In Praise of Paper Letters
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Anyone Remember Handwritten Letters?
I'm stuck somewhere between scented stationery and the land of rambling emails. I rarely receive a handwritten letter anymore, and it's a special occasion when I sit down to write one myself. For the sake of convenience and speed, most of us rely on email to keep in touch.
But every now and then I long for the days when a letter in my mailbox brought news from far away. I miss the excitement of ripping into an envelope and catching up on the lives of family and friends, of hearing good news and not-so-good news spelled out in a handwriting that I recognize instantly.
This lens is about communication, and how our words have the power to enrich each other's lives and live on long past the moment we write those very first words.
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Beautiful Stationery
...waiting for your words!
Letters After the War, Pt. I
Correspondence between sweethearts, 1945

They met by chance--he a tall, handsome Air Force man about to be discharged after WWII, and she a shy, brown-eyed bank teller hurrying to the post office on her lunch break. As the story goes, they fell in love at first sight, and would have married right away, had they not worried about what their families would think.
For the next eight months, they communicated through letters. She continued her work, and he enrolled in a university a few hundred miles away. They lived for weekends, when they would see each other again.
Their letters contain the loving expressions of two twenty-somethings, whose hopes and dreams were dancing on the horizon of their future. They exchanged memories of childhood, stories about their families, and dreamt about life together--dreams of having babies and finding work that satisfied. They discussed where they'd like to live after his university studies were complete.
By the time they married, they knew each other better than many couples today, because they communicated daily about what mattered most to them.
The History of Stationery
In Praise of Handwritten Letters
- Ryman Stationery Blog
- Learn about the history of stationery in this blog by the largest producer of letter-writing paper, Ryman Stationery. Established in 1893.
- A Timeline of BIC products
- What would pretty stationery be without a good pen?
- Paper So Pretty Products
- Why use plain paper when you can make a lasting impression?
One-of-a-Kind Notecards
Blank inside for everyday use
These are blank cards, just waiting to be filled...by you.
Letters After the War, Pt. II
How daily correspondence led to a lifetime together...
The letters continued daily. It didn't take long to realize that their relationship was growing into something rare and special.
Their whirlwind courtship led to a marriage that lasted 58 years until death parted them. Although they experienced occasional struggles in their marriage that no young couple could ever anticipate, the hopes and dreams they shared in those early letters did come true, including six "babies" who now range in age from 61 to 48.
I knew them well; I'm their daughter.
My parents' letters are more valuable than anything money could buy. I'm so glad they saved every last one, bundled with rubberbands, in the order in which they wrote them. Reading them has been like watching someone paint a striking panorama of their lives.
Now that they're gone, I know their full story, beginning to end, in beautiful detail. I even have greeting cards they exchanged throughout their married life, including some lovely vintage Valentine's Day cards.
Mailboxes! Mailboxes! Mailboxes!
Mailboxes as Art
The World's Great Letters
A rare find at a used bookstore...

I don't know about you, but I love visiting used bookstores. On the Oregon coast there's a certain bookstore my husband and I always stop at when we're visiting Lincoln City. It's situated in a building that looks much tinier than it really is. Once inside, we're greeted by the resident fat cat, who is usually lying in a puddle of sunlight in his cozy kitty bed near the window.
The bookstore is built around seven or eight rooms, which wind through various levels of the building. A cookbook room is elevated to the left of the front door, antique books are at home around the checkout counter, back into a little nook, and everything else is straight ahead.
On this particular day, I headed towards the back of the main area, and discovered an old volume titled The World's Great Letters: From Ancient Days to our Own Times. The blurb inside reads: "Containing the characteristic and crucial communications, and intimate exchanges and cycles of correspondence, of many of the outstanding figures of world history, and some notable contemporaries, selected, edited, and integrated with biographical backgrounds and historical settings and consequences by M. Lincoln Schuster. (Whew! Are you exhausted yet?)

This book is filled with flowery prose, and for letter lovers like me, it's a treasure chest. These headings will give you a feel for the types of dramatic letters Schuster included in this book, copyrighted in 1940:
Benjamin Franklin Hurls His Defiance at an Old Comrade
Leonardo Da Vinci Asks the Duke of Milan for a Job
Charles Dickens Tells His Wife That Their Infant Daughter Has Died
Richard Wagner Demands a Loan of Ten Thousand Francs From One of His Admirers
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Children Writing Letters

