My Martial Arts Lenses

I began studying martial arts in my 30s as a way to spend some quality time with my son. We studied Jeet Kune Do and eventually became Black Belts.

A lot of the parents at the school where we studied said I was an inspiration to them for sticking it out for the 6 1/2 years (and multiple injuries, bumps and bruises) to become a Black Belt.

My son went on to become head student at the school (Sempai), which was a very proud moment for me.

During my time at the school and after I have also studied: Wing Chun, Jiu Jitsu, Krav Maga, Kali Silat, Hapkido and Muay Thai.

As a kid, I always dreamed of studying martial arts, but never had the opportunity. As an adult, I'm glad I had an "Ah Ha" moment when I realized "Why not? I can DO this!"

I am not a "hard core" martial artist. However, I do have a deep respect for the art form and I see its application in every day of my life.

One final thought: notice above I did not say "when I got my Black Belt". Although I did earn a Black Belt to wear, it is important for you to understand that a Black Belt is not an object to attain--rather, it is what you become.

It is a mindset. A way of being that says "I will never give up--I will do my best no matter what".

Anybody can buy a belt to tie around their waist. The only way to become a Black Belt is to take the journey!