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From the lens Perfectionism? Procrastination? Indecision? Career Paralysis!.

  • bellagio Jun 2, 2012 @ 5:57 am | delete
    Hi You've given very valuable information,advice its very helpful for career development. Thanks for sharing such a great post.
    Career Development
  • scarlettohairy May 8, 2012 @ 1:13 pm | delete
    Oh yeah, as a perfectionist, I stop myself from doing many things if I know I won't do it well or better than someone else. It sucks to have this frame of mind but I've gotten better as I age.
  • JoyfulReviewer Apr 28, 2012 @ 7:29 pm | delete
    This thought-provoking lens is brimming with helpful information and resources. Also enjoyed the humor at the end ... especially your mathematical examples. ~~Blessed~~
  • gradientcat Apr 16, 2012 @ 1:14 pm | delete
    Really interesting topic.
  • webkangaroo Apr 1, 2012 @ 11:01 pm | delete
    thanks for this thoughtful and positive lens -- really made me think!
  • NavtejKohliCDC Mar 20, 2012 @ 7:26 am | delete
    Excellent lens ! Great information for everyone
  • tvyps Mar 15, 2012 @ 4:31 am | delete
    Greetings, Salutations and Hallucinations! Much info here, very interesting! Squid Angel blessed.
  • legoooo Feb 23, 2012 @ 3:35 pm | delete
    I dont agree with GetSillyProductions: Sorry ..This page is perfect
  • gesh1948 Feb 16, 2012 @ 1:08 am | delete
    Got to say STOP TALKING ABOUT ME
  • COUNTRYLUTHIER Feb 5, 2012 @ 2:51 pm | delete
    Great lense, I may not be as bad off as the writer of some of the cautions above!
  • GetSillyProductions Jan 31, 2012 @ 3:48 pm | delete
    The chart about half way up the page is perfect
  • skiesgreen Jan 30, 2012 @ 12:22 am | delete
    Great advice from one who knows. Blessed and featured on Blessed by Skiesgreen 2012 and also on Brain Matters. Hugs
  • Helene-Malmsio Jan 27, 2012 @ 3:09 pm | delete
    Great lens, am bookmarking for future visits to re-read!
  • JaguarJulie Jan 26, 2012 @ 9:25 am | delete
    Q. "Will you only ever run in races you are guaranteed to win?" A. "No."

    Funny: "Do not use orally after using rectally." -- In the instructions for an electric thermometer.

    Hilarious: "Warning! This is not underwear! Do not attempt to put in pants." -- On the packaging for a wristwatch.
  • JoshK47 Jan 13, 2012 @ 11:49 am | delete
    Absolutely phenomenal advice! Keep up the awesome work. Blessed by a SquidAngel. :)
  • sandyspider Jan 9, 2012 @ 12:47 pm | delete
    Great advice. I see myself in here. Blessed! Please add this to my New Year 2012 Blessings and Zazzle lens
  • aesta1 Jan 2, 2012 @ 7:34 pm | delete
    Really useful info. I need to reframe my mind...change the pattern.
  • bames24 Nov 16, 2011 @ 1:20 am | delete
    wow... thanks for sharing... :)
  • LeCordonDude Nov 2, 2011 @ 12:17 am | delete
    DOOOOD!! I think this lens may actually help! That is, if I can keep from procrastinating about putting it to work! but really, I <3 this lens!
  • TheHappinessManual Sep 14, 2011 @ 10:10 am | delete
    Wow! There's enough here to keep me entertained until the end of the week! You've really gone to town on the research and writing of this article. All due credit.
  • corteeze Jul 9, 2011 @ 8:56 am | delete
    Fantastic lens, nice job. The quality tips on overcoming perfectionism, as well as all the funny labels, make it a great read.
  • jayel868 Feb 13, 2011 @ 4:33 pm | delete
    Great article! You can also look at another resume sample and do it yourself!
  • jayel868 Feb 13, 2011 @ 4:33 pm | delete
    Great article! You can also look at another resume sample and do it yourself!
  • cherangelry Jan 28, 2011 @ 12:18 am | delete
    Great lens. Personally, adding WAY too much to my plate sent my stress level through the roof, but when the world didn't collapse (or even notice) when I wasn't at my best, I knew I could give up the whole perfectionism thing... not a fun learning process, but SO FREEING!
  • MervynGoh Dec 3, 2010 @ 9:50 am | delete
    nice len, just to add in, good time management is also part of the solution. Lookng towards your great lenses in the future
  • Goodpal Oct 6, 2010 @ 1:30 am | delete
    A truly clearly written lens. I have never seen the contents on this important topic written so convincingly. Reading through the list of beneficial ideas rang bells in my precious little gray matter as well -- Learning the art of mindfulness can be a great way to fight perfectionism. Because you learn to stay with the reality (not ideals or dreams) moment by moment. The ensuing attitudes of acceptance and tolerance will surely reduce the tendency to be "perfect" that is just an illusion and waste of time. What do you think?

    Thanks for a wonderful lens. I have lensrolled it on all my three lenses on mindfulness.
  • Oct 5, 2010 @ 4:01 pm | delete
    Nice
  • tomwhite55 May 11, 2010 @ 9:16 am | delete
    Whether you are an established business executive or a employer on the rise, you may want some help to jump start your career to the next level of success. Career Development can help you with clear decisions and make immediate, positive changes in your attitudes and behaviors that help you reach your full potential. It can make a big difference in your career, your behaviors in and out of the workplace and create a new and improved self-image of yourself. When I was looking for executive coaches on my last career transition I used the services at http://www.careersuccessions.com. The site provides great job hunting tips and clear cut resume writing tips and cues. This site helped me land my dream career, so head on over and give it a try. Good luck and best wishes of success!
  • OvercomeProcrastinationNow Nov 10, 2009 @ 2:10 pm | delete
    I find it interesting how perfectionism and procrastination seem to go hand in hand at times. I have been blogging about procrastination and I find it hard sometimes to complete posts as I always want them to be prefect. Thanks for the insights!
  • sherridan Feb 3, 2009 @ 4:11 am | delete
    Glad to have helped. I have of course taken an interest due to to my own limiting fear of failure and perfectionism - I want everyone to maximise their potential and not have to look back with regret.
    I wish you the best
    Sherridan
    www.sherridanhughes.com
  • Auntiekatkat Feb 3, 2009 @ 4:04 am | delete
    Hi
    I found this lens so helpful, I have failed in my life many times to try things because I fear failure and I am a great procarstinator. Perhaps understanding the root of my fear may help me to modify my bahaviour. Thanks for making the time to make such a great lens, I have given you five stars. and favourited it.

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