Essential websites
- Association for Improvements in Maternity Services
- AIMS are a campaigning group, well worth reading the website and joining them if you can. A fantastically well-informed, passionate group of individuals.
- National Childbirth Trust
- Biggest birth and parenting charity in the UK. They have excellent childbirth classes and free breastfeeding counsellor suppport. I have to declare a bias here as I work and volunteer for them but JOIN THEM they are great. Doing NCT classes and becoming a volunteer and then a specialist worker changed my life.
- Waterbirth Pool Hire
- I'm not being paid for this link, I include it because Amy who owns and started the firm is a fellow antenatal teacher and she is FANTASTIC. Like me, she wants everyone to have the best birth that they can have and so she's on a campaign to make waterbirth affordable for every woman.
- Birth Pool in a Box
- The sister company to The Good Birth Company, these guys went out and got a custom made pool designed and made for people who want water birth but as cheaply as possible.
- Homebirth Reference
- This is brilliant, should be declared a national treasure. Angela Horn is a brilliant researcher and the things she has collected and analysed here are worth a fortune but all free to you. There's a freat email support group you can access from here too.
- Association of Radical Midwives
- This is the website full of the wisdom of wonderful, passionate midwives. People who do the job because they believe in birth not to draw a pay cheque. The archives are fantastic too - read what the best in the business think and learn about best practice. Another one with a really good email list attached to it - where else can you talk to the creme of the midwifery profession for nothing?
- Independent Midwives Association
- I actually believe that the finest quality midwifery care, one to one and with the same person for the whole of pregnancy and beyond, is a basic human right. So do all of these people. Sadly, the NHS doesn't allow them to practice this way. Even if you think you can't afford it, have a good like at this site. We couldn't afford one either but actually, when push came to shove (groan!) I decided that my mental and physical health didn't have a price tag.
- One Mother, One Midwife
- This is a campaign that deserves much more publicity than its currently getting. Mothers and midwives uniting to campaign for what the research shows every woman needs.
- VBAC and Caesarean Info
- Written by Gina and Debbie, my fellow VBAC support co-ordinators, a well researched, motherfriendly website. Has fantastic support group too, these guys got me through my VBA3C.
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VBAC, Birth and Parenting, the Essentials!
The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth
Does what is says on the cover! Wish I had read this before my first birth.
Silent Knife: Cesarean Prevention and Vaginal Birth after Cesarean (VBAC)
Can be hard reading if you've had a caesarean but worth it, a book that makes you think.
The Caesarean Experience
All of my VBACing friends recommend this one.
Birth and Beyond: The Definitive Guide to Your Pregnancy, Your Birth, Your Family - From Minus 9 to Plus 9 Months
I've got a lot of time for Yehudi Gordon who is one of the few obstetricians I respect. Janet Balasakas is the originator of the Active Birth movement. Brilliant.
Birthing from Within: An Extra-Ordinary Guide to Childbirth Preparation
The more I teach, the more I learn about birth, the more convinced I am that the preparation we do mentally is more important than any amount of positions or breathing practice.
Gentle Birth Choices: A Guide to Making Informed Decisions about Birthing Centers, Birth Attendants, Water Birth, Home Birth, and Hospital Birth
Very geared to the US but worth a read wherever you go.
Breech Birth
We need more books like this. AIMS (see links) has a brilliant booklet too.
Bestfeeding: How to Breastfeed Your Baby
One of the best, you really need this book if you are planning to breastfeed.
Babycalming: Simple Solutions for a Happy Baby
The antidote to the dreadful baby schedulers. Researched based, baby and parent friendly.
The Pink Kit: Essential Preparations for Your Birthing Body (Multimedia Kit)
Worth a look, has some excellent stuff on finding out about your internal pelvic diameters and practicing movements to help you birth baby. Also good visualisation tape.
Birth Your Way
I'm not a number one fan of Kitzinger but this is one of her best.
Obstetric Myths Versus Research Realities: A Guide to the Medical Literature
Henci Goer, all round fantastic person. Give this to every obstetrician who recommend caesarean and all sorts of other interventions without good cause!
Caesarean Birth in Britain: A Book for Health Professionals and Parents
This was the first book I ever read about caesareans after my first two caesareans. I cried and cried and cried. But it was enormously healing and set me on a path to finding out why I'd had those births and coming to terms with them.
Breastfeeding for Beginners (National Childbirth Trust Guides)
I'm a writer. This is the one I wish I'd written. I recommend it to every mother who comes thru my NCT classes.
The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night
Another sane alternative to the shove your baby in a cupboard and only feed it when the clock says and you are a useless parent if you don't get it sleeping thru the night by 2 weeks brigade. Sorry, bit of a bias there....
The Attachment Parenting Book : A Commonsense Guide to Understanding and Nurturing Your Baby
I do find this end of the parenting market can be as didactic as the schedulers but if I had to pick a research based end of the parenting spectrum this would be it.
Why Love Matters: How Affection Shapes a Baby's Brain
Another rational explanation for not shoving baby in a cot in a dark room and feeding by a clock.
The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding: Seventh Revised Edition (La Leche League International Book)
Hate the title, hate it, hate it. But a brilliant book otherwise and well worth a read. Just wish they'd change the title, did I say I hate it?
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For books n stuff you can't get elswhere
Ok, my aim is not to make a fortune out of you but to provide a service to people wanting a better birth whilst keeping my four children in food and clothes. My book, Birth After Caesarean is available here along with some other publications you can't get off Amazon.
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