Can Scripture Be Used To Abuse?

They are lots of different ways that abuse goes on within the home, but the one I'm highlighting today is domestic violence attached to Scriptural abuse.


Never heard of it? Read on. All Christians should be aware that this is a real and current issue in many homes; families around us in the body of Christ. Sometimes when there is domestic violence in the home, religious men will misuse Scripture as another way to maintain power and control over their wives. They claim that the Bible gives them that right. Abuse can include moral degradation, physical abuse, and even sexual abuse. If you're wondering if this could be happening in your home ask yourself these questions: how many times does your husband quote Scripture and use it to condemn you? Does he use Scripture as a way to manipulate you into doing something you don't want to, or stop you from doing something you do want to? Does he tell you that you're a sinner? A moral failure? Does he defend hurtful behavior with Bible verses leaving you feeling like maybe God doesn't love you? Or isn't pleased with you? Is the Bible used as a form of power and control?

If this behavior is part of your relationship and there is not any violence occurring, it is still not okay. God would never condone the use of His Word to humiliate and/or manipulate others. We encourage you to seek out support from your pastor, or other ministries with-in your church community. If you don't feel comfortable, we'd be happy to talk with you here and offer you support, encouragement and options.

If this type of abuse accompanies domestic violence in your home, we urge you to seek out help. Whether that's through your pastor or community is up to you. You do have options. You do have power.

These are a few resources that are available nation wide, but each community usually offers local support as well. We want you to know you're not alone and there are those who are available to help.

National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799- SAFE or 1-800-787-3224
www.ndvh.org

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence 303-839-1892
www.ncadv.org

The Family Violence Prevention Fund 415-252-8900
www.endabuse.org