Yes! Ninjas are real.

I would like to offer some advice to all people that are looking to change their cable services. Everyone has offers and deals but I highly recommend that you stay away from Frontier.com. It has been my experience that since they took over Verizon.com in our neighbor hood our quality of service has gone down. On numerous accounts with the "new" Frontier.com I have found their customer service reps to be undertrained, and unable to provide you with the same information twice. On more then one occasion when I was told I would be chatting with a Frontier represntative from the local area I ended up speaking with someone from Washington state and I live in Indiana (not really local). To top that off, the representative fo Frontier from the Washington state area had stated that he would pass on my information to the local agents when they came available to help solve my problem. Upon calling back to Frontier.com 3 days later I learned that they had no clue about my request but did see notaions on my account regarding the conversation I had with the Washington state rep.

Needless to say I cancelled my service on Novermber 8th (they were closed on the weekend so I could not cancel earlier) to Frontier.com. At which point they did bill me for the month of December a mere $151.00 which did affect my Christmas spending for my children. And when I contacted Frontier.com about this I was informed that December would be my final bill and I will recieve a rebate check in January. Upon recieving my bill from Frontier.com on January 14th I was rudely informed that I will have to wait until February 14th before I get back the rebate that I am owed from thier over charging way back in November.

So again I say, if you are considering Frontier.com do not be fooled by their offers and adds for you will only pay for it more in the end. I almost think that a pair of rabbit ears on your television would be 100% better then the poor, uninformed, inaccurate, misleading load of crap that you will recieve from Frontier.com.

Our Governmental Leaders

For years even decades we have watched our politicians get richer, and use our money to fund their retirement programs. Its seems also that no matter how bad our economy is they can still vote themselves raises yet have the audacity to complain about banks and companies giving million dollar bonuses. Now don't get me wrong, I think that the business and bank executives should forego their golden parachute payouts until everything is back on track and unemployent is low again. But as usual it seems that with power comes greed. Right now now lets focus on our elected officials.
I wonder how many people in this country are aware that our government officials do not pay into or recieve money from social security. Instead they have set up their own funding of taxpayer dollars that will pay them upwards of $15,000.00 a month, yes a month when they retire from capital hill. And this payout will continue for their spouse as well untill both are deceased. So it should come as no surprise that when our government wants or needs money that just take it from social security (they have no vested interest in it) and when they want more minority votes they allow foreigners who have never payed into it but justed moved here from other countries to be elegible to recieve payment from it. This puts even more strain on the tax payers shoulders and threatens to end social security even sooner. Now the monthly retirement pay they recieve does not include any secret service or other perks that they may recieve from having served on capital hill, or the fact that they recieved a six figure income every year plus having most of what they needed paid for by tax payer money over the years. If you think about it, it is no wonder our country is so broke. Can you run a business successfully when you continue to syphon money from the accounts no matter how good or bad things are? With unemployment high that means fewer tax dollars being put into the system can we really afford to pay inflated wages and outrageous retirements to our elected officials?
It is time that we, as a nation, stand up and fire all of our elected politicians and let the government know that they are in those positions to represent the people of this nation, not to represent their own pocket books. The Constitution states that our government should be for the people, by the people, and of the people of this great land. Let your politician know that they must step up and do what is right for the people they represent, not just for their pocket book, and that they need to reduce all of the money that they are recieving and allow that money to go to the people that truly need it to survive until they are back on their feet. And that if you don't pay into the system you do not recieve from the system.

Responsibility

What is happening to our country. We used to be the greatest nation on earth, full of pride, self respect, hope, and determination. But, that was back when our parents and their parents were leading this nation. It seems that as time has progressed we have decided to try and take the easy path. We don't want to take responsibility for our own actions and choices. It is easier to say "its not my fault", or "that is not my problem". We want to blame our schools for the decline our childrens education, we want to blame our environment for our behavior or status in life. Point the finger at evrybody else but where it belongs.
Well people here is a news flash, a slap in the face, and your wake-up call. Our children will not get better unless we as parents make them a priority in our life. We can't expect our school systems to teach them everything and tie our schools hands behind their backs and expect it to work. We have to be there and make sure our children are doing they homework, make sure they are reading everyday, and be responsible for their actions. As a parent do you know who your childrens friends are? If you truly love and care about your children you should. I have 3 children and I know it can be very tiring keeping up with all 3 of my kids, but I think they are worth my time, and energy to raise to be a better person then me. And here is a tip for all of you new parents, or soon to be parents, start talking to your kids about everything when they are young. Don't wait until they are 10 or older to talk about smoking, or drugs, or even sex. Keep it simple but start as soon as they can understand words that you say, and repeat it a couple times a month. Right now if you ask any of my kids (ages 4-7) they will tell you that drugs are bad and why, that smoking is bad, and why, and that they can talk to me or my wife at anytime. I have found that since I started when they were very little, it is easy to talk to even my 7 yr old about anything with no problems.
Our country's future rests on the shoulders of our children. Lets raise them and take responsibility for them and their actions. Lets build our country again. Lets take responsibility for our future and teach our children to do the same.