Make letter writing fun from an early age, and children will have fun corresponding with family and friends on paper.
- Teach Children to Write Thank-You Note
- Beginning with Christmas or another special occasion, sit with your child and encourage them to write thank-you notes for gifts they've received or kindnesses someone has shown them. It's a habit that will follow them all their life.
- Teaching Your Child How to Write a Letter
- Children can write letters as soon as they can write, even earlier if they dictate to Dad or Mom. Teaching your child to write a letter is handing them the power of the pen!
- First Graders Write Letters to President-Elect Obama
- "President-elect Barack Obama might have consulted with hundreds of advisers over the course of his recently concluded campaign, but some Wauwatosa first-graders are hopeful they can catch his ear once he gets into office.
They think they have a secret weapon: themselves." - Helping Your Child to Write Well
- In helping your child to learn to write well, remember that your goal is to make writing easier and more enjoyable. Here's how...
Paper Letters vs. Email
Is there a difference?
What say ye? Is it the thought that counts, or the tool to deliver that thought?
Is it the thought that counts, or the tool that delivers the thought?
Fetching blurbs now... please stand byI feel special when someone takes time to send a handwritten letter.
MomwithAHook says:
The thought is always the key but from experience, when you receive a letter in the mail on a day when you are just in the pits, IT's a joy to sit, relax, and read a handwritten letter from a loved one or friend.
Posted December 26, 2009
LauraSchofield says:
There's nothing like getting something in the mail. Email is good for quickly letting others know what's up but it doesn't substitute at all for good old pen and paper.
Posted February 24, 2009
Nonsense! It's the thought that counts, whether it's on paper or email.
Joan4 says:
I am totally spoiled by email now, tho I appreciate a handwritten note.
Posted May 10, 2009
Family Letters Throughout History
A look back...
- Letters written to grandparents
- A nostalgic blog
- Civil War Letters of the Christie Family
- A wonderful peek into the Civil War era with all its struggles
- Prairie Settlement
- Nebraska Photographs & Family Letters 1862-1912
- Laura Ingalls Wilder letters
- from the Wisconsin Historical Society
Speak Up!
And speaking of letters...
Paper Letters: The New Email?
Make it fun!

We encourage children to write thank-you notes. Why not letters, too?
When my kids were in early elementary grades, we lived overseas, far from grandparents. Once a month they'd write a newsy letter. We'd send the letters in a big brown envelope, so we could include special items they wanted to share: a school story, poem, or a picture they drew, for example.
It was one way to deepen the relationship between them and their grandparents, and they looked forward to the day the mail arrived with a reply. Letters are important, especially when family doesn't live closeby. Have you thought about sitting down and helping your child create a special correspondence to send? There's something magical about sealing an envelope and stamping it, then sending it off to be delivered. You might even say that letter-writing is the new email.
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Create Beautiful Stationery Yourself
A Note from Ada

When my father passed away in 2006, it ended a huge chapter of my life. Both my parents were gone now, and in a way, it felt as though the six of us were orphans. Of course that's not the case, but it's a common reaction to suddenly being without parents.
Ada was a special lady in the lives of us all. She took time to write a comforting note, and it meant all the more to us because she had played such a key role in our childhood years. Read more about it here...
"Sunburst" image ©Bonnie Bruno 2008
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...and share a memorable letter
Can you think of a letter you've written, or one you've received, which meant a lot to you? If you feel comfortable doing so, please share a few lines about it.
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devilsworkshopcrafts
Feb 17, 2011 @ 5:45 pm | delete
- I just dropped some letters off at the post this afternoon! I love sending thank-you cards in the mail, as well as valentines.
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MomwithAHook
Dec 26, 2009 @ 10:09 pm | delete
- I used to receive letters from my Grandma when she was alive. I was just looking at my memory box the other day and some of the letters brought back such clear memories - Laughs - and tears. Here is one piece of a letter which shows you what a fabulous person my Grandma was.
"Well, here goes. So watch out. I just finished a 22 page letter to L. so I'll give you fair warning. (ahead of time now) You'd better kick off your shoes, get comfortable in a chair and prop up your feet. Come to think of it you'd better fix you something to eat and drink because I have seven letters in front of me all from you guys. Come to think of it you'd better hide those shoes because these letters are going to be so long that you'll be so mad- I don't want to get hit in the head by a passing shoe. OK. How are you, sure you are all comfie -- You sure -- Got something to eat and drink. Maybe some chips, Okay. Here goes....."
I laughed so hard when reading that tears came to my eyes. :)
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seedplanter
Feb 17, 2011 @ 10:10 pm | delete
- Ohhhh...your comment and the excerpt from your grandma's letter almost made me cry, too! I have all my family letters from the past 30-something years and they are my most precious possession in the world. Your grandma would be so happy that you're still reading her words and feeling that sweet connection. Thanks for taking time to share that with me.
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seedplanter
Jun 11, 2009 @ 4:17 pm | in reply to susannaduffy | delete
- Susan, thanks for the sweet blessing. I appreciate that. I wrote a paper letter just yesterday, and my poor hand cramped up after a few lines. It reminded me that a letter every week would be a very good thing - both for someone on the receiving end and for my hands!
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susannaduffy
Jun 11, 2009 @ 6:30 am | delete
- Gorgeous. I am off now to stock up on nice notepaper and new shiny stamps. Blessed by an angel today (/my-angel-blessings).
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Joan4
May 10, 2009 @ 9:33 pm | delete
- Like your parents, we "courted" via the US mail and the telephone. And here we are 45 years later, so those letters worked! :) My sister Betty still writes 2 or 3 notes every single day before she goes to work - I so admire her for that. I just can't seem to discipline myself to do it. And it is so important! Letter writing is becoming a lost art.
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GrowWear
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- Longing for snail mail now. Lovely sentiment; lovely lens. :)
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- Beautiful Stationery
- Letters After the War, Pt. I
- The History of Stationery
- One-of-a-Kind Notecards
- Letters After the War, Pt. II
- Mailboxes! Mailboxes! Mailboxes!
- The World's Great Letters
- Create Custom Address Labels
- Children Writing Letters
- Paper Letters vs. Email
- Family Letters Throughout History
- Speak Up!
- And speaking of letters...
- Paper Letters: The New Email?
- Old-Fashioned Fine Art Prints
- Create Beautiful Stationery Yourself
- A Note from Ada
- Leave a Footprint
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