How To Take Your Personal Success Into Your Own Hands - Self Help & Law Of Attraction

I have been a work at home mom for years, therefore, I chit chat with new small business owners and opportunity seekers on a daily basis. What really "gets my goat" is that after I providing them with resources and options as solutions to their problems during our 1st conversation, by the 4th or 5th conversation, they are still crying the blues about being broke and dwelling on the exact same problems. HELLO! you have been given a wealth of resources. You can also surf whatever you need on the Internet - apply them ASAP - start changing your life.

WHO AM I TO TELL YOU THIS IN SUCH A MANNER? WELL LET ME TELL YOU WHO I WAS AND WHO I AM NOW - MAYBE YOU WILL UNDERSTAND THAT YOU HAVE THE ENERGY WITHIN YOU TO WORK TOWARDS BEING A HAPPY, PRODUCTIVE, SHARING & FINANCIALLY SECURE BUSINESS PERSON, TOO.

I was out on my own at 14 years old, a 9th grade High School drop out and such a poverty minded individual. I had 4 selfish parents beating down on me for the first 14 years of my life. This included one parent telling me that I was stupid and would never be anything. I had another parent that carelessly bounced in and out of my life. I had a step parent that was unstable and miserable. Later, I had another drunken step parent with good advice though horrible example. I had no hope. I had no pride. I had no education. I had no motivation. I had nothing but family members and friends that watched from the distance, and wondered what would become of me.

I am now a college educated, small business owner, online marketer, single, work at home mom of two children. I have wonderful friends. I am educated. I am motivated. I am productive. I am hopeful. I am proud. I wake up everyday thankful for my two lovely children and our comfortable life. I work my businesses and affiliate programs knowing that these will all be working for me. I spend a tremendous amount of time learning and sharing in order to help myself and others each day. I am a Christian that makes every effort to "do what is right", take and give advice that will help others the same.

I ASPIRE TO BE THE BEST PERSON, PARENT, MENTOR & FRIEND THAT I CAN BE EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE - YOU CAN WORK TOWARDS THAT, TOO. IT TAKES MORE THAN JUST WANTING IT - YOU HAVE GOT TO DO IT! GET YOUR INTERNAL ENERGY FLOWING & DO! IF YOU DID NOT HAVE THE MONEY - OR - THE FAMILY - OR - THE SUCCESS ... YOU WOULD STILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH YOU. BE IN THE RIGHT SPIRITUAL DIRECTION ...

You have been given support, training, ideas, resources, programs and business options that could help you change your life for the better, too. Yet, you complain that you are still not on the path to where you want to be. Something is just not clicking, so I am writing this blog in hopes that you will find something here and within yourself to fix it. THIS COULD BE AS SIMPLE AS:

- Needing to improve organizational skills.

- Needing to improve communication skills.

- Needing to focus on your business / program.

- Needing to learn the skills and tools to success.

- Needing to read, listen and watch mentors.

- Claiming a work time away from family.

- Believe in yourself. Stop "woe is me" thoughts.

DON'T GET ME WRONG, I UNDERSTAND THAT WE ALL HAVE PROBLEMS. I AM NOT A COLD HEARTED PERSON AND DO GENUINELY CARE ABOUT YOUR HAPPINESS - THIS IS JUST MY "TOUGH LOVE" BECAUSE I WANT YOU TO SUCCEED - MANY TELL ME WHAT THEY WANT OUT OF LIFE & THEN CRY THE BLUES AFTER THE HAVE MADE NO ATTEMPT TO CHANGE THEIR MISERABLE STATE. I JUST WANT YOU TO GET WHERE YOU SAY YOU WANT YOU BE.

Therefore, I am not referring to those who have experienced trauma or a recent, devastating, set back. Yes, those take time to heal and correct. I have one friend that just had a heart attack and started back to work a few days later. I do not expect for anyone to put their health aside in the name of success or for money. You need to take care of your health and family first!

On the other hand, I believe in the power of God, the power of Mind and the potential of a proactive individual. With all in force, how can you fail to begin your process to success? Give yourself a chance to be happy!

