How to Find if Your Wife or Girlfriend is Cheating on You? Some Good Tips

Do you suspect your wife is cheating on you?

Some caught their wife cheating on him by reading her emails, online chat scripts, phone calls, or hearing from friends. It is not hard to detect if your woman is cheating on you. Here are some tips on how to tell if she's cheating on you.

(1) Abnormal attitude and behavior changes. They're very evident in your wife. You know your woman better than anyone else, you know how she acts (cold, hot toward you). If something changes on her, you shoule find out them obviously. I believe this is why you're here.

When you're having sex recently, did she try some new sex positions you've ever used before? When you had sex, does she make more noises or breathe harder than before? Does she complain your sex ability is not so great? Some women are very toxicated when they're at the top of a sex climax, they could call out the other man's name. Pay close attention to her hehavior change.

(2) Does she wants to have more sex or less sex when you return home? A cheating woman should lack of sex enthusiasm, her sex desire with you just feel like fake. Sometimes, a woman has an affair suddenly wants more sex, more often.

(3) Look at her eyes, women are not good liars. Nothing could hide from their eyes. If she has been cheating on you, she would try not to have direct eye contacts with you, if this is the first time you felt she's cheating, she should feel guilty of doing it.

(4) Does she change a new cell phone without asking for your advice? Check her phone bills and look for strange phone numbers. An affair cannot escape phone conversations between each other. She usually make long conversations either through your home phone, and in most cases, through her cell phone because cell phone is private and anonymous, it doesn't show the man's name on the caller ID.

How to identify their frequent incoming/outgoing calls? How to trace the cell phone number if you find it is suspicious? Don't try to call the number, you could make the case worse. You don't need to pay hundreds of dollars to an investigator. It is very easy, go to Reverse Genie, it has over 90% of the U.S. cell phone numbers and unlisted phone numbers. You can easily find out who your wife has been chatting with, you can even find all his background information the private investigators used. The phone search is anonymous and discrete.



Alternatively, you can use another device to record all phone conversations if you want to setup a sting operation, it is pretty easy to do so, you would need to install a piece of tiny piece of software in the cell phone, you can find such software from Internet. However, this is a dangerous operation, have to use it with care.

(5) She could also chat with the man with AOL, Yahoo, or MSN messenger. All these programs have some sort of logs on the computer. If she bought a webcam all of the sudden, that's another sign she wants to have an affair (start with cyberchat, cyber affair). You can also install some spyware or keylogger on the computer to spy on her activities.

There are several Internet programs could log keyboards, take screen shots, record videos on record whatever she doe, these programs save the activities a hidden directory or send to an email address. These programs are totally untraceable because these programs are invisible and hides from Task Manager or file system. One program I used before is called EEye.

(6) Has she changed the appearance (hair style, face, makeup) dramatically all of the sudden? Has she smell differently? Has she stopped wearing the wedding ring and starts wearing some new and expensive jewelers you've never bought? Has she weared some quite different style cloths and dresses to make sexy?

(7) Does all of the sudden she starts to take birth control pills? Check draws to see if you can find unused birth control pills or comdoms.

(8) Use semen analyzers. There are some instant semen analyzer tools sold in drug stores and Internet. Semen traces can stay for over two days. Even if she washed her underwear or clothes, these analyzers can trace it even with a tiny of semen exist. Do a search of instant semen analyzer from Google.

(9) She becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being truthful to her, ask you if you have an affair out of blue. She could also raise hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"

(9) She took vacation day or personal time off from work without telling you, but supposedly she went to work on those days. All of the sudden, she doesn't bring lunch to work or someone is paying her lunch.

(10) She seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger, she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.