No More Nice Guy! - How To Attract Women With Your Personality

Those two terms do not seem to fit together quite well in that headline. Or what do you think? How often do you think of these concepts as connected? Nice guys creating sexual desire in a woman. Don't know about you, but that doesn't seem to be a very common connection. If we're talking about "nice guys" here, the question of sexual desire most times doesn't even come up.

And that's the key. What makes a nice guy a nice guy is exactly that - sexuality. Or the lack thereof. These men are all into being romantic and sweet with a girl, being the guy that understands all her problems and can thus be the best support for her in hard times. He's the guy that will make her feel good about herself, make her always be comfortable, make sure that when she wants something, she gets it. It's like he wants to be a pillar on which a woman can support on.

Reality is another beast. Women do not judge men by the same criteria they judge their girlfriends by. Sounds kind of logical, doesn'it? If it's logical, then why is it that hordes of men keep acting AS IF IT'S TRUE? They act like a best friend, listening to her when she's feeling down, doing everyday activities together and so on. All this leads to affection. Yes, I admit that a woman will feel closer to you when you do those things. Sometimes she can become really-really close with a guy that acts as her girlfriend. It can lead to a really good connection.

So what's so bad about being a nice guy in that case, you ask me? The answer is: AFFECTION IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT. I mean, yeah, it would sure be nice to even get just a small bit of affection from that stunningly beautiful woman. It would be plain fun to simply hang out with her, doing nothing more. But here's the thing - if the girl you're looking at really is stunningly beautiful, then other men see it too. She probably has an abundance of guys who want to get her affection, who simply want to hang out with her. I will tell you one thing - she is not going to pay you any attention if you are SIMPLY LIKE ALL THE OTHER MEN OUT THERE.

There's a whole different game being played on a higher level here. Affection is not what makes women move. Sure, it can mean a lot. But what makes women LUST AFTER a guy is not affection. Women do not dream of guys that are just like their best friends. Women lust after men that can wake up DEEP, PRIMAL feelings inside of her that she doesn't experience often. The feelings that wake up the animal inside of her.

Because face the truth - we are all animals. We developed this rational, calculating side to ourselves only recently in our evolutionary history, and that's what it is - an add-on. We're still emotional beings at the core. Women crave these emotions. They crave the animal magnetism that certain men exude.

What do these men do differently? Well, as I hinted in the beginning of this article - they are sexual. They are not looking to please others socially, to take orders, to make others feel comfortable. Yes, they do those things too, but not TOO MUCH. What they are driven by is sexual energy, and women can instantly detect that. It's something that only a man that is in touch with his primal, animalistic side understands. When you're in a powerful state of mind, you exude a sexual energy. If you want to start having the kind of success you want with women, start by practicing and bringing out this energy in yourself. When you walk around, imagine how good you're going to make women feel in bed. Do not be ashamed. Society has forced a fake sense of guilt in you. It's nonsense, let it go. Women like sex as much as men do, they just need some time to warm up.

And you are the man to give her the opportunity and let her experience an amazing trip. Start showing that attitude with your body, your face, your eyes. I guarantee you will start feeling a lot different.

I've really only touched the surface with this one article. There's a whole world to be discovered out there, and I want you to take the first step and decide right now that just by the fact that you were born, you have the natural right to be successful with women and attract the kinds of girls you've always thought about. It can happen if you start practicing now.

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