Life With a Psychiatric Service Dog

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The ups and downs of living with a psychiatric service dog.

Having a psychiatric service dog has had an amazing impact on my life... In all honesty, it's truly given me a new life entirely. In addition to my amazing new lease on life however, there's a darker side. That's the part you aren't ever ready for!

Struggles With Service

Good, Bad, and Distressing!

My Story

In 2005 I developed Post-traumatic Stress Disorder, commonly called PTSD. I've seen things they wouldn't put on cable TV, and in just six months I'd been in London during the terrorist attacks, my home was hit by Hurricane Rita, and my father passed away unexpectedly. At the sensitive age of 17, it was just too much. The harder I tried to be "normal," the farther behind I fell. I was unable to attend school, and had a teacher bring my lessons three times a week. I would perform everyday tasks like get dressed or fix myself some food and be exhausted, both emotionally and physically. Regular life seemed like something of the past.

Like many other sufferers of PTSD, I sought help. I continued with therapy, and was put on medication to help with my depression and my anxiety/panic, but I still wasn't normal. I wasn't myself. I couldn't go to the mall, I couldn't even go to the grocery store without falling apart and needing to recover for a few days! The amazing person I had once been - the girl who could captivate an audience with a speech at such a young age, or travel the world and meet people from over a dozen countries - was gone... I thought!

Through a series of what I believe to be miracles, I found Gabriel. My life looked up almost instantly. The week he came home with me, I spent two whole hours at the mall! On a Saturday! I felt like I could do anything! I held a steady job for the first time in my life, and I could finally start looking forward to a bright future as a contributing member of my community!

The support has been amazing. Most people wonder what Gabe does for me. I'm proud to spend time out of my day telling people about him. I'm proud that he stops me before I panic, before I stress, and I don't have the same problems any more. I'm glad that people want to know, and I'm glad that I can get the word out there that service dogs are for more than the blind or paralyzed.

There are people who absolutely don't try to understand though. Every handler has their horror stories. Mid-January, I was walking the mall one afternoon like usual. When it rains and I'm unable to exercise outside, I enjoy the environment of the mall! On this particular occasion however, I had the police called out to have me thrown out! Thankfully everything could be sorted out and the officers were very understanding of Gabriel and his job to watch over me. I think the whole situation could have been resolved before the authorities were called if the person who summoned them had simply confronted me about having a dog in a shopping mall.

Because of these people, I want to reach out and get the word out about service dogs and the people they help. I'm planning on majoring in journalism, and hope to work with more non-profit groups like My Service Dog (in the Houston area) to improve the quality of life for people who could truly benefit from partnering with a service dog.

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What You Might Want To Know

There is no specific breed used for service dogs. Labradors and Golden Retrievers are commonly used for seeing-eye dogs and mobility assistance dogs because their stocky muscular bodies are incredibly stable and sturdy. My dog is a Standard Poodle, and I know of a couple of other Standards currently in service for seizure or mobility dogs. As long as the dog is capable of performing its required tasks and is a peaceful dog they're welcomed as service animals. Typically, breed-aggressive dogs aren't used regardless of the individual's temperament.

The most recognized use of a service dog is the seeing-eye dog. There are many more reasons to have a dog though! There are dogs to help the hearing impaired live more rich lives. Mobility dogs are, as the name implies, for people with mobility problems. They can have a harness very similar to a guide dog's harness, but the dog has completely different responsibilities.

Another amazing title for some of these dogs are seizure dogs! I've been blessed to know a couple of seizure dogs and their handlers. They seem like normal people, but epilepsy can severely restrict activity and even cause further health problems. I've known of a woman getting a concussion from falling to the floor during a seizure. Her dog now warns her before hand, and she has time to get low and safe before anything worse happens. Seizures are bad enough!

Finally, psychiatric service dogs. There are several mental illnesses that a canine companion can assist with, but the one I know most about is assistance with PTSD. Gabriel has several tasks he's trained to perform as needed and without command. Aside from his trained tasks, he can sense my panic attacks before I know I'm going to have one. These attacks can paralyze me with fear, cause fainting spells, or result in disorientation. With his warning, I can go out of my way to make sure I'm someplace safe. Usually I can control myself before I have any problems, and if I can't control them I have time to call someone for help before I become too disoriented to remember who to call.

