Finding Your Perfect Wedding Cake Topper

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Cake toppers are small figurines that rest on top of the wedding cake, they are usually a representation of a bride and groom in formal attire. This custom originated in America during the 1950's where the figurines were used to represent togetherness. Although wedding cake toppers are still in use, the figures are more varied and often show shared hobbies or other meanings that may not necessarily be linked directly to traditional themes.

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If you want your wedding to be a little different, you need to consider finding unique bride and groom figurines. They will help you make a statement and proclaim your freedom for the chains of boring cake decorations. Really good bride and groom figurines don't have to be funny, however they can be charming, decorative or just plain unique. There's many different kinds of figurines to choose from, so it helps to have a game plan. Whatever it is you have in mind, you can probably find a bride and groom figurine that will fulfill that dream. There's more than one way to top a cake after all. So, here is the best way that I have found to proceed.

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First take a minute to assess you and your soon to be spouse's relationship. See, if there is something unique about the two of you. Maybe there is a special event that really made you a couple. Or, there's something about you two that is memorable and unique. There is probably a bride and groom figurine to match it.

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If you want to go with a traditional wedding cake topper, you can choose a bride and groom in formal wear, dancing, kissing, standing next to one another or gazing lovingly at each other. Many couples choose figures that look like themselves.

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Use that classic symbol of love, the heart, as your wedding cake topper. You might be surprised at the variety of heart shaped wedding cake toppers available. There are classically shaped hearts and contemporary, stylized hearts. There are hearts made from glass, plastic and porcelain, even hearts trimmed in beads and lace.

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Rely on your surroundings. If your wedding is taking place at a beach, you might choose the beach bum bride and groom figurines. Or, if it is a ballroom wedding, dancing bride and groom figurines make a great choice. There are plenty of cake toppers that match themes of weddings, so dig around and do some searching of your own.

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Choose flowers for your wedding cake topper. Fresh or faux, or even sugar flowers can be used. You can try matching them to your bouquet, use your wedding colors or simply choose flowers that you find pretty.

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Find a wedding cake topper that expresses your own unique personalities. If you're a couple that loves to ride motorcycles, get a topper with a wedding couple sitting on a motorcycle. If most weekends you can be found at your favorite country/western bar, opt for a bride and groom in cowboy boots and hats. The internet is where you'll find the widest selection of wedding cake toppers.

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Perhaps serious romantic gestures just aren't in your personality. In that case, you may consider searching for a few funny bride and groom figurines that show your sense of humor. After all, it is your big day, and you can choose how you want to express your joy. Pick any wedding cake topper that makes you and your new spouse happy. If you are having trouble finding these funny bride and groom figurines, you've come to the right place for some help along the way.

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Make a list of about five bride and groom figurines once you have finished your search. You can simply think back on the cake figurines you looked at and see which ones stood out in your mind. This way you know they made an impact on you and they will likely make one on your guests. Then choose one based on how well it fits into your ceremony, and how much you like these particular bride and groom figurines!

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Creating a cake topper is an inexpensive do it yourself project. Pinching pennies is important when planning an event, and making a cake topper is an easy way to save a few bucks. Here are some ideas for creating your very own unique wedding cake topper.

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• Bride and Groom Birds:
  Let your wedding cake go to the birds. Buy a pair of artificial feather covered birds at a craft store and create tiny wedding outfits for them similar to those you and your partner plan to wear on your special day. Use netting, bits of heirloom lace and antique buttons to dress your birds to the nines. Secure them in the top layer of your wedding cake with small, stiff wires or pipe cleaners.


• Unique Figurines:
  Scour novelty stores and gift shops to find a pair of unique figurines to top your wedding cake. Ideas include Dia de Los Muertos dolls, porcelain miniatures and small sculptures. Customize your cake with a bride and groom that express you and your partner's special styles.


• Chocolate:
  Sculpt a topper from chocolate. These days, specialty shops and kitchen supply stores sell chocolate molds in every shape you can imagine from dogs to space ships. Your custom wedding cake topper will be charming as well as edible.


• Special Heirloom
  Top your wedding cake with a small, special heirloom, like a music box or bud vase. Fill your engagement or wedding ring boxes with tiny flowers for a one of a kind cake topper.


• Picture Frames:
  Use a lightweight picture frame as a custome cake topper. You can insert your engagement photo in the photo from and remember your best times together.

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• Determine what type of flower to use, fresh or artificial. Using artificial flowers means that you can make the cake topper in advance and simply place it on the cake the day of the wedding. Make sure to have all the items ready, you can purchase all of them at a craft store.


• Cut the Styrofoam ball in half, or the size appropriate for the cake topper. Use and 8 inch piece of round cardboard if your cake is 10 inches in diameter. Always make the cake topper slightly smaller. Take apart flower bunches and trim stems to 1 inch or less. Start with a few bunches, and take the rest apart as needed.


• Add leaves to the round cardboard. Use extra green leaves as the base for the round cardboard. Hot glue the leaves so about half of the leaf is hanging over the edge of the round cardboard. Overlap the leaves so no portion of the round cardboard shows.


• Place a sufficient amount of hot glue on the round cardboard to hold the Styrofoam. Carefully center the Styrofoam on the round cardboard and hold in place for a few seconds. Check to make sure the Styrofoam is securely attached to the round cardboard and re-glue if necessary.


• Insert flowers into the Styrofoam, starting at the bottom and working around the Styrofoam. Place the flowers close together to hide the Styrofoam ball. Make sure the flowers are securely in place. Work all the way around the bottom of the Styrofoam until complete. Start layering the flowers and continue building until the entire Styrofoam ball is covered with flowers.


• Ensure all flowers are secure and the Styrofoam is hidden. Re-position flowers if you do not like the appearance of the cake topper. These changes should be finished before placing the cake topper on the cake. Carefully place the topper on the cake.

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During this whole process there is really only one thing to remember and keep in mind. That is that this is your day, and you want to make it memorably for you and your partner. When deciding on what kind of cake topper best suits you and your soon to be spouse, just remember to go with what show cases your love and personalities the best.