Writing A Mother of The Bride Speech

Your speech doesn't have to be lengthy. Just have an outline made up so you can have something to refer to when you impart your words of joy at the reception. It does not have to be a word-for-word speech, ok?

Gathering Material
The initial step in writing your speech is to brainstorm. Write down some thoughts about how you feel about your daughter, some special memories, how you felt when she told you she was getting married, etc. These bits of information will be the basis of your speech.

Talk with others about their memories of you and your daughter if you need further inspiration.

Write the Speech
Put your points on paper. If you are going to speak about your relationship with her, pick out one or two gems to keep the speech from going on too long.

Be certain to address your daughter and her new husband. Tell your version of the story of how they met, especially if the groom was someone she didn't have initial interest in. Tell your audience how you felt when she told you she was in love and thought he was the one. Tell your daughter how you felt when she shared her excitement over getting married with you.
Tell the audience how your daughter has changed or grown since she met her groom. Talk about your other children's interaction with your daughter and the groom.
Give the new couple words of wisdom on wedding vows and love. Tell them how you feel about marriage, love and commitment.
Tell your daughter of your pride for her and wishes for the future.

Use Visual Aids
A visual aid can be a great tool in delivering a great speech. A picture of you and your daughter when she was a little girl could illustrate a memory. Use this time to give your daughter a special piece of jewelry as she makes the transition from your little girl to a grown woman with her own life.

Tools You Need for the Speech
Be sure you have a handkerchief or tissue in case you have tears of joy. Keep any visual aids on a table nearby so they can be easily reached. The wedding coordinator will give you a clue to when it is your turn. Be sure to visit the restroom before your speech to touch up your lipstick and check your teeth for any bits of food.

Giving the Speech
Let your speech come from the heart. If you fill it with laughter and pride, your speech will always be remembered by your daughter as part of your special day.