Mr. Perfect Does Not Exist!

It's true that online dating, in it's infancy, was made up of perverts, sexual predators, nerds, and weirdos, but this my dear friends is no longer true. Online dating has become the main tool of the single person in every developed country worldwide. Hey, over forty million people can't all be wrong! Ask any of your girlfriends if they have ever used online dating or if they are using it now. If your friends are honest with you, you will find that most of them have or are now members of at least one online dating site, and maybe even more than one. It is really the way to go if you are trying to find eligible men who want to meet you. It doesn't matter what any of your numbers are...like age, height, weight, or income either. Somewhere out there, in this big wide world, there is a man who will like you...then love you...and think that you are beautiful and desirable. Like they say "Beauty is in they eye of the beholder", because it is true. What is considered beautiful in one part of the world is completely different from what is considered beautiful in another part of the world. It's even different from one part of this country to another.

Find an online dating company that fits your needs. Write a great profile and put up a flattering picture. Start contacting eligible men on your online dating site. Mr.-Close-Enough-To-Perfect could be just a few mouse clicks away!

OK ladies...the time has come. You have joined an online dating service or two. Now comes the time to write that all important profile...the one that may attract the man of your dreams...but where do you start? Maybe writing isn't something that you don't think you can do all that well. You can do this!

Be absolutely honest about yourself. You are looking for that man who will like you...maybe someday even love you...YOU...THE REAL YOU! Examine your past relationships and list the things you liked and the things you didn't like. If your ex smoked inside the house and you didn't like it, you won't like it any better the next time. If you're a cat lover and will always want one or more inside your house, say that you are a cat lover or an animal lover and want indoor pets. Someone who hates cats or are allergic to them is definitely not the guy for you!

Accent the things that make you unique. If you play the piano well, you really want MR. RIGHT to appericiate something like that. If you enjoy to run marathons, then it wouldn't make any sense to date a couch potato, would it? If you have a love for art, you really don't want a man that thinks Picasso is some sort of ice cream flavor.

Describe the things that are really important in your life. If volunteering is the one thing in this world that makes you feel useful and worthwhile, then you would want somebody who would support you in your efforts and maybe join you with your projects. When you get beyond the superficial, you will attract more men who share in your values and goals.

Invest in your online profile by hiring a professional photographer for your first online photograph. This is so important. Your photograph is the FIRST thing men see. The second is what you have written about yourself. Some online dating sites provide you with a list of photographers in your area that specialize in online dating photos.

Instant Profiles Can Help Make Your Profile Irresistible

There are some things that women should never do while engaged in an online relatonship with a man. These things are certain to put a quick and final end to any further communicatons with him.

While you are chatting online via e-mail, resist the urge to write to him about your entire life story. Can you picture him sitting there with his eyes glazing over and falling out of his seat? Well, it could happen. Keep it short and sweet until he asks you for details...then provide them slowly and only answer the questions that he asks you. Example: He asks you how many siblings that you have, this means that he is NOT asking for the details about how you interact with them. He just really wants to know how many brothers and sisters you might have. Say you have two brothers/sisters (or how many you do have) and then ask him how many he has. For every question that he asks you, you should ask him. Nothing really turns a man off like a long-winded woman who just doesn't know when to shut up or doesn't know when to listen.

Never, Ever,Ever, LIE. Lies will catch up to you sooner or later. Many women (and men do too) lie about their age, marital status, employment, height, weight, and the list can go on. This ladies, is a HUGE mistake. If you find a man who you find interesting, he will eventually find out that you lied somewhere along the line and there goes your chances of the relationship going any further. So, just please be honest! There is someone out there who will like you...maybe even come to love you...for exactly who you are.

Don't be too eager. Being to eager makes you look desperate, and could put a man off. Men are first and foremost conquerers and if getting the person of their desires to like them is just too easy, they will quickly lose any interest. This doesn't mean play "hard-to-get". It means don't push for a face-to-face meeting to quickly. Don't e-mail them or IM them too frequently. Play it safe and play it cool.

How To Find The Man Of Your Dreams