YOU ARE MAKING YOURSELF AND OTHERS MISERABLE.
IT NEEDS TO STOP AND THAT ONLY HAPPENS WITHIN YOU!!!

- It is not "your baby's mama" making you fail.

- It's not your kids or husband holding you back.

- Not the business that others work successfully.

- It is not someone else's fault.

IT IS YOU THAT IS HOLDING YOU BACK AND NOW IT IS TIME TO LEARN HOW TO UNLEASH THE CREATIVE, POWERFUL, ENERGY FROM WITHIN YOU IN ORDER TO CHANNEL HAPPINESS, PRODUCTIVITY & SUCCESS.

1. BECOME INCREDIBLY SELFISH.
Without you, there is nothing, and attraction isn't possible.

2. UNHOOK YOURSELF FROM THE FUTURE.
Attraction works in the present, not in the future.

3. OVERRESPOND TO EVERY EVENT.
By over-responding instead of overreacting, your evolve, which is very attractive.

4. BUILD A SUPERRESERVE IN EVERY AREA.
Having enough is not nearly enough for you to be irresistibly attractive.

5. ADD VALUE JUST FOR THE JOY OF IT.
When you add value because your enjoy it, people are naturally attracted to you.

6. AFFECT OTHERS PROFOUNDLY.
The more you touch others, the more attractive you'll become.

7. MARKET YOUR TALENTS SHAMELESSLY.
If you're embarrassed about what you do well, you won't be very attractive.

8. BECOME IRRESISTIBLY ATTRACTIVE TO YOURSELF.
How can you attract others if you don't feel irresistibly attractive to yourself?

9. GET A FULFILLING LIFE, NOT JUST AN IMPRESSIVE LIFESTYLE.
A great life is attractive; a lifestyle is usually seductive.

10. DELIVER TWICE WHAT YOU PROMISE.
When you constantly deliver more than was expected, new customers are drawn to you.

11. CREATE A VACUUM WHICH PULLS YOU FORWARD.
Being pulled forward is attractive; pushing forward is not.

12. ELIMINATE DELAY.
Time is expensive and this is very unattractive.

13. GET YOUR PERSONAL NEEDS MET, ONCE AND FOR ALL.
If you have unmet needs, you'll attract others in the same position.

14. THRIVE ON THE DETAILS.
Subtleties, detals and nuances are more attractive than the obvious.

15. TOLERATE NOTHING.
When you put up with something, it costs you. Costs are expensive and thus unattractive.

16. SHOW OTHERS HOW TO PLEASE YOU.
Don't make them guess.

17. ENDORSE YOUR WORST WEAKNESSES.
When you can accept and honor the worst part of yourself, you are more accepting of others.

18. SENSITIZE YOURSELF.
The more you feel, the more you'll notice and respond to the many opportunities in the present.

19. PERFECT YOUR ENVIRONMENT.
The attraction os is a sophisticated system which requires a first-class environment.

20. DEVELOP MORE CHARACTER THAN YOU NEED.
Integrity is not enough to become irresistibly attractive.

21. SEE HOW PERFECT THE PRESENT REALLY IS.
Especially when it is clearly not.

22. BECOME UNCONDITIONALLY CONSTRUCTIVE.
High levels of respect are very attractive.

23. ORIENT EXCLUSIVELY AROUND YOUR VALUES.
When you spend your days doing what fulfills you, you are attractive.

24. SIMPLIFY EVERYTHING.
Abandoning the non-essentials leaves more room for you to attract.

25. MASTER YOUR CRAFT.
Being the best at what you do is the easiest way to become successful.

26. RECOGNIZE AND TELL THE TRUTH.
The truth is the most attractive thing of all, but it requires skills and awareness.

27. HAVE A VISION.
When you can see what's coming, you don't need to create a future.

28. BE MORE HUMAN.
When you are genuine, you are attractive.

Copyright 1997 by Thomas J. Leonard. All rights reserved.