How To Influence and Persuade People

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Everyone lives by selling something. How to influence, persuade and sell to people.

So how do you persuade people to buy from you?

This famous quote "everyone lives by selling something" by Robert Louis Stevenson makes it clear that however we get through life we all have to sell a product, a service, or an idea. The internet is full of tips and techniques for how to persuade and influence people, but what is the science behind the claims? What makes people tick. How can we tempt people to buy what we offer?

In their book Persuasion in Advertising, John and Nicholas Jackson O'Shaughnessy suggest that "In a competitive situation those who persuade best are most likely to win".

It is likely that most of you will find yourself in careers regardless of organisational context where you will have to compete for customers, budgets, funding, discretionary income, time or some other valuable resource.

Furthermore you will continuously find yourselves persuading people with organisational power and authority that you and your ideas are worth investing in and trusting you to do the tasks you have been allocated. You will have to persuade customers, clients and consumers of products and services of the value of your offer. In other words you will be in the business of providing compelling propositions to convince the people you need to influence about the significance and value of your ideas.

You will have to navigate a social world full of different opinions and attitudes. To do this successfully you will have to show a deep understanding of yourself and others.

The business of persuading others is not necessarily straightforward and Howard Gardner offers the following insight.

"if I could dispense just one morsel of advice to
Mind changers, it is to spend less time trying to convince
individuals of a new perspective and more time trying
to understand and thereby to neutralise the resistances"


Howard Gardner 2006:xii - Changing Minds

In making a speech one must study three points:

first, the means of producing persuasion;
second, the language;
third the proper arrangement of
the various parts of the speech.

Aristotle

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Selling Value

Whenever you sell something you are proposing that it has a value for the other person



One of the most common mistakes that people make when they sell anything is that they don't have a grasp of its value. Pick up any of the better marketing texts (not those airport lounge skim readers) and you will learn that deeply understanding the notion of value is crucial to the reasons why people buy and use anything

Coming up with a persuasive and compelling Value Proposition isn't as simple as you might first think. Frequently people simply list the features of a product or service as if the reason for their 'value' is self evident. Often it isn't and often the features tend to be a list of what the seller likes about their product or assumes is important to the buyer. Value is a perception of the buyer. It is relates to the perceived benefits minus the total costs of acqusition which is not just the financial cost but the hassle factors too.

Understanding benefits is the path to articulating value. Benefits are what something does for someone, the solution to a need they have. It is not what the product or service is. An example of this line of thinking is the cosmetic company CEO who once said "In the Factory we make cosmetics in the store we sell hope. One of the first people to come up with a model of explaining value was Ted Levitt He explained that we can think of a value proposition in terms of 'levels'. i) the core product - its basic features, ii) the expected product - what you would expect as a bare minimum to put on the shopping list and the iii) augmented product. This last 'zone' is where differences that make a difference are found. This is where added value can be found. This is where sales are won and lost.

There is also a distinction to be made between 'advantages' and 'benefits', the former is aspects of the product and service that the seller 'assumes' is going to be good for the customer, the latter are true values that the buyer is really seeking. Benefits can only be found out by probing the customer about the challenges they have and what the implications are for not solving them.

On a personal level, imagine you are in a job interview. You have to do a presentation. The un-thinking approach would be to perhaps list qualifications and exprience (core / features), slightly better you might explain your transferable skills, such as team work, IT skills etc (expected / advantages), ideally you will have been able to talk with the prospective employer and uncover the reasons for creating the post, it is against these that you could present some benefits (additional safe pair of hands, track record for winning business, specialised knowledge that speeds up the company getting into a technology or market)

There is a great story about a man whose central heating was on the blink so he called plumber. The plumber arrived and after the customer explained where the boiler was he went to it and hit it with a hammer. In an instant the heating problem was sorted. The customer was delighted an the plumber left after spending 10 minutes on the premises. Send me your invoice called the exstatic customer.

The invoice arrived for $1000. The customer was astonished and called the plumber in a rage. "You were only here 10 mins and you simply hit the boiler with a hammer! send me a new invoice that reflects this!"

The new invoice duly arrived. It said - 'For attending premises and hitting boiler with a hammer $1...for knowing where to hit and how hard $999'

I rest my case.

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    cool tips.
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    Great tips.
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    Awesome, sales lens
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