Think This Can't Happen To You?
An Instant Way to Gain Rapport
What Are You Saying With Your Body Language?
Learn To Be Psychic By Reading Body Language
Unlock The Intelligence Of Your Heart
What Are You Revealing With Your Handwriting?
Books About Handwriting Analysis/Graphology
A Powerful Method To Change An Unwanted Behavior
"Manifest Your Life", a FREE e-book
Control and Manipulation
Take Control of Your Mind Or Others Will Do It For You
What is NLP? NLP Explained and Demonstrated
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I'm Curious...What Are Your Thoughts?

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The Incredible Power of Intent
Reconnect To Spirit
The Energy And Power Of Emotions

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It is vital to have rapport in every relationship you have, whether it is romantic, platonic, social or professional. It is essential to good communication and building trust. When you have good rapport with someone, you feel that you are compatible, and communication and trust come easily.

Shhh! DON'T TELL ANYBODY I TOLD YOU THIS! LET'S KEEP IT OUR SECRET!

A secret way to gain trust and rapport with someone, without their knowledge of you doing it, is with a greeting, and it all starts from the moment you make eye contact.

Every person has their own way of greeting others, whether they are conscious of it or not. At the moment of eye contact, if they don't divert their eyes away, they will give some kind of greeting. They may smile, they may nod their head or raise their eyebrows, it can be most anything. Train yourself to watch closely so you can pick up on it, and then mirror that gesture back to them. They will then usually give another signal of greeting. Again, this can be most anything. Once again you mirror that back to them. Even though they will not notice what you are doing consciously, their subconscious mind will pick up it up, and you are now considered a friend not foe. Instant rapport! After all, you are just like them. This is based on the common NLP use of "Mirroring and Matching."

By: Luann M. Bulmer

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LISTEN AND YOU WILL SEE WHAT THE BODY IS TELLING YOU

Our unconscious mind speaks to the world in many different ways, one of which is through our body language. You might be curious to know that when we are communicating to others that:

55% of our communication is visual (through our body language and our eyes)
38% is vocal (the pitch, speed, volume, tone of voice)
7% the actual words spoken

Most of this communication is your unconscious speaking to the unconscious of others.

WOW!

Really makes you wonder, "What is my body language saying to the world around me?" Do you feel the butterflies in your stomach?

Do you know that attackers, whether they are muggers, rapist, and even players, usually pick their victims through observing their body language?

Every part of your body is displaying some sort of message, from your eyes all the way down to the direction you are pointing your feet.

You can learn how to:

• Flirt and attract the opposite sex


• Show that you are confident on that Job Interview


• Gain rapport, influence and persuade


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By learning Body Language you can also learn what others are unconsciously saying to you:

• Is He/She Flirting With Me?


• Are they interested? Or not?


• Know when someone is lying to you


• Are they, shy, confident, angry, nervous...?

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Aww, the power of the subconscious, and the mysteries that it holds.

Subconsciously we are always revealing ourselves to those around us without even realizing it. Not only do we show the world who we are by the clothes we choose to wear, the words we speak, the way we carry ourselves; we also reveal ourselves to the world through our handwriting.

Each person's handwriting is as unique as a fingerprint. Handwriting analysis, also known as Graphology, can give you a personality profile of someone.

All those loops and squiggles, spaces and connections, lines and dots all connect together to reveal some aspect of your personality straight from your subconscious mind. Your handwriting can even reveal if you have a physical ailment, and what area of the body that it is located in. Many companies are starting to use handwriting analysis to screen potential employees. They even say that we can change our personality by consciously changing our handwriting.

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By: Luann M. Bulmer
Change Your Mind With Hypnosis and NLP and
Programming of the Mind - Yours and Theirs

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Do you have an unwanted behavior response to a particular situation that you would like to change? There are several ways of doing this through NLP and hypnosis, but one powerful NLP method is called the "SWISH".

Think of a behavior that you would like to change. Get a good picture of it in your mind of a situation that stimulates that behavior.