Truth

What is truth? How important is truth? Truth is one of the virtues of life that we should live by, and that we must live by if we want to maintain our honor, dignity, self-respect, and respect from others. Now we can look back through time and see history repeat itself over and over and over again. Great nations have risen and fallen by the morals of its people. Time has shown that a nation that is/was a God fearing nation (whether it was a single diety or multiple dieties that they worshiped doesn't matter) tended to have people of strong moral values, and a sense of truth about themselves and their actions. These nations always seemed to be strong, self reliant, proud, and destined for a good future. But as years would pass and the beliefs in the God or Gods wavered or diminished so would the values of the people, and as the values declined the nation would decline sacrificing morals, and values for material objects, greed, and even lust. And when the societies reached these points the nation would crumble and the surrounding countries would attack and take it over, instituting its own beliefs and rituals.
Now I would say that I am a proud American, I love my country with all my heart. But as I look around I see our decline and it is gaining speed. First, we let our government get too big, which means that it now sees itself as our big brother and thinks that it knows whats best for each and every one of us. Second, we have taken God out of our lives, now I am not a bible thumper, I don't believe in cramming my beliefs down everyones throats but I do believe in God and his goodness as our forefathers did when they founded our great nation. We as a people have let others cram their beliefs down our throats so much that we go out of our way to appease them and disregard our own beliefs. Thirdly, greed has taken over, we as a nation are more concerned about money and what we can get, should get, or even what we think we deserve (not neccesarily earned) that we will stab our own family mebers and friends in the back to get it. No longer do you see people helping each other just to be helpful or friendly, nowadays we only help if it is a benefit to us first.
If we don't want to lose our nation then we need to look in the mirror and see the truth of what we have become. Once we do that, we can fix our own individual selves, and once we fix ourselves we can help our children and friends to see the right and wrongs and to see and face the truths in themselves. Then once they see the truth and make truth a part of their lives they can help their friends and families, and so on, and so forth. Until once again we are the country standing talling, shoulders back, chin up, and the leaders of the world. But it all starts with each of us looking in that mirror and making the choice to face the truth of who we are and becoming the person we were supposed to be.

The Knife
The knife is a great weapon for close hand to hand combat. They train intensely to be able to kill quickly and quietly. The knife was also a great weapon because of its ability to remain concelled and hidden until it was needed.

The Staff
The staff was one of mans first weapons ever used. Originally made of wood, and polished to a smooth surface it was a common sight to see people carrying it, helping with walking, herding, or any other domestic uses. In the hands of a trained person the staff can also be a dangerous and deadly weapon often overlooked by guards.

The Spear and Naginata
The art of sojutsu is a very extensive training in ninpo. It is a weapon similar to a staff except with a pointed end, or sharpened stone tied to the end, or even a metal blade on the end. This particular weapon allowed the ninja to attack an enemy from a distance while remaining untouched.

The Kusari Gama
This weapon, like the staff is a weapon that has domestic uses. It is a short-handled sickle that peasants would use to harvest rice. But put a chain on it with a weighted end and it becomes a very deadly range weapon that can also kill close up.

The Ninjato
A ninjato is a sword used by the ninja that differs from the traditional katana. The ninjato is a straight bladed sword, not curved like the katana. They also tended to be a little shorter then the katana allowing a faster draw. The ninja typically focused on using the last 1/2" of the blade for cutting. And it was very common for the ninja to use just 1 hand on the sword to permit a free hand to grab the enemy, or possibly the enemys weapon to be able to inflict a killing blow.

