Non-custodial Parents
The Truth About Child Custody and Family Courts
Have you been a victim of false allegations of domestic violence or any other negative items in or out of court? Has it been weeks, months, years since you've seen your kids? Have your kids changed their attitude towards you in a way that is simply heartbreaking? Have you been victimized by the courts who continually tell you that they can't help you with visitations of your children?
Then you've come to the right place. More and more divorces brings more and more heartaches concerning these issues. It's not until it happens to people of notoriety that things get changed, someone said. So let's get the word out so that, hopefully, someone that can make the changes can do it before it happens in their family.
This lens is about divorce, child custody, non-custodial parents and Parental Alienation Syndrome.
What is Child Custody?
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Child custody and guardianship are legal terms which are sometimes used to describe the legal and practical relationship between a parent and his or her child, such as the right of the parent to make decisions for the child, and the parent's duty to care for the child.
Following ratification of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child in most countries, terms such as "residence" and "contact" (known as "visitation" in the United States) have superseded the concepts of "custody" and "access". Instead of a parent having "custody" of or "access" to a child, a child is now said to "reside" or have "contact" with a parent. For a discussion of the new international nomenclature, see parental responsibility.
Residence and contact issues typically arise in proceedings involving divorce (dissolution of marriage), annulment and other legal proceedings where children may be involved. In most jurisdictions the issue of which parent the child will reside with is determined in accordance with the best interests of the child standard.
Family law proceedings which involve issues of residence and contact often generate the most acrimonious disputes. While many parents cooperate when it comes to sharing their children, not all do. For those that engage in litigation, there seem to be few limits. Court filings quickly fill with mutual accusations by one parent against the other, including sexual, physical, and emotional abuse, brain-washing, parental alienation syndrome, sabotage, and manipulation. It is these infrequent difficult custody battles that make the news and sometimes distort the public's perceptions so that they appear more prevalent than they are and the court's response appear inadequate.
Forum shopping to gain advantage occurs both between nations and where laws and practices differ between areas within a nation, The Hague Convention seeks to avoid this, also in the United States of America, the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act was adopted by all 50 states, family law courts were forced to defer jurisdiction to the home state.
In some places, courts and legal professionals are beginning to use the term parenting schedule instead of custody and visitation. The new terminology eliminates the distinction between custodial and noncustodial parents, and also attempts to build upon the so-called best interests of the children by crafting schedules that meet the developmental needs of the children. For example, younger children need shorter, more frequent time with parents, whereas older children and teenagers can tolerate and may demand less frequent shifts, but longer blocks of time with each parent.
What is a No-Fault Divorce?
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Many people believe no-fault divorce has caused the increase of divorce and, in turn, an increase of PAS. Read this article from the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy.
No-fault divorce is a divorce in which the dissolution of a marriage requires neither a showing of wrong-doing of either party nor any evidentiary proceedings at all. It is granted upon a petition by either party to a family court, without requiring the petitioner show that the respondent is at fault, and despite respondent's potential objections to the dissolution.
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What is Parental Alienation Syndrome?
Wikipedia
Parental Alienation Syndrome is a putative disorder proposed by Richard A. Gardner as "a disturbance in which children are obsessively preoccupied with depreciation and/or criticism of a parent. In other words, denigration that is unjustified and or exaggerated." Although Parental Alienation Syndrome has not gained official recognition as a psychological disorder, case law has recognized it in child custody disputes.
Important Links
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- Our Unelected Shadow Government
- No Fault Divorce: where did it come from?
- Family Law Courts
- It's not working.
- Knights Radio
- Listen to an adult child of PAS.
- A Center for Human Potential
- Educational courses for effective co-parenting.
- Parental Alienation Awareness Organization
- What it is and how you can help.
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Reader Feedback
Thanks its nice to see someone hard at work to bring awareness and support. IM on the board os split n two. www.splitntwo.com Im an adult child of PA and I have a blog there. We also have a weekly talkshow program that can be listened to everywhere. ctyofangels@comcast.net
Posted June 10, 2008
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guynoir56
Good job! This is a topic many people know exists but few people know it has been studied and codified. Posted April 10, 2008 |






