Playing Tug With Dogs
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How to Play Tug With Your Dog Safely
Tug is a natural, dog game and a great game for your dog. It's a natural dog game that tiny puppies play with their littermates constantly. It's perfectly appropriate and safe to play tug with your dog, despite reports that it makes dogs mean. There are some rules, but rules are necessary in all dealings with all dogs. Dogs thrive on rules.
There is a persistent myth that playing tug with a dog trains it to be aggressive. That is not true. It can teach a dog aggressive play, if you play too rough, but there is no danger in playing tug with your dog. Any game played too roughly with a dog can teach it to play aggressively.
Three Boxer dogs play tug in the picture below. My dog, Oscar, asking to play in the picture above.

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There is a persistent myth that playing tug with a dog trains it to be aggressive. That is not true. It can teach a dog aggressive play, if you play too rough, but there is no danger in playing tug with your dog. Any game played too roughly with a dog can teach it to play aggressively.
Three Boxer dogs play tug in the picture below. My dog, Oscar, asking to play in the picture above.

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Table of Contents
- The Rules of Playing Tug with Dogs Safely
- The tug is a special toy that your dog doesn't always have access to...
- More rules for playing tug with your dog
- Stay in control when playing tug with your dog
- Signs that playing tug with your dog is getting out of hand.
- Tips & Warnings for Playing Tug
- Some Good Types of Dog Tug Toys
- Check out some lenses about dogs
- And Some Not so Good Types of Tug Toys
- Please let me know you were here.
The Rules of Playing Tug with Dogs Safely
1. Choose a tug toy that is comfortable for both you and your dog. Make sure it is flexible and soft enough for your hands, as well as flexible, enjoyable, and comfortable for the dog. Of course, you want to also keep the size appropriate to the dog's size. See the resource links for recommended tugs.
The tug is a special toy that your dog doesn't always have access to...
2. Put away the tug toys when not in use. Keep it as a special toy for the two of you, not just one of many that the dog always has access to. This keeps it special and interesting for the dog, something he can look forward to as a treat or reward. This doesn't mean the dog can't have other tug toys to play with on her own or with other dogs.
Tug o' War between puppies and kittens -- too cute!

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Tug o' War between puppies and kittens -- too cute!

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More rules for playing tug with your dog
3. You always start the game. The toy is put away out of the dog's reach, so you get the toy and invite the dog to play tug.
Teach the dog the name of the game. The more words the dog learns, the better the dog will be able to learn and understand. Always say "tug", "play tug", or whatever you want to call the game, as you get the toy, and as the game starts. It's fine to repeat the name during the game, too.
4. Use just enough pressure on the tug to keep the game going. The game of tug is played naturally among dogs in two ways: some dogs use just enough pressure on the tug to keep the game going, and other dogs go all out and pull with their entire strength but they generally still want to keep the game going, not necessarily take the tug away.
You should always use just enough strength to keep the game going. Never pull the dog off the ground, or yank the tug forcefully from its mouth.
If your dog pulls really hard it's almost always OK. You'll see that the dog is not really trying to "win" as many people assume -- the dog just enjoys the workout -- because if you accidentally drop the tug your dog will wait for you to pick it up again, or possibly even give it to you to continue the game. The only problem with this type of dog is that she could accidentally pull over an elderly person or a child. So the dog should be playing tug only with the appropriate people who know the rules (remember you own and control the tug toy), and other games, such as fetch, can be played with people who have less strength.
Three rottweiler puppies playing tug!

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Teach the dog the name of the game. The more words the dog learns, the better the dog will be able to learn and understand. Always say "tug", "play tug", or whatever you want to call the game, as you get the toy, and as the game starts. It's fine to repeat the name during the game, too.
4. Use just enough pressure on the tug to keep the game going. The game of tug is played naturally among dogs in two ways: some dogs use just enough pressure on the tug to keep the game going, and other dogs go all out and pull with their entire strength but they generally still want to keep the game going, not necessarily take the tug away.
You should always use just enough strength to keep the game going. Never pull the dog off the ground, or yank the tug forcefully from its mouth.
If your dog pulls really hard it's almost always OK. You'll see that the dog is not really trying to "win" as many people assume -- the dog just enjoys the workout -- because if you accidentally drop the tug your dog will wait for you to pick it up again, or possibly even give it to you to continue the game. The only problem with this type of dog is that she could accidentally pull over an elderly person or a child. So the dog should be playing tug only with the appropriate people who know the rules (remember you own and control the tug toy), and other games, such as fetch, can be played with people who have less strength.
Three rottweiler puppies playing tug!

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Stay in control when playing tug with your dog
5. You are the one who ends the game. Use a word or phrase that means the game is over: "that's all", "all done", "finished", etc. The toy must be put away until time for the next game. Play tug o' war with your dog daily if you possibly can. It is very good exercise for the dog, and a good bonding exercise, too.
6. Although you are the one in charge and you are the one to start and end the game, it is fine if your dog attempts to ask you to play tug, perhaps by looking at or sitting by the place you store the tug toy. This is polite dog talk and there is no reason to prevent the dog from asking. The key is that the dog should not force or push you. If the dog sits and looks at the shelf where the tug toy is, then you can either say, "do you want to play tug?" and grab the toy and go, or you can say, "sorry, Rover, no tug right now". He should not be jumping all over you and the shelves in order to force the game to start.
6. Although you are the one in charge and you are the one to start and end the game, it is fine if your dog attempts to ask you to play tug, perhaps by looking at or sitting by the place you store the tug toy. This is polite dog talk and there is no reason to prevent the dog from asking. The key is that the dog should not force or push you. If the dog sits and looks at the shelf where the tug toy is, then you can either say, "do you want to play tug?" and grab the toy and go, or you can say, "sorry, Rover, no tug right now". He should not be jumping all over you and the shelves in order to force the game to start.
Signs that playing tug with your dog is getting out of hand.
Naughty spaniel puppy tugging on clothing