The Iron Fan

The tessen was an iron fan that sometimes could actually be used as a hand fan or was just made to resemble one. Given the high cost of making these items they were typically just for the noble class. Now many Samurai warriors would always have one with them and they were experts in the ability to protect themselves from attack until they could subdue their opponent or draw their sword.
There is a story of a Japanese official that served under Lord Oda Nobunaga that managed to save his life by placing his tessen on the floor in front him when he was summoned to see Lord Nobunaga. History has shown that Oda Nobunaga was a very severe ruler in fuedal Japan in the late 1500's. Most infractions no matter how small usually ended with a severe punishment. So it was with great concern when Akira Murashige was summoned to see his lord for some fault. As the story goes it was planned that Murashige would be in one room next to the room that lord Nobunaga would sit in, and as he would kneel and bow (with his head between to solid wood doors that seperated the rooms) Nobunaga's retainers would slam the doors shut and crush his neck. What happened was almost unbelieveable. As Murashige began to kneel and bow to his lord, he set his tessen in the groove of the doors. When the retainers slammed the doors shut they bounced harmlessly off of the tessen thus saving his life. When he sat back up and acted as though nothing happened Nobunaga spared the official from any more penalty and dismissed the charge.
So this shows that the tessen was more then just a decoration or a weapon. Something so simple as an iron fan was very versatile.
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The Sai

The Sai is a 3-pronged weapon used in close combat like a knife. Though the design my very from nation to nation it still maintains a central long spike with 2 shorter spikes on either side which helped to protect the hands of the individual wielding it. Now some show that the 2 shorter pronges may have 1 facing the same direction as the central spike and 1 facing down towards the handle, or that both short spikes face the same direction as the longer central spike.
Now like many of the other weapons that the ninjas would employ, this was also a tool that was used by the peasants in everyday operations. Its exact use can not be certain, some believe it was used for digging holes for rice, or measuring the stalks of plants. Others believe that this was used to lock cart wheels so the cart would not roll away. Either way in the hands of a trained martial artist this was a deadly weapon.
The side prongs allowed the wielder to block or catch the blade of a long sword and with a twist of the wrist it may have been possible to crack or break the sword blade. Though the central spike was not sharp as a sword blade would be its long tapered design would allow it to be punched into an enemy causing death or severe injury. On the back side of the Sai was a ball or knuckle which allowed for a solid blunt force that was able to break or crack bones in your enemy giving you a chance to escape or disarm and kill your enemy.
So, given the commonplace of this agriculturaltool/weapon a trained ninja would be able to carry it around and not raise suspicion from gaurds and soldiers. This allowed ninjas to travel the countryside well armed and also able to protect themselves or kill their enemies at anytime.

Shuriken

The shuriken is a small hand held weapon that was designed to act as a distraction more then a killing weapon. The literal translation is "sword in hand". They were made from everyday items such as needles, nails, knives, coins, and a variety of flat plates of metal with sharpened edges. It was an inexpensive weapon to make, that would be easily hidden, and yet could be a tactical advantage in a fight or even a battle.

The shuriken was not just a ninja's weapon, but was part of the minor martial arts training for many martial arts schools back in fuedal Japan. It was a supplemental weapon to the Nihonto family of weapons, i.e. the katana sword, spear, etc.. Its exact origins are still unknown, but research is still going on. However, there is documentation showing that the shuriken and the art form of throwing it was around in the 1600's and was part of the general training. This particular school was called shurikenjutsu.

A common type of shuriken that was used was the Bo-shuriken. It was a straight piece of rod usually four-sided but sometimes round and had a single-pointed end. Their length varied from 5" to 8 1/2" in length and weighed between 1.2oz and 5.5 oz.. The Bo-shuriken was a very popular due to the many different ways it could be thrown. Overhead, underhand, sideways, and rearward, but in each case the release is about the same with the blade slidingout of the hand through the fingers to give it a smooth controlled flight.

There is a wide variety of forms of hira-shuriken and they are now usually identified by the number of points the blades possess. As with bo-shuriken, the various shapes of hira-shuriken were usually representative of a particular school or region that preferred the use of such shapes, and it is therefore possible to identify the school by the type of blade used. Hira-shuriken are constructed from thin, flat plates of metal and had a different number of points ranging from 3 points up to and including 8 points. These are sometimes called "ninja stars" or throwing stars as ninja are consistently seen throwing this which looks like a star. They often have a hole in the center and possess a fairly thin blade sharpened only at the tip. The holes provided a means of being able to secure the stars by tying them together and it affected their aerodynamics, of course the holes were originally in them because they were made from old coins, washers, and nail-removing tools.

