In Praise of Paper Letters

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Anyone Remember Handwritten Letters?


I'm stuck somewhere between scented stationery and the land of rambling emails. I rarely receive a handwritten letter anymore, and it's a special occasion when I sit down to write one myself. For the sake of convenience and speed, most of us rely on email to keep in touch.

But every now and then I long for the days when a letter in my mailbox brought news from far away. I miss the excitement of ripping into an envelope and catching up on the lives of family and friends, of hearing good news and not-so-good news spelled out in a handwriting that I recognize instantly.

This lens is about communication, and how our words have the power to enrich each other's lives and live on long past the moment we write those very first words.



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Letters After the War, Pt. I

Correspondence between sweethearts, 1945

They met by chance--he a tall, handsome Air Force man about to be discharged after WWII, and she a shy, brown-eyed bank teller hurrying to the post office on her lunch break. As the story goes, they fell in love at first sight, and would have married right away, had they not worried about what their families would think.

For the next eight months, they communicated through letters. She continued her work, and he enrolled in a university a few hundred miles away. They lived for weekends, when they would see each other again.

Their letters contain the loving expressions of two twenty-somethings, whose hopes and dreams were dancing on the horizon of their future. They exchanged memories of childhood, stories about their families, and dreamt about life together--dreams of having babies and finding work that satisfied. They discussed where they'd like to live after his university studies were complete.

By the time they married, they knew each other better than many couples today, because they communicated daily about what mattered most to them.

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In Praise of Handwritten Letters

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Letters After the War, Pt. II

How daily correspondence led to a lifetime together...


The letters continued daily. It didn't take long to realize that their relationship was growing into something rare and special.

Their whirlwind courtship led to a marriage that lasted 58 years until death parted them. Although they experienced occasional struggles in their marriage that no young couple could ever anticipate, the hopes and dreams they shared in those early letters did come true, including six "babies" who now range in age from 61 to 48.

I knew them well; I'm their daughter.

My parents' letters are more valuable than anything money could buy. I'm so glad they saved every last one, bundled with rubberbands, in the order in which they wrote them. Reading them has been like watching someone paint a striking panorama of their lives.

Now that they're gone, I know their full story, beginning to end, in beautiful detail. I even have greeting cards they exchanged throughout their married life, including some lovely vintage Valentine's Day cards.

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The World's Great Letters

A rare find at a used bookstore...

I don't know about you, but I love visiting used bookstores. On the Oregon coast there's a certain bookstore my husband and I always stop at when we're visiting Lincoln City. It's situated in a building that looks much tinier than it really is. Once inside, we're greeted by the resident fat cat, who is usually lying in a puddle of sunlight in his cozy kitty bed near the window.

The bookstore is built around seven or eight rooms, which wind through various levels of the building. A cookbook room is elevated to the left of the front door, antique books are at home around the checkout counter, back into a little nook, and everything else is straight ahead.

On this particular day, I headed towards the back of the main area, and discovered an old volume titled The World's Great Letters: From Ancient Days to our Own Times. The blurb inside reads: "Containing the characteristic and crucial communications, and intimate exchanges and cycles of correspondence, of many of the outstanding figures of world history, and some notable contemporaries, selected, edited, and integrated with biographical backgrounds and historical settings and consequences by M. Lincoln Schuster. (Whew! Are you exhausted yet?)





This book is filled with flowery prose, and for letter lovers like me, it's a treasure chest. These headings will give you a feel for the types of dramatic letters Schuster included in this book, copyrighted in 1940:

Benjamin Franklin Hurls His Defiance at an Old Comrade
Leonardo Da Vinci Asks the Duke of Milan for a Job
Charles Dickens Tells His Wife That Their Infant Daughter Has Died
Richard Wagner Demands a Loan of Ten Thousand Francs From One of His Admirers

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Children Writing Letters


Make letter writing fun from an early age, and children will have fun corresponding with family and friends on paper.
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Paper Letters vs. Email

Is there a difference?

What say ye? Is it the thought that counts, or the tool to deliver that thought?

Is it the thought that counts, or the tool that delivers the thought?

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I feel special when someone takes time to send a handwritten letter.

MomwithAHook says:

The thought is always the key but from experience, when you receive a letter in the mail on a day when you are just in the pits, IT's a joy to sit, relax, and read a handwritten letter from a loved one or friend.

LauraSchofield says:

There's nothing like getting something in the mail. Email is good for quickly letting others know what's up but it doesn't substitute at all for good old pen and paper.

Nonsense! It's the thought that counts, whether it's on paper or email.