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Now if your dog constantly pulls with all his might and snatches the tug and runs, or jumps up at you, snapping at your face or hands, you are in a different game, not tug, and you are no longer in control. STOP this game immediately and put the toy away. Try playing again later, reinforcing the rules of the tug game, and preferably after a good fetch work out or a long walk -- often the dog just wants to play chase and tug, which is another dog version of tug, but not a great game for most people, so more exercise for the dog will help if that is the case.
If you are unable to make the dog understand the rules after several attempts during different games, you should suspend tug games and get some help from a professional trainer: It is often hard for the average dog owner to know at this point the difference between a wild puppy-ish dog that isn't following the rules and a dog that is deliberately trying to enforce its dominance.

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Now if your dog constantly pulls with all his might and snatches the tug and runs, or jumps up at you, snapping at your face or hands, you are in a different game, not tug, and you are no longer in control. STOP this game immediately and put the toy away. Try playing again later, reinforcing the rules of the tug game, and preferably after a good fetch work out or a long walk -- often the dog just wants to play chase and tug, which is another dog version of tug, but not a great game for most people, so more exercise for the dog will help if that is the case.
If you are unable to make the dog understand the rules after several attempts during different games, you should suspend tug games and get some help from a professional trainer: It is often hard for the average dog owner to know at this point the difference between a wild puppy-ish dog that isn't following the rules and a dog that is deliberately trying to enforce its dominance.
Tips & Warnings for Playing Tug
** Don't be afraid to play tug with your dog. It's a healthy, safe, and natural dog game.
** In all games and activities the dog should follow the rules, but still be allowed to expend its energy and have fun.
** If you feel afraid of your dog, or afraid to play tug, you should get help from a professional behaviorist or behavioral trainer as soon as possible.
It may simply be that you need to learn about normal dog behavior and play styles, and even play growls. Or it could be there is a reason you
feel afraid, and you need help to get your dog's behavior in line before a real problem develops.
** In all games and activities the dog should follow the rules, but still be allowed to expend its energy and have fun.
** If you feel afraid of your dog, or afraid to play tug, you should get help from a professional behaviorist or behavioral trainer as soon as possible.
It may simply be that you need to learn about normal dog behavior and play styles, and even play growls. Or it could be there is a reason you
feel afraid, and you need help to get your dog's behavior in line before a real problem develops.
Some Good Types of Dog Tug Toys
The type of tug toy you choose depends on what your dog prefers, as well as what is more comfortable for you. If either of you is uncomfortable -- can't get a good grip -- then the game won't be much fun.
Experiment with a couple of types. Rope toys are usually a natural choice. Some of the rubber tug toys don't seem to be much fun to the majority of dogs. There are some great soft or stuffed tug toys, if your dog is not a strong chewer.
Experiment with a couple of types. Rope toys are usually a natural choice. Some of the rubber tug toys don't seem to be much fun to the majority of dogs. There are some great soft or stuffed tug toys, if your dog is not a strong chewer.
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And Some Not so Good Types of Tug Toys
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Lynn
Nov 7, 2011 @ 8:58 pm | delete
- how can you play with multiple dogs? My Australian terrier and I have played. She and I love it. I now have a Norfolk terrier who wants to join in with us. My Aussie seems sad about it. They play tug great together. I want to be able to play with both at the same time. Any tips?
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AJTyne Nov 15, 2011 @ 1:44 pm | delete
- Lynn, it may take a little coaching to get them to both understand, but you should be able to show them they can each play -- one tug in each hand. You can use a long tug, with each dog on the end and you pull the middle out, but I don't think that would work very well with the small breeds you have, so I'd use one tug in each hand. Teach them each their own word for playing tug (during each one's alone time with you), and that will make it easier for them to each understand the new three-way game. If that's not clear or you have trouble let me know! They do make double ended tugs, but you may find it easier to teach the dogs using separate tugs in each hand.
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gottaloveit
Sep 18, 2011 @ 10:52 am | delete
- I really like that you detail the tug toys most dogs don't like. I own 3 out of the 5 and can attest that none of my 6 dogs will touch them.
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AJTyne Sep 18, 2011 @ 1:44 pm | delete
- Glad you agree. Dog toys are expensive, and I hate seeing people waste money (and disappoint doggies!) on toys that I've seen so many dogs refuse.
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renstar
Aug 16, 2011 @ 9:02 am | delete
- another Great Lens well done,
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sukkran Jul 29, 2011 @ 9:05 pm | delete
- your tips and warning for playing with dogs are really useful. nicely presented dog training page.
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JoshK47
Jul 18, 2011 @ 9:16 am | delete
- Definitely a great way to play with your pup - great lens here. :)
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iluvK9
Jul 14, 2011 @ 1:30 pm | delete
- the best game ever with ur best mate!!
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nancycarol
Jul 13, 2011 @ 3:19 pm | delete
- My pug loves to play tug...not as much now in her later years, but she still loves it occasionally. Excellent lens on playing tug with your dog. Thanks for sharing your knowledge.
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scarlettohairy Jul 13, 2011 @ 12:09 am | delete
- My cat likes a string. I'm not up on dog tug toys!
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vallain Jul 12, 2011 @ 10:49 pm | delete
- I just assumed that if they sold it the tug was OK. Thanks for alerting me that there is more to be considered.
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