The letter that saved our marriage
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An unexpected love letter
After a while, it seemed like we weren't going to get past our differences, so we talked about splitting up. I can't even describe the pain I felt. It broke my heart to think about losing the man I believed was my soul mate, my one true love.
Apparently he felt the same way because he did something he'd never done before. He wrote me a love letter.
It wasn't written on fancy paper. It wasn't filled with lovely verses. It wasn't folded nicely inside an envelope. It wasn't anything like you would expect a love letter to be. But it was written from his heart. He put so much thought into every word, and all because he didn't want to lose his soul mate either.
Now here it is, 3 years later and I still have that love letter. I carry it with me wherever I go. Sometimes I'll take it out, carefully unfold it and reread every word. I've read it so often that it's getting brittle. So I decided to immortalize it here. Now even if the ink fades and the paper tears, I'll always have a way to remember the sweetest love letter I ever received.

My treasured love letter
I love you because...
when we wake up, we're both grouchy until we have our first cigarette.
“Give him a chance. After all, it is his first love letter.”
I love you because...
of the way you smile and blush every time I call you baby.
“Ahhh. That's better.”
I love you because...
you asked me to move in with you, and you asked me to date you, when I didn't have the courage to ask you either one.

Preparing for our handfasting ceremony February 5, 2008
I love you because...
of the way you think of everyone else no matter who it is or how long you've known them. You had never even met my niece and you still bought her a toy.
December 30, 2008
I love you because...
you're so organized. We moved in together almost as strangers and you still wanted to organize my clothes.
“Actually, I just didn't want to live in a mess. lol.”
I love you because...
Sorry folks. Adding this one would have made this an X-Rated lens.
“Right back atcha baby!”
I love you because...
you don't take no crap from anyone.

Our first Anniversary
I love you because...
you are an excellent mother.

Our Second Anniversary
I love you because...
of the way you love to cuddle to me when we're sleeping.
Still going strong!
I will never be able to tell you how much I love you, but I sure as heck can show you!
Love, Johnny
Cat N John
Would you like to write your own love letter?
How about you?
Have you ever received a love letter? Have you ever written one?
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joycecity
Mar 27, 2012 @ 8:12 am | delete
- So sweet! I wish you good luck in your marriage!
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chuckholmes301
Mar 4, 2012 @ 8:15 am | delete
- I've never received one, but I've written a few in my day. It keeps my wife happy.
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daedrea
Feb 29, 2012 @ 4:55 pm | delete
- Super sweet. I've never received a love letter before, but who knows, maybe one day. :)
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zap1994
Dec 25, 2011 @ 7:23 am | delete
- My father had alove letter from my mother that he always kept on the night stand by his bed.
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vallain Dec 18, 2011 @ 3:32 pm | delete
- How sweet. Sure wish we could express ourselves on paper when we're having communication problems. We've made it 20 years, so guess we've learned to roll with the ups and downs of marriage.
Best of luck to the pair of you.
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Heather426
Dec 18, 2011 @ 3:04 pm | delete
- What an awesome love letter and lens!
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Luv2help
Dec 2, 2011 @ 7:00 pm | delete
- I wouldn't call it a letter, more a note in a card, but treasured just the same! My husband is gone from us, but his cards and words are there for me to touch when I need comfort.
SMILES!
~Wendy
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brbrooks
Sep 3, 2011 @ 3:33 pm | delete
- I loved reading your lens. Great job!
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mbgphoto Aug 24, 2011 @ 9:31 pm | delete
- Beautiful! Thanks for sharing..blessed.
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nancycarol
Aug 24, 2011 @ 4:26 pm | delete
- How precious a love letter like this is...you need to have it laminated so it won't further deteriorate. The two of you are very fortunate to have met someone who brings this kind of love to the other one. More power to you and your family!
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susanelainegalloway
Aug 16, 2011 @ 5:33 pm | delete
- A few yes nice ones too.
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Creative_Butterfly Aug 10, 2011 @ 11:13 pm | delete
- That is sooo adorable! I'm so glad you're still with your husband and that you overcame your differences. "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" <3
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terrapin719 Aug 10, 2011 @ 1:12 am | delete
- thank you for sharing this with all of us! <3 *~*~*angel dust*~*~*
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mellex
Jul 30, 2011 @ 7:07 am | delete
- Such a sweet and touching lens! Thanks for sharing :)
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AllyVuitton
Jul 28, 2011 @ 4:04 pm | delete
- This is so sweet! I love how you added your own funny comments too. I've never written one, but maybe someday I will! Love it.
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LisaAuch
Jul 28, 2011 @ 4:44 am | delete
- Yeah sometimes they do need to remind themselves why they love us, not becasue they alawys have their clean washing, cooked meals, clean house! yeah we also need to know we are worth more to them too! lol...
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Donnette
Jul 4, 2011 @ 3:42 am | delete
- This is probably one of THE most beautiful lenses I have ever read - once I got past the watery eyes. Thank you for sharing such an intimate part of your lives with us.
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SusanBlackburn Jun 21, 2011 @ 4:49 pm | delete
- Thank you for sharing your love... very touching and inspiring!
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greenlife17 Apr 20, 2011 @ 8:02 pm | delete
- it's inspiring..it made me remember my loveletters to my husband who doesn't like to write me one..thanks and God bless your marriage.
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mattseefood
Apr 20, 2011 @ 7:16 am | delete
- Personal and inspiring! Thank you for this :)
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carlajo73
Apr 18, 2011 @ 3:00 pm | delete
- This is beautiful!! Thank you so much for sharing!!! You are a lucky lady! :)
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karmicchristian
Apr 18, 2011 @ 10:43 am | delete
- Beautiful... because Love is... Blessed be and God bless. Thanks for sharing... Post it again for a Silver, Gold and a Platinum :)
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BelindaBlevins Apr 17, 2011 @ 10:09 pm | delete
- That's cute.
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sorana
Apr 17, 2011 @ 8:19 pm | delete
- Beautiful, absolutely beautiful.
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bikerministry
Apr 17, 2011 @ 7:25 pm | delete
- This is very encouraging for any age couple that is struggling in their marriage, thank you for being transparent.
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2muchtrash
Apr 17, 2011 @ 6:49 pm | delete
- It really doesn't need to be poetic, and sometimes it is what we read between the lines that means more than the words themselves. I am glad that John did this. As to the original letter, I would frame it, but take photocopies of it first. That way you can unfold, refold, read, touch as often as you want and when the copy wears out, go grab a fresh one. This letter will be something to look back on when you both grow old together. Congratulations to both of you for finding that one special person that you couldn't imagine living life without.
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Othercat
Apr 17, 2011 @ 11:54 pm | delete
- That's exactly what I did. It's scanned to my computer plus I made 5 copies. lol.
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