Joan4 says:

I am totally spoiled by email now, tho I appreciate a handwritten note.

 

Family Letters Throughout History

A look back...

What wonderful links, with connections to historic letters exchanged within families. It's like peeking into the life of long-ago families. I love it!
Letters written to grandparents
A nostalgic blog
Civil War Letters of the Christie Family
A wonderful peek into the Civil War era with all its struggles
Prairie Settlement
Nebraska Photographs & Family Letters 1862-1912
Laura Ingalls Wilder letters
from the Wisconsin Historical Society

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Paper Letters: The New Email?

Make it fun!

We encourage children to write thank-you notes. Why not letters, too?

When my kids were in early elementary grades, we lived overseas, far from grandparents. Once a month they'd write a newsy letter. We'd send the letters in a big brown envelope, so we could include special items they wanted to share: a school story, poem, or a picture they drew, for example.

It was one way to deepen the relationship between them and their grandparents, and they looked forward to the day the mail arrived with a reply. Letters are important, especially when family doesn't live closeby. Have you thought about sitting down and helping your child create a special correspondence to send? There's something magical about sealing an envelope and stamping it, then sending it off to be delivered. You might even say that letter-writing is the new email.

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A Note from Ada


When my father passed away in 2006, it ended a huge chapter of my life. Both my parents were gone now, and in a way, it felt as though the six of us were orphans. Of course that's not the case, but it's a common reaction to suddenly being without parents.

Ada was a special lady in the lives of us all. She took time to write a comforting note, and it meant all the more to us because she had played such a key role in our childhood years. Read more about it here...



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    devilsworkshopcrafts Feb 17, 2011 @ 5:45 pm | delete
    I just dropped some letters off at the post this afternoon! I love sending thank-you cards in the mail, as well as valentines.
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    MomwithAHook Dec 26, 2009 @ 10:09 pm | delete
    I used to receive letters from my Grandma when she was alive. I was just looking at my memory box the other day and some of the letters brought back such clear memories - Laughs - and tears. Here is one piece of a letter which shows you what a fabulous person my Grandma was.
    "Well, here goes. So watch out. I just finished a 22 page letter to L. so I'll give you fair warning. (ahead of time now) You'd better kick off your shoes, get comfortable in a chair and prop up your feet. Come to think of it you'd better fix you something to eat and drink because I have seven letters in front of me all from you guys. Come to think of it you'd better hide those shoes because these letters are going to be so long that you'll be so mad- I don't want to get hit in the head by a passing shoe. OK. How are you, sure you are all comfie -- You sure -- Got something to eat and drink. Maybe some chips, Okay. Here goes....."

    I laughed so hard when reading that tears came to my eyes. :)
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    seedplanter Feb 17, 2011 @ 10:10 pm | delete
    Ohhhh...your comment and the excerpt from your grandma's letter almost made me cry, too! I have all my family letters from the past 30-something years and they are my most precious possession in the world. Your grandma would be so happy that you're still reading her words and feeling that sweet connection. Thanks for taking time to share that with me.
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    seedplanter Jun 11, 2009 @ 4:17 pm | in reply to susannaduffy | delete
    Susan, thanks for the sweet blessing. I appreciate that. I wrote a paper letter just yesterday, and my poor hand cramped up after a few lines. It reminded me that a letter every week would be a very good thing - both for someone on the receiving end and for my hands!
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    susannaduffy Jun 11, 2009 @ 6:30 am | delete
    Gorgeous. I am off now to stock up on nice notepaper and new shiny stamps. Blessed by an angel today (/my-angel-blessings).
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    Joan4 May 10, 2009 @ 9:33 pm | delete
    Like your parents, we "courted" via the US mail and the telephone. And here we are 45 years later, so those letters worked! :) My sister Betty still writes 2 or 3 notes every single day before she goes to work - I so admire her for that. I just can't seem to discipline myself to do it. And it is so important! Letter writing is becoming a lost art.
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    GrowWear Jan 25, 2009 @ 4:20 pm | delete
    Longing for snail mail now. Lovely sentiment; lovely lens. :)
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  2. Letters After the War, Pt. I
  3. The History of Stationery
  4. One-of-a-Kind Notecards
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  6. Mailboxes! Mailboxes! Mailboxes!
  7. The World's Great Letters
  8. Create Custom Address Labels
  9. Children Writing Letters
  10. Paper Letters vs. Email
  11. Family Letters Throughout History
  12. Speak Up!
  13. And speaking of letters...
  14. Paper Letters: The New Email?
  15. Old-Fashioned Fine Art Prints
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