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My Wife Cheated, Now What?

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Cheating: Not Entirely Exclusive for Men

According to USAToday 2011, statistics show that 67% of married men commit infidelity. Where is the other 33% are they happily married? Of course television shows, movies, news, and other forms of mass media often represent that husbands will almost always be the ones to cheat. Wouldn't wonder why, there is so much temptation in the world today. We as people and as a society have changed our ways. Even in the world today what is not clearly shown is the existing number of married women who cheat on their husbands. What should you do if you hear about rumors of your wife cheating? Run around the house, grab some alcohol, or contemplate suicide? Topics about women cheating on their husbands are almost rare but in reality, the ratio of married women with lovers is almost close to the percentage of married men.

Confirming Suspicions and Looking for Proof

cheating wifeBefore your mind automatically jumps to unique thoughts, you must prove she is cheating and gather evidence. Hire a private detective who would follow your wife. If you do not have the funds it would almost always be easier to hire a friend or family member your wife does not know. It would be painful to see the woman you love out with another man. Try to keep your cool and try to acquire an intimate photo of them together is the best proof. Save all the following documents and statements that you think can help you such as emails, online messages, phone records, text messages. Ask her questions about what she is doing and where she is at on a daily basis and try to find her inconsistencies. Check the unnecessary changes that she is making, like taking very long lunch breaks, overtime at work, sudden company weekend seminars, new and out-of-her-personality perfumes, secretive phone calls, less attentive, or is now more appearance-obsessed. Occasionally check on her by calling her office number. If you find out about your wife's betrayal, then you must confront the situation.

Unfaithful Starring Richard Gere

The 2002 movie "Unfaithful" starring Richard Gere, the loving husband, and Diane Lane as the wife who cheated with a younger man. The couple had a solid marriage but was lacking passion.
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Life Changing Decision

cycleNow that you have gained the evidence confirming the affair. You should be sure that you are 100% convinced and willing to take the risk of a cold war. If you have made your decision and fixing your marriage is not an option, there are several ways to end your union. First, confide to the people who you trust the most, have them as your moral support. One of the difficult parts for those who have children would be informing the kids of the situation. Second, find yourself a good lawyer by asking your most trusted friends or family, researching on the internet, or going to your local justice hall for legal counseling. After finding a suitable attorney, inform them of the evidences you have compiled and from there, they may advice you which path to take.

It Could Be a Bloodbath

replaceOne would think that the female spouse and the lover involved must be both sued, constitutionality really depends on which state you reside in and if it is a "No-Fault State" the courts won't care who the wife has or is cheating with.

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