Now think of the positive way you would like to behave in that situation. Imagine yourself in that situation using the positive behavior. What are you doing> How are you feeling inside? What colors do you see? Is it black and white? Is it bright or dim? Focused or unfocused? Are you participating or watching it like on a movie screen? What do you hear? How are you going to feel about yourself when you behave in this new way? Where do you feel it in your body? Change these things as your imagining this situation until it feels the best for you.

Break that state. Think of something else. Say your phone number backwards.

Now think of the old; first unwanted behavior and situation. Do the same thing that you did with the new behavior above. Imagine yourself in that situation using the unwanted behavior. What are you doing? How are you feeling inside? What colors do you see? Is it black and white? Is it bright or dim? Focused or unfocused? Are you participating or watching it like on a movie screen? What do you hear? How are you going to feel about yourself when you behave in this new way? Where do you feel it in your body? Change these things as your imagining this situation until you feel much better and better about the new desired behavior.

Again, break that state. Think of something else. Say your phone number backwards.

Now imagine the old unwanted behavior and situation again. Make it big, bright and in focus, and be sure you place yourself into this scene like you are looking through your own eyes and not at a movie screen. Place a picture of the new behavior and situation in one of the corners, making it small, dark and out of focus.

Hold on, because here comes the SWISH.

Switch places with the images. Make the old unwanted image smaller darker and out of focus while you are making the wanted behavior larger, brighter and in focus. SWISH. Do these last two steps about seven times, doing it faster and faster until the SWISH takes about a fraction of a second. Be sure to break the state in between times.

This procedure is very powerful and you can do this by yourself. I personally however, find that it is easier when I am guided using self-hynosis.

By Luann M. Bulmer

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Have you ever really taken the time to think about it? Control and manipulation are at the core of all our inter-personal relationships.

Control and manipulation. They are such ugly words, but we experience them everyday of our lives. People and institutions use our fears and our needs against us to get us to do what they want. We are being manipulated by our Government, Churches, TV, Stores, the media, and all the people we care most for in our lives. Either we are inflicting it on others, sometimes unknowingly, or they are inflicting it on us, in one way or another. When we do not think and behave the way the people around us want us to, the manipulation begins.

The Government uses our fears to manipulate us. One of the biggest ways it has been manipulating us most recently is by monopolizing on our need to feel safe and secure, and our fear of terrorism. How many rights have we willingly given up recently, all in the name of security?

The rest of them monopolize on our need to feel accepted, and our fear of rejection and abandonment, among other things. All humans feel the need to be accepted, and will avoid rejection and abandonment at all costs, which leaves us wide open to control and manipulation by those around us.

Peer pressure. We think, as adults that this concept only applies to our children, mostly in their school years. We as adults are far too mature for that, right?

STOP. Take the time to think about it. How many times as an adult have you allowed the world to control and manipulate you through peer pressure.

We go out and buy that expensive outfit to fit in at our office, (maybe we all should have to wear uniforms to work, so we can concentrate on our work and not each others looks). We buy clothes, makeup, cologne, jewelry, big houses, fancy cars, we have this sucked out, that lifted, this increased, that reduced, pierce this, tattoo that. All in an attempt to fit in and feel accepted by our peers. And don't even get me started on gossip, rumors, lies, guilt..., but then they are just a few of the methods some of the less self-respecting people choose to use to control and manipulate others.

Worst of all...sometimes we even go against our own principles and values, just to go along with the crowd and be accepted. Then we are not congruent with ourselves, and everything goes out of whack. When we are not in harmony with ourselves we begin to become ill, both emotional and physically.

Congruent: harmonious - you are congruent when what you say and do and believe are all in alignment.

And we wonder why so many people feel the need to find themselves. Why are we under so much stress? Why are we no longer able to control our own emotions?

The truth is; we should be controlling and manipulating ourselves. We have to accept ourselves. Consciously we may try or want to change a bad habit, get over a fear, control an emotion or behavior, but it still continues to have a hold on us. The problem is, we are trying to change on a conscious level, but it all begins on the subconscious level. In reality our thoughts and beliefs control our emotions, behaviors and our bodies. Take back control of your mind.

If you can tell the world who you are and what you believe without breaking stride or hesitating, you are happy with yourself. Neale Donald Walshe

If You Don't Change Your Mind, others will do it for you. Knowledge is the start of prevention.

By Luann M. Bulmer

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