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Pursuit Of Happiness: 6 Keys To Finding True Happiness

 

The pursuit of happiness is one of the basic elements of human existence. We want to be happy. So why are so many people unhappy then? Most likely people are not happy because they are missing one of the six keys to happiness.

What do you think? 

Is happiness the journey or the destination?

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Journey

JacquiHughes says:

Happiness is the state of being in the 'now' and appreciating all you have in your life. Everything else is just memory or dreams - and not real.

Winter52 says:

most definitely a journey and half/all the fun is just getting there.

spirituality says:

the journey - the destination is never there.

ElizabethJeanAllen says:

Its a journey. Our definition of happiness changes as we grow.

spiritartist says:

Be here now and enjoy the journey! Great Lens! Thanks.

Destination

 
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How can you be happier? 

Happier Than God: Turn Ordinary Life into an Extraordinary Experience

Amazon Price: $12.89 (as of 07/09/2008)

Determine To Be Happy 

The most important key to your personal happiness is determining that you will be happy. For many people, their personal happiness is not a priority in their life. Too often, we put the happiness of others before our own. While this may please our children, spouse, or boss, this is not the path to happiness. This dos not mean you should make yourself happy at the expense of others, but you must remember that the reverse should also not be true -- your happiness should not be sacrificed to make others happy.

Be happy 

Happy for No Reason: 7 Steps to Being Happy from the Inside Out

Amazon Price: $16.47 (as of 07/09/2008)

Find What Makes You Happy 

Once you have determined to make your pursuit of happiness a priority you need to determine just what it is that makes you happy. Spend some time reviewing the happy times in your life. Think about memories that make you smile or activities that make you joyful. Can you find a common element or theme? Then that is one of the keys to finding true happiness for you.

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Do What Makes You Happy 

Now that you have identified what makes you happy you need to engage in that activity. Perhaps you need a creative outlet? Join a writing group, take an art class, or learn an instrument. Do you need physical activity? Then find a way to get back into a sport you love or start a new one. All that is necessary is that you find a way to reconnect with this key element.

Seek happiness

Decide Who Makes You Happy 

However true happiness for most of us is not dependent solely on finding that one key. For most of us, we also require special people in our lives to be happy. Perhaps you have lost touch with someone important and can reach out to them? Or perhaps it is simply a time to plan some special time with family. It is important to our own pursuit of happiness to stay connected with those we love.

Help Others 

Another essential to finding true happiness is to give of ourselves as well. Helping others in both small and large ways can help make you happier and more content. You might even be able to find a way to combine giving and engaging in an activity that makes you happy. For example, if you love to make people laugh you could organize a community talent show as a fundraiser for a local charity.

Make A List And Check It Twice 

Finally, make a list of all the aspects of your life that do make you happy. So many of us get down because we dwell on the negative, but usually there is something about your life that makes you happy. Make a list of these items so you can have a quick mood enhancer when you feel down.

Do you need a nudge? 

Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth, and Happiness

Amazon Price: $17.16 (as of 07/09/2008)

Find True Happiness 

The pursuit of happiness does not have to be challenging or arduous. Finding true happiness can be as simply as determining, identifying, engaging, connecting, giving and reminding yourself of the 6 keys to personal happiness.

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Are you happy? 

jacquelinestone

Hi, rwoman.
Just needed a pick-me-up so I came by to re-read your lens. Thanks!

Posted June 16, 2008

oneorganizedlife

Great lens. Very inspiring!

Posted June 13, 2008

Joan4

Great lens! Thank you! Happy faces multiply happy faces! Ever noticed that? It's true!

Posted May 18, 2008

funwithtrains

Another great lens, rwoman! 5 stars and a favorite from me! Please visit my Turbulence Training lens.

Posted May 15, 2008

ElizabethJeanAllen

Great lens. I'm not always content but I am happy. Life's been good to me and I know it will get better as time goes by.
5 Stars
Liz

Posted May 14, 2008

 
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Do you know how to be happy? 

The How of Happiness: A Scientific Approach to Getting the Life You Want

Amazon Price: $17.13 (as of 07/09/2008)

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