Perfect Wedding Speeches

The best man speech is probably the most important part of any wedding ceremony, now don't let that get you stomach in a twist.... just because it will be remembered long after the special day is over. The speech traditionally honors the groom, but the bride should also be recognized.

The position of best man in a wedding ceremony is a distinction of honor and responsibility. Best Man Speeches, also known as toasts, should be prepared well in advance, not simply improvised on the spot. To be successful the speech must be respectful, but also funny. Your comments about the bride and groom should also be personal and sincere, though it is also important to ensure your words are appropriate for a general audience of all ages.

In other words, best man speeches require you to walk a fine line between irreverence and respect; making personal observations, while ensuring they are understood and appreciated by an audience including both children and the elderly.

A hundred hearts would be too few To carry all my love for you. ~Author Unknown

Maid of honor speeches follow the best man's speech. Men will normally talk about some funny or embarrassing stories and their speeches usually sound more like roasts than tributes. Regardless of what the best man says, maid of honor speeches have a special role. First of all, the idea of maid of honor speeches is to flatter the bride.

The best man may get to speak first but maid of honor speeches come last, which means that your words are the last thing the wedding party will hear (before the next round of speeches at least). This is why your speech should always end with a positive and uplifting perspective on marriage.