Koga Ninja

For hundreds of years the Iga group of Ninja were the major force in ninjutsu. Smaller groups existed in other parts of Japan, but in the Sengoku era Ninja groups sprang up throughout Japan. Within these groups of spies, saboteurs, and killers, there developed two super groups: the Iga of Mie prefecture and the deadly Koga of Shiga prefecture. Not surprisingly, Shiga is next to Mie prefecture in southern Japan. The Koga and Iga inhabited the same mountain range, in two valleys divided by a mountain. Completely isolated from the outside world, they lived as farmers and were sought after by the locals for medicine, herbs, weather forecasting, and agriculture help.
In time there were great generals who gradually unified Japan. These leaders such as Oda Nobunaga, Takeda Shingen, and possibly the greatest general in Japanese history Tokugawa Ieyasu all employed the Ninja to help control the country through a complex spy network.
The Koga Ninja consisted of fifty-three families. They specialized in medicines and explosives and developed many of the tools and weapons used by the Ninja. Though small in number, they were an elite force and became the second most famous group, besides the Iga, in the annals of ninjutsu. Based near Kyoto, they were recruited by the great leaders of Japan as counselors and military strategists.
In 1600 the Koga rescued lord Tokugawa from an assassination attempt by rival Ninja. They made a dummy of Lord Tokugawa, filled it with explosives, and placed it in Tokugawa's carriage. Then, acting as personal escort, they made it known that Tokugawa was on the move through enemy territory. This diversionary tactic succeeded when the false carriage was attacked by the enemy and all the Koga Ninja killed, giving the real carriage with Tokugawa precious time to escape.
In time Tokugawa became the shogun of Japan. He moved the capital from Kyoto to Edo, now called Tokyo, and took three hundred ninja with him from both Koga and Iga to be her personal bodyguards.
And under Tokugawa there began a reign of peace that lasted for 300 years. As the years passed the need for Ninja's declined and the number of men willing to endure the intense training needed to become a ninja declined as well because these young men did not want to just become gardeners for Lord Tokugawa. This was the decline of the powerful Ninjas from Japans proud history.

Great Japanese Swordsmen part 1

Japan has had many great swordsmen in its rich past, but there have been a few that stand out above the rest. Most of these men have been heard of even in the Western countries outside of Japan. Their names are Tsukahara Bokuden, Yagyu Muneyoshi, Miyamoto Musashi, Ito Ittosai. Each of these men have left their mark in our world with their skill, legend, and teachings.
Tsukahara Bokuden was probably the best swordsman of all time if you look at how many men he killed in combat. He fought in between 20 and 30 duels and was in over 30 battles. As a man in his teens he had begun to wander the country looking to test and improve his skills. In his lifetime he is credited with killing over 200 enemies this was a record that was never matched by any swordsman after his time. Tsukahara died of natural causes at the age of 81. His sword style was that of Kashima and Shinto. It is supposed that he had started the Kashima school which bears a strong similarity to the Shinto style, and uses the premace of hitotsu-tachi which means "one cut" or "one stroke".
What the one cut or one stoke idea means is that you wait until the absolutely very last second of your opponents attack and then counter and attack. If done properly your enemy will miss you by less then an inch making this a fairly difficult application to learn. But if you understand your sword then you have a better chance of succeeding with it. Your sword is divided into 3 parts. The end 1/3rd of your blade is where you have the most power and the best cutting ability, the middle 1/3rd has a lower power strike, and the last 1/3rd is the weakest part for striking. Knowing this it is possible to be struck by the lowest 1/3rd of the blade without beng cut and allowing you to counter and strike your opponent with the first 1/3rd or the strongest part of your blade thus killing your enemy. To learn this technique takes proper training and much practice to master.

