Social Business Networking Can Expand Your Business Exponentially
Social business networking has become a buzzword over the last several years. There are social business networking events all over for business people. And we have all been introduced to social networking online.
Social business networking is an essential skill for most business people, but especially for entrepreneurs. The strong association between the entrepreneur as a person and his or her business demands that entrepreneurs get out into the world and create and maintain business relationships.
Social business networking is not selling, so how can you tell the difference? What is it all about really?
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Social Business Networking is Not Selling
Networking in your neighborhood

You may have heard that social business networking is not the same as selling, but what is the difference? Aren't you always in the market for prospects for your product?
However, if you try to sell people at social business networking events, you will never learn how to network or the true power of social business networking. This power is the value of the multilayers of relationships you gain through the people you meet.
Here is what I mean--I have a hairdresser. She is a hairdresser, that is what she does and she will never sell jewelry in her salon. I am looking for locations to wholesale my jewelry. My hairdresser is not someone for me to sell to, but she is a great person to network with. In her profession, and personal life, she meets people by the droves in many professions. She may be able to recommend a contact to me who owns a store that sells jewelry.
That is social business networking. I create a network of valuable contacts that lead me to people who I can sell to. The idea is to meet people and get to know them and what they do in the hopes that you can help them and they can help you further business interests.
Networking Face to Face
Getting to know people
Meeting new people in person is still one of the best ways to market your services. If you do a good job at this, you will quickly end up with a desk drawer filled with business cards. But then what do you do with them?
Timely and consistent follow-up is the key to successful marketing. Meeting someone once is rarely enough to bring you business -- repeated contacts are what do the trick. You always want to follow up with prospective customers, of course, but you should also follow up with potential referral sources.
A good referral source is someone who interacts with your desired customers on a regular basis.

If someone is a potential referral source rather than a prospect, your best approach is to establish a reciprocal relationship. You might call to begin getting acquainted, or arrange to meet in person to find out more about each other's work.
A Good Start
Little Black Book of Connections: 6.5 Assets for Networking Your Way to Rich Relationships
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People in all kinds of jobs, in big and small companies career builders, sales people, and aspiring executives will love this edgy, practical, and fun book In the spirit, style, and format of the bestselling Little Red Book of Selling, the country's #1 sales trainer, Jeffrey Gitomer, offers a fresh take on networking and connecting your way to success. The Little Black Book of Connections is based on the power of give value first. It's about how you can climb the ladder without stepping on people's backs. It's about how to earn the respect of a powerful mentor without begging. It's about how to build stronger relationships with customers, bosses, co-workers, vendors, friends, and family. It's about being in the same room with powerful people. It's about how to connect and how to not connect. It's about how to say the right things to the right people in the right circumstances to make the right impression. The book is small. The cover is classic black cloth. The four-color text graphics makes it attractive and easy to read the compelling content is easy to understand and implement.
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Building Networking Relationships
Long term relationships give you the best return
Sales are frequently developed through the relationships we have created with other people. Social business networking functions provide the opportunity to expand our contact list, particularly when we create and nurture quality relationships.
Here are some strategies to make social business networking profitable:
Choose the right networking group or event. The best results come from attending the appropriate social business networking events for your particular industry.
Focus on quality contacts versus quantity.
Be able to clearly state what you do.
Follow up after the event.
Allow Time for Results
Social business networking takes up to 12 months to deliver results

Do not expect your social business networking to give you new contacts overnight. Typically, it takes 6 to 12 months or more for contacts to pay off. However, if you continually network you will see results.
It is also important to be genuine when you network. Think about what you can do for them as well as what they can do for you.
Don't pick and choose who to network with. You never know which contact will end up being the most valuable. Sometimes it is surprising who knows whom.
Make Social Business Networking a Priority
Tell everyone you meet about your business
With all the demands on our time made by our business, professional and personal lives, it is tempting to assign a lower priority to social business networking to meet new people.
This thinking would be wrong, because by not consistently widening our circles of acquaintances and contacts, we may be severely curtailing our chances for success.
It is estimated that the average person knows about 250 people. And each of those people knows, in turn, another 250 or so people. This means that for each new person you meet, you gain access to a potential pool of 62,500 people separated from you by just two degrees.
What is the Purpose?
Social business networking has many purposes

