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A Missing Child, Steven Stayner

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Steven Stayner an abducted child 

I know my name is Steven

On December 4, 1972, 7-year-old Steven Stayner was walking home from school. Two men in a car called him to their car and told him they were collecting money for the church and asked if he could take the men to his parents. He agreed to show them the way to his house. When Steven got into the car, them men took him away. For the next seven years, Steve grew up as an abducted, sexually abused child. Some people knew, but didn't do anything. Some suspected, but would not get involved. Most people didn't see the signs that could have saved him. And so it went on.

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Steven Stayner 

at age 14

At the age of 14, when his abductor had grabbed another 5-year-old boy, Steve took the child and brought him to the local police. After seven strained years, a shattered family was finally reunited. Steven Stayner then shared his insights into finding abducted children. "When it comes to finding abducted children, most people think of posters and milk cartons. Photographs are very important in finding abducted children. But to depend on pictures alone is a big mistake...because the pictures may not reach the isolated areas where abductors take children. But also because children change and abductors can easily change a child's appearance.

Steven Stayner 

Steven Stayner testifying in court

Steven was a good kid. He was just unfortunate to come across a child pedophile. Let's make sure this does not happen again.

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If things do not look right they probably are not right 

Be aware of the problem and keep an eye out for suspicious 'family' situations around you.

"I believe the single most important thing you can do to help find abducted children is to be aware of the problem and keep an eye out for suspicious 'family' situations around you. "For starters, many abductors are men appearing as single parents, with one child. They intentionally choose to live in isolated areas and are generally not socially active.

Steven Stayner 

Children will be lied to and children must learn to lie to survive.

"You should know that the first thing abductors often do is convince the child that their parents don't want them. My abductor faked phone calls to my parents. He actually told me he went to court to get legal custody. I was seven. I had nowhere else to turn. I eventually accepted the lie as reality.

Steven Stayner 

"To survive, abducted children must learn to lie".

"The next stage was adapting for survival. This meant doing anything to avoid punishment. I actually helped my abductor keep the secret. "So don't expect abducted children to come up and ask for help. They're totally dependent on their abductors. And if they're being sexually abused, which is usually the case, the last thing they want is to draw attention to it. "I trusted no one. My greatest fear was that someone would find out the truth and confront my 'father.' I didn't know what he'd do. As bad as things were, I knew it could get worse.
"To survive, abducted children must learn to lie".

Elizabeth Smart 

"To survive, abducted children must learn to lie".

To survive, abducted children must learn to lie. Elizabeth Smart lied to the Police Officers who were trying to rescue her.

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About Retired-Cop

I am Retired from Law Enforcement after spending 24.5 years. I was with the Broward Sheriff's Office for 16 years and prior to that I was with the City of Deerfield Beach Police Department for 8.5 years. I was the Sexual Predator Coordinator for Broward County for over 5 years. The Last 8 years I worked in the Broward County Sheriff's Office Career Criminal Unit. I was the Supervisor of this Unit for 2 years. I was the Broward County Sheriff's Office, Detective of the year in 2002.  I was on Americas Most Wanted on two different occasions. I enjoyed working in Law Enforcement all those years and have been retired for over 3 years. I spoke at many schools and facilities about the dangers of Sexual Predators and trained many children on how to protect themselves.

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