Muneyoshi was born Yagy%u016B Shinsuke in 1529 in Yagy%u016B Village in Yamato Province. His father, Ietoshi, was a minor landed lord. When Muneyoshi was 12, Ietoshi joined a general named Kisawa Nagamasa in contesting the growing power of the warlord Miyoshi Ch%u014Dkei. However, Kisawa was killed in battle, and the Yagy%u016B found themselves on the defensive. With over half of Yamato Province under his control, Miyoshi left the rest of the conquest to his lieutenant, Tsutsui Junsh%u014D.
The Tsutsui and the Yagy%u016B had feuded previously, and Junsh%u014D wasted no time. In 1544 he attacked the Yagy%u016B at Koyagy%u016B Castle with about 10,000 men. According to the Tamon-in Nikki, a chronicle of the K%u014Dfuku-ji temple, at first the Yagy%u016B were caught by surprise, but Ietoshi rallied his troops for a defensive battle. Muneyoshi, a young man of 15, successfuly led a small troop of his own. The Tsutsui troops surrounded the castle, burned the surrounding houses and villages, took control of the outer castle and cut off the water supply, but the main castle still held out. The Yagy%u016B held out or three days, but they were greatly outnumbered, and had no choice but to capitulate, and submit to the Tsutsui.
The Yagy%u016B served the Tsutsui for eight years. Muneyoshi studied the martial and liberal arts, becoming proficient with the spear and sword, as well as studying Confucianism, Zen Buddhism, and Shingon Buddhism. Muneyoshi soon gained notice as an able warrior and commander, and as many of orders were sent by Tsutsui to him, a young man in his 20s, as were sent to his father, still an active lord in his 50s. One message sent by Junsh%u014D's son Fujikatsu to Ietoshi singles out Muneyoshi in particular for praise.
In 1559, the warlord Matsunaga Hisahide decided to attack the Tsutsui and take control of Yamato Province. He sent a message to Muneyoshi promising to restore their old lands and position to the Yagy%u016B in exchange for their service. The Tsutsui were overthrown, and the Yagy%u016B grew prominent under Matsunaga. In particular, Matsunaga gave Muneyoshi a citation for valor for his performance in a battle at To'unomine. Matsunaga's attempt to take the mountain was repulsed, and Muneyoshi fought in the rearguard as the army retreated. He was wounded, but fighting with a spear he killed several of the enemy. Muneyoshi almost did not survive the battle, but a retainer named Matsuda Muneshige sacrificed his life to save Munetoshi's. Muneyoshi would later make mention of his extreme gratitude when he gave a Shinkage-ry%u016B license to Muneshige's son Genjir%u014D.
It is not entirely clear what school of combat Muneyoshi studied, or who his teachers were. An Owari Yagy%u016B family record suggests that he studied Shint%u014D-ry%u016B under a man named Kantori Shinj%u016Br%u014D. But "Kantori" may simply be a misreading of kanji meant to read "Katori", thus signifying "Katori Shint%u014D-ry%u016B". An Edo Yagy%u016B family record suggests that he studied Toda-ry%u016B, a branch of Ch%u016Bj%u014D-ry%u016B. All family records and Munetoshi's own surviving writings suggest that he was an enthusiastic student of the military arts from a young age, before he met Kamiizumi Hidetsune.
Muneyoshi served Matsunaga with distinction. The battle at To'unomine, for which Muneyoshi received a citation of valor, was either just before his encounter with Hidetsuna or shortly after. In 1568, Oda Nobunaga entered Yamato Province with overwhelming force and subjugated the Matsunaga and Tsutsui, ending their skirmishing. It is likely that around this time Ietoshi retired, and passed on the leadership of the Yagy%u016B to Muneyoshi. Nobunaga ordered Muneyoshi to go to Kyoto and attend to the new Sh%u014Dgun Ashikaga Yoshiaki.
With the passing of a few years, however, Yoshiaki began forming alliances to overthrow Nobunaga, among them the Yagy%u016B's old lord and present commander Matsunaga Hisahide and the warlord Takeda Shingen. In 1571, attempting to secure control once more over Yamato Province, Matsunaga sent the Yagy%u016B in an attack against Tsutsui Junkei at Tatsuichi, a town in Nara. The attack was a total failure, and in the course of the battle Muneyoshi's oldest son, Toshikatsu, was shot in the hip. This compounded an earlier injury he had received in his first battle, and made him an invalid for life.
Yoshiaki's coalition made its move against Nobunaga in 1573, but despite early success the death of Takeda Shingen weakened it. Nobunaga drove Yoshiaki out of Kyoto in August, and Matsunaga rejoined Nobunaga to fight the other members of the coalition. It is likely that Muneyoshi took part in these battles. However, by 1577 Matsunaga again turned on Nobunaga, who then finally defeated his wayward vassal. It is not clear when, but around this time Muneyoshi withdrew from the world of battle, and secluded himself in Yagy%u016B Village.
When you read Yagus's Heiho Kaden Sho, you can get an idea of his fighting style. Often it would appear that he devised counters for favorite techniques of other martial arts schools in his lifetime. The amount of study you needed to do this was great. One of the special techniques of the Yagyu ryu is muto, or no sword. With these techniques, it is possible for an unarmed man to defeat an opponent armed with a sword. This is a very good indication of Yagtu's skills since the level of this training is very high.

