“How Can I Tell If My Boyfriend Really Loves Me?†– Actions that Answer this Common Question

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Determine Whether Your Boyfriend Really Loves You

Determine whether your boyfriend really loves you, and if he doesn't get out of the relationship right away. From his actions, you will be able to identify the answer to this: "how can I tell if my boyfriend really loves me?" Here are five things that you should take note of.

One of the Obvious Actions

One of the obvious actions is when your boyfriend spends money just to buy you gifts, try to impress you with a great meal or even by providing a surprise trip. This is a sign that he really loves you.

Is Your Boyfriend a Good Listener

Is your boyfriend a good listener? Does he pay attention to what you have to say, want or need? If the answer is yes, then he definitely loves you. If he's always there for you, listening to all the issues that you may have, you should know that he's a keeper

A Guy Will Do Anything to Try to Impress the Girl

A guy will do anything to try to impress the girl that they love. They will try to remember the things that you like such as food, movies, music and destinations. If your boyfriend was able to remember all these things about you, then he loves you.

Boyfriends Tend to be Sweet And Caring

Boyfriends tend to be sweet and caring for the one that they love. They will make you feel good by giving you massages or cooking a meal for you. They pamper the girls that they are in love with.

The Most Obvious Indicator That He Really Loves You

Lastly, the most obvious indicator that he really loves you is when he talks about the future with you. He talks about the future with you, because he sees you in his future. He will not open up to you about it if he does not love you. Once your boyfriend talks to you about future goals, then you should know, he really does love you.

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  • Atreyusmommy Apr 28, 2012 @ 9:38 pm | delete
    Nice lens. A good boyfriend who loves you will make you feel like the most beautiful person on earth. Thanks for sharing
  • quincyP Apr 6, 2012 @ 11:33 am | delete
    In addition, a boyfriend also tries to make things easy and better for you when you are feeling down, sad or depressed. He also sends romantic text messages to let you know that he often remembers you.
  • RosemaryB Mar 10, 2012 @ 6:19 am | delete
    I love coffee too - plunger coffee in my favorite mug is my preferred coffee. And I hadnt thought about runes for a while - so thanks for that.

    Im new to Squidoo so just finding my way around... and here you and I are.
  • anupma Feb 27, 2012 @ 4:19 am | delete
    Helpful lense. Although love cant be measured in coffee spoons. Enjoyed the lense.
  • collettehrock Jan 31, 2012 @ 9:55 am | delete
    This was a great concept for a lens, these are great tips for making sure that you are in the right relationship. Normally people can feel when something isn't quite right, if you are unable to talk about it then there is know relationship. Relationships are give and take but they are also about respect
  • smilespreader Dec 22, 2011 @ 11:56 pm | delete
    Hey, if you are experiencing breakups how about reading my article. I hope it could help you. :)
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  • WaynesWorld Nov 13, 2011 @ 2:42 pm | delete
    Without trying to be negative, spending money on a girlfriend and having a good memory doesn't make your boyfriend Romeo. When a person has money, spending it is easy. When they want something, even if it is "not to be alone" making sure they pay attention to your "likes" and "dislikes" is mandatory.
    Now the rubber really meets the road when there is no money to lavish on you and the relationship boils down to that hidden element called "love."
    A real relationship sometimes is obvious but many times it is a ton of "give" because your partners needs outweigh your own. Yes, the attentive guy that knows you and sacrifices their needs for your own is a real trooper and may be your knight in shining armor, but sometimes they are an oaf and you need to be the bigger person.
    So what do I know for sure? Nothing. =*)
    Nice idea for a lens.
  • adultsearch Dec 27, 2011 @ 8:39 pm | delete
    I really like what you said here, WaynesWorld, party time excellent! Money does make the world go round but it is the 'unbought' sweet nothings that make a girl's world go round! Please don't get me wrong, I do want a stable man. Call me old school, but I really like my man to surprise me with things that he did not use money on.
  • ouriloilo Nov 6, 2011 @ 3:19 am | delete
    A definite lens to be read by my friends and I
  • KANEsUgAr Jun 27, 2011 @ 6:33 pm | delete
    good lens, good information. i think my sister should read this.
  • Sanam Apr 15, 2011 @ 6:36 pm | delete
    Straight and to the point lens. I liked it.
  • 100ktrainer Mar 1, 2011 @ 8:05 pm | delete
    I think my link didn't work in my comment sorry! Wasn't sure how to delete and start over. So try this:
    How do I know if He Loves Me

    Thanks a bunch! Keep up the great articles!
  • 100ktrainer Mar 1, 2011 @ 6:59 pm | delete
    I really like this article, these are sure signs of love. I also wrote a similar post on this same topic and we have a lot of the same views. If you get a chance, check it out. I'm still coming up with love topics, so looking forward to more from you!
    How do I Know If he Loves Me

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