not following the crowd

I can remember my mother telling us when we were growing up "Do not do what everyone else is doing just for the sake of doing it"!

When i was younger I probably did not see it that way, because I wanted to be part of the crowd and be popular or what have you.

But the interesting thing is when I grew up... It did not take me long to learn the hard way she was correct.

Following the crowd is simply playing it safe. Study and go to college, find solid and dependable employment, settle down with a wife or a husband, and hopefully retire at age 65 with the assistance of the socialized retirement fund on the income of 30% of what you could'nt manage to survive on in the first place. Who wants that?

The worst part is, there is not a person out there who wants that type of lifestyle, we all want to became as successful as we possibly can...

No one ever became healthy and fit by following the crowd.

Why is it then we put so much worth in what they accept? They will never help you become who you want to become or lead you to where you want to go..

As people we so desire to be accepted by our peers that we let it control our life to the point of no return.

Persons who have made it to the top definitly broke away from the herd mentality.. These people did it on their own. They gave up wondering about what people think of them. They conquered their fear as a consequence they backed out from behind the crowd and started out by themselves.

They faced their fear. And as a result they broke through to the sunshine. They won the race called life. They got to go places the crowd will never go.

The question then is what can you do to make this happen for you? the best way to do it is go look for someone who can show you the way!

If everyone is doing something, stop and ask yourself if it is going to help you really create the life you desire?

Instead find someone who did what you want to do. Afterward in basic terms follow their advice.

The get ready for it, people will not want you to make it, they will call you crazy and think you have lost your mind, and they will try and pressure you to come back to the shadows of the crowd... for the reason that they realize they are frightened you will succeed & this terrifies in a major way due to the fact you have removed every single one of their lies for why they have not done what you did!

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