Love spells

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On almost any page about spells on the Internet you will see ads with big, screaming headlines that insist you can find the love of your life, or bind him or her to you. All you have to do is pay for this or that love spell, or for Zorastus the Magus to cast it for you.

What is the truth behind all this hype?

The Dirty Truth about Love Spells 

There are real love spells. Some of them probably even work for some people some of the time. You can learn more about how and why spells work by clicking here to read "Why Spells Work", another of my articles

BUT. Yes, here is the big "BUT".

One firm rule of ethical spell work is that you never interfere with the free will of another person. You would never cast a spell on, at, or for another person without their knowledge and consent. This clearly puts most love spells out - since you don't generally feel the need to cast a love spell on someone who wants to love you.

The consequences of love spells are often dire and unpleasant. At the very least, even if it works, there will come a time when you are just as unhappy being with that person, as you think you are being without them. You know, even if they do not, that you did not earn their love or receive it honestly as the gift it is and should be.

You may even come to detest that person, and yourself, because deep down you will always know that you tricked them into loving you. Even if they actually truly fell in love with you, you will never know that for sure. Once again, you will be unhappy.

And before you think I am being all holier than thou, let me just tell you that part of the reason I feel so strongly, is because I did a love spell once. And I got what I asked for, and deserved. It was not pretty, in the end.

Rather than a love spell, consider a spell for yourself, to help you learn to love yourself. The truth is, until you truly love yourself, you will not allow anyone else to love you. Even if they do love you, you will end up pushing them away, one way or another, because you believe you are not loveable.

Learn to love and accept yourself, and love will come to you

There are other ways to find love 

Learning to Love Yourself: Finding Your Self-Worth

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Smile Across Your Heart: The Process of Building Self Love

Amazon Price: $18.95 (as of 07/11/2009) Buy Now

Choose to Be Happy: A Guide to Total Happiness

Amazon Price: $15.95 (as of 07/11/2009) Buy Now

Love Letters From Your Higher Self ~ Holding Hands with Spirit

Amazon Price: $18.95 (as of 07/11/2009) Buy Now

Love spells - good or bad? 

What do you think?

I have told you why I think love spells are worse than useless - but what you do think? Have you ever used one? What happened?

Love spells - good or bad?

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Good - all is fair in love and war

Bad - it never works out

 
 
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Tell me about your love 

gpower2llc wrote...

Interesting! Thank you.

ReplyPosted June 18, 2007

Gail_Faulkner wrote...

Good Info! nice lens Gail

ReplyPosted June 05, 2007

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