My First Valentine Date- My Forever!

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What if your man is not extravagant on Valentine's Day?

Valentine's Day is one of our most celebrated occasions. It is a special moment to commemorate love and be uniquely romantic. Along with this celebration is a special present we give to our loved ones. Much have been said about expensive jewelries, imported chocolates, sweetest scents, sexy lingeries, or reserve in costly restaurants and hotels. It is a fact that, we (women) love gifts. We want to be pampered and we want to feel special on this day of hearts. But some people do not just buy pricey gifts and they simply do not commercialize Valentine season. And I personally know someone who is not very extravagant on this day...my husband! Yet, I feel him in a very special way.



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Our very first face to face meeting was on a Valentine's Day

Yes, for real...

I would like to say that I met my husband in an odd place. Odd, because it is not the traditional "boy-meets-girl" courtship. We met online. When I was new here in the US, I registered in a free online dating site where my husband was at also. I did not know how everything worked out because I am a traditional Filipina and he is an American guy. But it did!

Our first meeting was on a Valentine. I did not have a date, nor did he, so we decided to meet up. We met in a public place that has become so meaningful to me from then on. Our meeting place was in a lighthouse, hence my username mary_lighthouse. He did not have anything with him when I saw him, no presents at all ( well that was our first meeting, lol!). After sometime of face-to-face-get-to-know conversation, he walked me to his workplace which is a ship museum. I thought he will just show me where his office at. He invited me inside, through the kitchen part, open the fridge, and there he got me fresh white bouquet of roses!

Believe it or not, that was my very first bouquet all my life! Pleas read more on my online dating at How I Met My Husband

Can we measure love by the gift we receive?

My husband is one of those who do not buy very expensive presents on Valentine's Day. But he does give me expensive gifts on my birthdays (hurray!). Last year Valentine, he gave me red roses and a card. We did not even go out for a dinner. Instead, he prepared a nice meal that we enjoyed while watching tv. That was so sweet of him! This year though, we will go out (another hurray!) and dine in a two-hour cruise ship. It is not because he will spend good and huge this year, but we got a complimentary ticket for two. FREE ticket! Wow, I am just so excited! This ticket was given to us by the cruise ship where we held our wedding reception last October 2011.

I think we all know that love is the highest form of emotion humans have. It is a special feeling that only humans can feel. But can we measure that love? Do gifts we receive equate with the amount of love the person has for us? I bet we know the answer!

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Can We Measure Love?

by Alnaver Baltazar, Philippines


Can we measure love?
It could have been easier if there's only a way to do it
If there's only an instrument that can quantify it
If only there's a mathematical equation that can solve it
If only there's a scientific way to define and measure it
If only.

Many say that love should be given unconditionally.

Perhaps,
That's the reason why we can not measure love at all.
For if it can be measured
Then people might ask for the same weight or size or
depth or height of the love they have given.
If it can be solved mathematically,
Then people would love a person because
love can be readily solve with a formula.
If it can be explained scientifically,
Then all of our experience about love
can be easily and readily defined and predicted.
If we can quantify love,
Then love will be limited.
Eternity will just be a dream.

The best way we can measure love is
how much one person is willing to give up his life to keep that love.
Maybe,
On how much a person would and could sacrifice to let that love stay.
Possibly,
On the trust we give...
Or the faith we hold...
Or the hope that we seize
Probably,
On the patience or the kindness we give
The will to forgive despite of all the pain.
Or perhaps,
Love can be measured by
How much love the love given has produced love to the person loved.

Many say that love should be given unconditionally
Perhaps
That is the core reason why we can never measure love.
So can we ever measure love then?
I am sure that we never ever can
For love is everything.
Love is limitless...

Practical Ways to Experience Intimate Valentine Celebration

'the mary_lighthouse way'


1. A surprise breakfast in bed

2. Bubble bath together

3. Candle light dinner at home

4. Romantic movie night

5. Make personalize card

6. Place memorable old photo in a nice frame

7. Put a love note in his/her lunch box or wallet

8. Send romantic lines in text messages

9. Serenade him/her

10. Write a poetry for him/her

P.S.
MEN, don't forget a flower bouquet for your sweetheart!

WOMEN, don't forget to share your sweetest kisses!

Enjoy these collection of songs on Feb 14!

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  • snowy12 Mar 13, 2012 @ 10:49 pm | delete
    What a romantic story. Thanks for sharing. Wish you and your husband happy always.
  • cheerfulnuts Mar 2, 2012 @ 9:21 pm | delete
    I think a guy doesn't necessarily have to spend big on Valentine's. As cliche as it may sound, I still believe in the old saying, "It's the thought that counts." Of course, the guy still has to spend some money. The point is he should focus more on making his woman happy rather than on how much money he should spend. I would prefer my guy to spend his time carefully planning for our upcoming date than for him to just randomly pick an expensive gift for me. I think your husband is sweet.:)
  • naheedahsan Mar 1, 2012 @ 5:52 am | delete
    very interesting, thanks for sharing
  • sandyspider Feb 26, 2012 @ 11:58 pm | delete
    So sweet! Blessed! Please add this to the plexo on my Valentine Gifts, What Sold and Blessings 2012 lens.
  • LiteraryMind Feb 23, 2012 @ 11:09 pm | delete
    nice lens and nice story
  • karmicchristian Feb 21, 2012 @ 3:32 am | delete
    I was here and I enjoyed my visit! :)
  • BenJacklin Feb 18, 2012 @ 2:49 pm | delete
    Nice story :)
  • daria369 Feb 15, 2012 @ 11:46 am | delete
    Very nice lens on Valentine's Day through your personal experience. Romantic, too! :)
  • alpacafarm Feb 13, 2012 @ 9:22 pm | delete
    Hello. Just wanted to thank you for all of the squid likes! Hope you have a great Valentine's Day!!! Scott
  • Rebeljohn Feb 13, 2012 @ 12:06 pm | delete
    Great article thank you for posting it
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