Miyamoto Musashi

Musashi is a well known martial artist from fuedal Japan. He is considered the Kensei, sword-saint of Japan. The name "Musashi" was thought to be taken from the name of a warrior monk named Musashibo Benkei who served under Minamoto no Yoshitsune, but this is unconfirmed.
It's said that he may have studied at the Yoshioka ryu school, which was also said to be a school Musashi defeated single-handedly during his later years, although this is very uncertain. He did have formal training either by his father until he was 7 years old or from his uncle beginning at the age of 7. Ultimately the name was taken from his own original kanji, which can be read as Takezo or as Musashi, as stated in Eiji Yoshikawa's book Musashi.
At the age of 13 Musashi fought in his first duel killing his opponent, by the age of 60 he had been in over sixty duels with (according to legend ) only 1 ending in a draw, the rest were victories. This does not include the men that he had killed in battle. He was involved in several major battles during his time, and the number of enemies he killed from them are unknown. In April 13, 1612, Musashi fought his most famous duel, with Sasaki Kojiro, who wielded a nodachi. Musashi came late and unkempt to the appointed place - the remote island of Funajima, north of Kokura. The duel was short. Musashi killed his opponent with a bokken that he had carved from an oar while traveling to the island. Musashi fashioned it to be longer than the nodachi, making it closer to a modern suburito.
Musashi's late arrival is controversial. Sasaki's outraged supporters thought it was dishonorable and disrespectful while Musashi's supporters thought it was a fair way to unnerve his opponent. Another theory is that Musashi timed the hour of his arrival to match the turning of the tide. The tide carried him to the island. After his victory, Musashi immediately jumped back in his boat and his flight from Sasaki's vengeful allies was helped by the turning of the tide. Another theory states he waited for the sun to get in the right position. After he dodged a blow Sasaki was blinded by the sun. At this time Musashi would have delivered the killing blow to the chest of Sasaki ending the duel.
In the year 1643 Musashi retired to a cave and began writing his "Book of Five Rings" or "Go Rin No Sho" . He finished the book in 1644 and passed its knowledge onto his closest disciple. And in June of 1645, the greatest warrior and swordsman of his time passed away leaving a legand and legacy that have since been unrivaled. His book is still read and the knowledge still continues to be used not only only the field of battle, but also the board rooms around the world of major businesses.

How Lazy Have We Become?

Today I saw the ultimate in lazyness from a parent. This was even worse then seeing the minivan load of kids climbing in and out of the van to go knock on the doors to get candy which in itself is pathetic.
Today, I was playing in the front yard with my 3 children and this little boy of maybe 8 or 9 walks up and says "I am a cub scout and am out selling M&M's plain and peanut for a dollars a bag". Well I look down and he has a ziplock bag filled with individual bags of M&M' (plain and peanut) and those bags look worn. He is not wearing a cubscout uniform, and is only going to places where he see's people. I glance around and I see a man in a minivan half a block away waiting. I inform the boy that I have no money at this time and he moves on. I continued to watch him walk, and this van following (always a half a block back). He obviously knows this van as he keeps watching it and is in no hurry to get to as many houses as possible.
Now maybe it is me, but as a father and a parent the dad should have been walking with his son and yes staying back to let his son do the selling but be there for support not just trailing behind like a lazy POS that he seemed to be. As a parent what kind of message does this send to our kids? Hey son its ok to be lazy and just drive around, not give any tips or moral support to your kids so they can grow up to be just like me. Yea, what a message. If you didn't want kids then keep it in your pants, if you have kids then man up, don't make the same mistakes your parent or parents did, and be the best father a child could ask for.
Sorry to say, with sex comes responsibility either be ready to accept that responsibility or don't have sex. Only you can chose to make this a better world.