allow him doing so;)
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Tolovaj
Jul 7, 2011 @ 1:00 pm | delete
- Nice debate. I like opening questions about the established norms in society. They are not made of steel, right?
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adhd-bipolar-depression
Feb 2, 2011 @ 8:04 am | delete
- I don't think it is a case of being more acceptable, I think it is a case of being more common. The more common something is, the more accepted it is. Things which are less common are frowned upon. This theory can be placed onto many things in life I believe.
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antoivo Jan 17, 2011 @ 1:25 pm | delete
- It is absolutely not more acceptable for men to act this way. If you cant be happy with one womans affection and love then your nrver going to respect yourself. It is in my opinion, far to easy to cheat and lie, but liers and cheats are all ways caught out in the end!
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Squidoolinepro
Jan 12, 2011 @ 4:13 am | delete
- Great debate. One I've had many times! ---Blessed! :)
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SukoMiabals
Dec 9, 2010 @ 11:13 pm | delete
- Sneaky monkey brain lens is good.
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