Social business networking serves many purposes: sales, general marketing, recruiting, job-hunting, knowledge exchange, and business development (in the sense of strategic alliances, joint ventures and channel sales). Of all these, business development is the one that it supports best. In fact, business development and Social business networking are closely related. Online networking sites offer unprecedented ways for entrepreneurs to identify and connect with potential partners, especially entrepreneurs who work at legitimate online jobs.
Hand Out Your Business Card
Here's My Card: How to Network Using Your Business Card to Actually Create More Business
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"Read this book before you even think about handing out another business card."--Harvey Mackay, author of #1 New York Times bestseller Swim with the Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive"If you want something to take your business up a notch, this book hit the target dead-center. It might be business card basics, but it's clever networking at its best. Read it before your competition does!"--Lou Holtz, legendary former Notre Dame football coach and author of Winning Every Day"Wow! This book is the most complete, easy to implement and practical guide for every person who has business cards. It is a banquet of ideas. In fact, it should be required reading for anyone in the business."--Susan RoAne, bestselling author of How to Work a Room, The Secrets of Savvy Networking and What Do I Say Next?"Whether you're a seasoned professional or just starting out, Popyk's straightforward, practical approach gives anyone a chance to succeed. And it's conveniently written so that it can be digested in one sitting or in many small bites."--Terry Lewis, senior vice president, Yamaha Corporation of America"What a great book! Creative, clever, easy ideas to actually create more business just through simple business card networking. It doesn't matter what business you're in, this book will definitely help you find more customers or clients!"--Vicki Freed, senior vice president, Carnival Cruise Lines.
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Online Social Business Networking
How can online networking help you?
The success of customer communities has shown that business relationships can be created and developed on the Web, and online dating has shown that deep personal relationships can be, as well. Online social business networking, connecting and creating opportunities on the Web, is the next logical step. Here you'll find various online networking sites, as well as tips on how to make the most of them.
While virtual networks may not reach the massive numbers that advertising or national publicity does, it's very effective in reaching highly qualified prospective customers.
Social Networking

Most people who are on the computer regularly are part of one or more social networking communities. Social networking is fast becoming one of the ways that people keep in touch with each other all over the world.
There are benefits to social networking because you can meet people without actually meeting them in person, but if you are looking for business contacts, in most cases, it is really better to meet them in person at least one time. There is really nothing better than old fashioned face to face talking.
Still there is a place in business for social networking. It is a great way to get the word out, to generate business to your website, and to get out of your local area without traveling anywhere.
Connecting with People
The purpose of networking is to connect with people. One of the key differences between traditional networking and online networking is the ability to have a robust personal profile that is publicly accessible. That profile is a 24/7/365 invitation for other people to connect to you, and you want to do everything you can to make yourself "attractive" online. So before you sign up for any online networking site that has user profiles, be prepared with your profile and photo.
Many sites heavily favor those with photos, and all heavily favor those with well-built profiles. Your profile doesn't have to be long or complex, but it should include your basic information - current and recent employers, industry, interests/hobbies, a brief bio, and links to your websites or anything else you've published online - blogs, articles, etc. Also, be sure to have your photo handy, both online somewhere and on your hard drive, and in a variety of sizes, so you can make it appropriate to the site's profile layout.
Exponential Growth

