This is Not the Life I Ordered
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50 Ways to keep your head above water when life keeps dragging you down
With this week's Giant Squid Challenge to review the next book you are going to read and encourage your friends to read along, I went and pulled this one out of the pile. It looks like a shot of inspiration that I need right now.
This is Not the Life I Ordered, published in 2007 by Conari Press, is an inspiring work by four women who have faced a variety of challenges.
These four women have experienced a wide range of life challenges. According to the book cover between these women they have experienced:
- Six marriages
Ten children
Four stepchildren
Six dogs
Two miscarriages
Two cats
One failed adoption
Being a foster parent
In this book these brave women describe their friendship for more than a decade. These women believe it was "the power and strength of their collective friendship" that enabled them to not only survive but to thrive.
As you read this book with me, you may discover your own special ways to keep you head above water when life is dragging you down.
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Who should read This is Not the Life I Ordered?
This is Not the Life I Ordered is recommended:
If you've ever felt overworked, overwhelmed, disillusioned of just plain unlucky...
If you've ever felt like your shoulders were scraping the cement...
If you've ever needed a good laugh, a shoulder to cry on or simply a good reason to believe that life will be better tomorrow...
Source: This is Not the Life I Ordered Website.
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This Is Not the Life I Ordered: 50 Ways to Keep Your Head Above Water When Life Keeps Dragging You Down
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This Is Not the Life I Ordered book is for anyone who has ever felt overworked or overwhelmed. This is the hardcover version of the book.
Through this collection of stories, wisdom, and practical advice, readers will meet four ordinary women who have faced extraordinary life challenges.
This is Most Definitely *Not* the Life I Ordered
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This inspiring book was written by Deborah Collins Stephens, Michealene Cristini Risley, Jackie Speier, and Jan Yanehiro.
50 Ways to keep your head above water... Organized into 9 Chapters
- Managing Misfortunate Events
- Learning to Love the "Oops"
- Make Courage an Everyday Companion
- Understanding Money and a Woman's Worth
- Learning to Live with Change
- Reinventing Yourself
- Real Women Ask for Help!
- Facing Naysayers
- Rebuilding Dreams
Have you ever felt that your life was not the one you ordered?
Share your thoughts on a time when you felt "overworked, overwhelmed, disillusioned of just plain unlucky" or when "your shoulders were scraping the cement."
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Cherrybomb2009
Jul 7, 2010 @ 12:59 pm | delete
- If I can afford to, I'll be buying this book (or maybe just rent it from the library), because I could REALLY use this book right about now...
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ChapelHillFiddler
Oct 18, 2009 @ 7:13 am | delete
- Yes, in the span of a couple years I lost my father and my mother-figure, a hurricane dumped eight trees on my house, I got divorced, and I got involved in a very corrosive relationship. Then, when I thought things had to get better - my son got brain cancer. That was nine years ago and I still feel pressed down the ground - but it's not so bad down here. A few inches from the ground makes for interesting perspective.
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AdrienneJenkins
Jul 31, 2009 @ 3:14 pm | delete
- If I ever feel that way, I use that negative energy as fuel to find a way to get me to where I should be.
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Jul 29, 2009 @ 8:28 pm | delete
- I would seriously read this book - great lens!
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spirituality Jul 28, 2009 @ 5:12 am | delete
- blessed :)
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This is Not the Life I Ordered Website
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- The official website for This is Not the Life I Ordered book written by Deborah Collins Stephens, Michealene Cristini Risley, Jackie Speier and Jan Yanehiro.
- This Is Not the Life I Ordered
- Simply four women - Wisdom Shared Around the Kitchen Table Blog.

This is Not the Life I Ordered
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This Is Not the Life I Ordered: 50 Ways to Keep Your Head Above Water When Life Keeps Dragging You Down
Amazon Price: $6.00 (as of 06/03/2012)![]()
This Is Not the Life I Ordered book is for anyone who has ever felt overworked or overwhelmed. This is the paperback version of the book.
Through this collection of stories, wisdom, and practical advice, readers will meet four ordinary women who have faced extraordinary life challenges.
Your Review of the Book
What do you think of This is Not the Life I Ordered?

A Must Read - Thumbs Up
Comfortdoc says:
For obvious reasons, I am saying that this book is a must read, so am giving it a thumbs up review.
I've Got Other Books to Read - Thumbs Down
Reviews of This is Not the Life I Ordered
- Armchair Interviews: This Is Not the Life I Ordered
- A review by Connie Anderson for Armchair Interviews of This Is Not the Life I Ordered by Collins, Speier, Risley and Yanehiro, published by Conari Press.
- Not the Life I Ordered | Staying Well | CarePages.com
- A review by Anne E. Stein for CarePages on Turning a "Life You Didn't Order" Into a Life You Love.
- This is not the Life I ordered | Book Reviews and Inspiration
- Diana Page Jordan reviews This is not the Life I Ordered for her BookBlog.
- This is Not The Life I Ordered | California Bookwatch
- This is Not The Life I Ordered reviewed by California Bookwatch.
- This Is Not The Life I Ordered: 50 Ways to Keep Your Head Above Water When Life Keeps Dragging You Down | ForeWord | Find Articles at BNET
- This Is Not The Life I Ordered: 50 Ways to Keep Your Head Above Water When Life Keeps Dragging You Down reviewed by Pam Bonter from ForeWord.
A Welcome Source of Inspiration and Insight
I wish I had this book thirty years ago.
What a welcome source of inspiration and insight.
Linda Ellerbee
Journalist, award-winning television producer, author, breast cancer survivor, and mom.
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The Authors
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Feel the Author's Strength and the Spirit
Even before you hear their stories, you feel their strength. When these four women came into my office, I knew I wanted to be a part of their mission.
Readers will find themselves engulfed (in a good way) by their spirit.
Gerry Laybourne
Co-founder, chairman, and CEO of Oxygen Media
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Inspiration to Survive Bad Luck and Circumstances
This book is the needed inspiration to survive the worst luck and circumstances that catch women unexpectedly...
It contains the innate resources we have to climb out of the abyss and into a new life with unexpected happiness.
Amy Tan
Best-selling author of The Joy Luck Club
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Were you inspired to read the book "This is Not the Life I Ordered"?
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ChapelHillFiddler
Oct 18, 2009 @ 7:14 am | delete
- You make really interesting lenses for people in sorry situations. Thanks!
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ClassyGals Jul 30, 2009 @ 4:15 pm | delete
- Hmmm, heard about Not the Life I Ordered, sounds good. Five stars!
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flighty02
Jul 29, 2009 @ 3:19 am | delete
- Sounds like a book that I should get around to reading one day!
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bdkz
Jul 28, 2009 @ 2:13 pm | delete
- Looks interesting!
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Susan52
Jul 25, 2009 @ 10:07 am | delete
- Sounds like a very interesting book!
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