LinkedIn has topped 1 million users. Many more socially oriented sites crossed the million-member point a while ago, including Meetup, Friendster, and Tickle. Tens of thousands of people are developing business relationships in ways they never did before.
And yet most Internet users still haven't even heard of them.
To put this in perspective, Classmates boasts over 38 million members; Reunion.com, 22 million; and Craig's List gets 6 million unique visitors a month. Clearly, there's a lot of room for the new crop of social networking sites to grow, as well as a demonstrated precedent that people are willing to pay to connect with each other for a variety of purposes.
Do Networking Sites Work?
The ultimate question that's going to determine mainstream adoption is simply, "Do they work?" At the moment, the answer is twofold. Yes and no.
Business networking sites are not living up to the expectations of many people. They don't effectively represent electronically the complexities of interpersonal relationships. They create awkward social situations that don't exist face to face -- such as how to deal with an explicit request to be someone's friend, something most of us haven't had to deal with since third grade. And they don't prevent spam.
But the fact that they're not yet living up to their potential shouldn't blind us from the real immediate benefits to be gained.
Online Jobs and Networking in the Transition from Web 2.0 to Web 3.0
With the growth of legitimate online jobs, and online presence of people in general, the online social and business networking spectrum has begun to change. People are leaving behind what was known as Web 2.0, the joining of a huge number of large social networks, and are narrowing down their choices to just a few. In addition, internet savvy people are learning the benefits of joining smaller group networks like blogging collectives, and Ning networks, where the power of the group can boost the performance of the business of the individual. This is still the essence of networking, but I think that we will see a streamlining of networks, and more and more of these group blogging platforms, and Ning type platforms growing as the success of these platforms grows.
In my opinion, the group blogging platforms are a great place to learn how to blog successfully, and you have a built in audience to support you. With the economy still sluggish, more and more people are turning to legitimate online jobs to earn money and networking online will continue to grow and flourish.
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JeremiahStanghini Feb 4, 2011 @ 4:39 am | delete
- Some people say that networking is the only true way to gain employment. :-)
With Love and Gratitude,
Jeremiah
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BevsPaper
Apr 13, 2010 @ 11:01 pm | delete
- Networking is a must for both off-line and on-line business. You have explained it all so very well. As we progress into Web 3.0, I must admit I like the idea of smaller groups much better for online networking. Since we usually can't meet face to face, getting to know a small group well seems to fit better in really being able to know how each member can help the other.
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lakeerieartists
Apr 14, 2010 @ 1:45 am | delete
- Well said, Bev. I think that the focus on smaller networking groups in Web 3.0, will lessen the frenzied approach to trying to be on every social network, and push us in the direction of networking in a more real way, with deeper relationships, more focused efforts and better results.
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oztoo
Apr 13, 2010 @ 5:09 pm | delete
- Very interesting and informative lens. this is something that I think we all need to be aware of and put into practice.
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saritajain86
Aug 31, 2009 @ 11:40 am | delete
- You have really worked on this blog.... It is filled with great information. Thank you so much for sharing.
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aj2008
Aug 20, 2009 @ 5:05 am | delete
- Great explanations Paula. Networking is a great way of not feeling isolated when you work from home. I certainly agree with your assertion about how social networking does and does not work.
SquidAngel Blessings for you.
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ElizabethJeanAllen
Jan 4, 2009 @ 3:00 pm | delete
- I don't network enough, but I'm getting better at it.
Great lens
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Dec 18, 2008 @ 1:25 pm | delete
- Very good lens! Networking is very essential for a successful business.
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OhMe
Dec 7, 2008 @ 6:19 pm | delete
- I need to spend more time with this lens and learn more. This is great. Thanks
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cappuccino136 Nov 1, 2008 @ 3:55 pm | delete
- I'm just learning about networking and how to do it. I am not a natural business person and now I'm trying to build a freelance career. This is very helpful to me. Thank you!
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Treasures-By-Brenda
Oct 29, 2008 @ 6:00 pm | delete
- Networking (in person) isn't something I have done a lot of since I started selling on eBay although I suppose you could count networking amongst those excited conversations I've had with people everywhere I go about eBay. I wish I was better at handing out my business card!
Brenda
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icjackson
Oct 28, 2008 @ 11:17 pm | delete
- Very informative and insightful lens!
5 stars :-)
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lakeerieartists
Oct 28, 2008 @ 12:57 pm | in reply to BFuniv.com | delete
- Good point. The thing about networking is that it is essentially one on one because you build a relationship with each individual person in small segments--at an event, in a chat, running into them at the grocery store, at another event, etc. Some of those turn into business relationships, others into referrals, and so on. To network effectively, you really just need to take some time to continually meet people.
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BFuniv.com
Oct 28, 2008 @ 12:42 pm | delete
- A wise lens, lots of balance here and it shows your knowledge and experience with networking. Some folks are natural networkers and deal well with groups. Others, like myself, are best one on one. But we can all learn other methods and improve.
There is a good return on that learning to network investment
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ArtByLinda Oct 27, 2008 @ 8:35 pm | delete
- Networking is powerful stuff. I know in my job it is so nice to have that give and take, you learn those to go to when you have a problem, because they have walked the same path before. As I get more and more years I find a lot of people coming to me for advice, and it feels good to help!
Great lens! Linda
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mulberry
Oct 27, 2008 @ 10:20 am | delete
- You've done an excellent job outlining this. Great advice that we all need.
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poddys
Oct 27, 2008 @ 6:09 am | delete
- Very informative lens, great job. You are awarded 5***** This lens is full of useful information.
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JustBon-Crochet-Designs
Oct 27, 2008 @ 12:49 am | delete
- Very useful and informative :) 5*s
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WendyKrick
Oct 26, 2008 @ 8:48 pm | delete
- Networking is about building relationships. Another great lens.
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heehaw
Oct 26, 2008 @ 12:39 pm | delete
- wow !! this is a good explanation on what and how to do it correctly.
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WhiteOak50
Oct 26, 2008 @ 6:05 am | delete
- Great Info. Thanks for sharing.
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chefkeem
Oct 26, 2008 @ 1:16 am | delete
- 5*s and blessed by a Booster Angel!
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babyknittingpatterns
Oct 26, 2008 @ 12:12 am | delete
- It is actually a fne line of balance this social networking, getting the word out but not being a nusiance. Very imformative lens.
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stargazer00
Oct 25, 2008 @ 8:02 pm | delete
- A good explanation of networking and making contacts.
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NancyOram
Oct 25, 2008 @ 4:47 pm | delete
- Great example for Chef's little experiment. Here we are networking on a lens about networking. I have made a little list of things (maybe about 5 networking things) to do to promote a lens, then I have to walk away or I won't create any new stuff. Networking online or off takes a lot of time, but it's necessary. The trick is to not get so caught up in it that you don't have time left for anything else.
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JudyDunn
Oct 25, 2008 @ 4:26 pm | delete
- I have had some wonderful opportunities come my way in part through volunteering, or taking on responsibilities within organizations. It allows more people to see you in action, and know a bit more about you.
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JudyDunn
Oct 25, 2008 @ 4:26 pm | delete
- I have had some wonderful opportunities come my way in part through volunteering, or taking on responsibilities within organizations. It allows more people to see you in action, and know a bit more about you.
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susannaduffy
Sep 16, 2008 @ 5:36 am | delete
- I have gained a great deal from social networking. Someone I met (and helped in a very small way) in an online forum, knew someone else, who knew someone else who got back to me - bingo! a new client. Since then I've had some great success with facebook. 5* for this informative lens
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fotolady49
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- GOOD LENS!
This is valuable information on how to be proactive in being a small business owner and getting the word out about the products and services you provide.
Terri
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