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Mind Your Manners!

When you see a person with a service dog, you may not see a physical problem with them. I look like a normal teen, but without Gabe I'd be a wreck! If the handler seems open and willing to discuss their dog with you, you can use your discretion when asking further questions. Keep in mind though that the service dog is there because of a serious problem, and the person may be very uncomfortable discussing his/her reason for requiring their dog. It's even a sensitive subject for me if you catch me at the wrong time, so please be considerate of other people.

On a similar note, remember me mentioning that the dog is there because of a serious problem? Check the vest. Gabriel's has a patch that says "STOP! Don't pet me. I'm working." He needs to focus on me, and it's the same for other service dogs. On rare occasion, a handler will allow you to pet the animal, but not normally. The dog needs to focus on its owner. If Gabe quit focusing on me, I could have a problem in a public place and be unable to get home. It's important to keep your hands (and your children's hands) to yourself!

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By The Way, You're Amazing!

I just want you to know that I appreciate your time. I know that sounds so generic... a bit like some Hallmark card - pre-made so you can add your signature and be done. I mean it though. You took your time to read what I have to say and educate yourself. You've taken time to listen to some of what I've been through, and a tiny bit of what others go through.

If you have anything to say, I'd be glad to hear you out too. Share your experiences, speak out! Ask questions! I'm an open book, and if I don't know the answer I'll find someone who does for you. Help make the world a little smoother for people who are taking their lives into their hands and living with service dogs!

Update as of Nov, 2009!

Gabriel and I are going strong after two years together. I've been off of Squidoo for so long questions piled up in my box and I haven't replied, but I'll be on more and more as I complete my Animal Behaviorist and Veterinary Assistant certificate courses. I'm training up a replacement, Jack Boy, a Miniature Australian Shepherd. After Gabriel was attacked by an Akita, he's had some aggression problems and I can't in good conscience continue to take him into public like that. Since writing this article I've married a man who loves my dog almost as much as me, and who appreciates that I took my life into my own hands and moved up in life. He's in the US Army, and through him I've met quite a few people and have discovered how wonderful the Army is (at least at this post) when it comes to disabilities. We are well taken care of! I hope to continue to help others by training service dogs for veterans here who need help, and encourage organizations to do the same. I've made another web site where you can contace me more directly at http://www.trainingassistancedogs.com. It's difficult to reply from Squidoo, so questions are best sent to me from there and I'll get to you quickly. Three cheers for those of us living the life and those of us who will be living the life as soon as possible!

Service dog in action

Life and trips with Gabriel

Gabe and I have enjoyed life together so far!

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I want to know!

You've taken the time to read what I've got to say. Now I want to hear what you have to say! Comments are welcomed. Thank you for taking time to check this out.

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    Heylola2 Jan 17, 2012 @ 2:38 pm | delete
    Wonderful article. I really want a psychiatric service dog, preferably a standard poodle because I have dog allergies. My life is a wreck now. This helped me a bit, and I'm sorry about the akita attack. It's really sad.I'm so happy for you and your husband!
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    Thomas Skinner Jan 13, 2012 @ 12:25 pm | delete
    http://www.understandingptsd.org/my-service-dog/

    Thank you for your story. This is a link to my PTSD Service dog Scrubs.
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    Laurie Schlessman Nov 11, 2011 @ 12:28 am | delete
    Nice to meet you, just happened on this site tonight. I'm going through some extreme anxiety right now because of my Co op board members. They are trying to evict me because I have a SD. I'm working with the FHA and we're giving them one more chance to accommodate me by issuing a letter that I will deliver tomorrow, if they continue to pursue eviction or react unfavorably again, then it's time for me to file a complaint and I'll be forced to sue. I too have PTSD, panic attacks and GAD, plus mobility issues do to degenerative disc disease in my back, hips and ankles. I also suffer from Fibromyalgia, inner ear imbalance and chronic sinus migraines. My SD is my life saver. Because of him I am forced to go to the store and get out of bed even when I'm exhausted from not sleeping most of the night because of pain issues, since he's here now I find myself not checking the house locks and windows as much as before he came. He makes me feel safer and he counter balances me when I walk, helps me in and out of bed, helps me walk up and down stairs and so on. I've dealt with "invisible" disabilities for years now and the biggest thing that angers me is the way people perceive you. I do walk with a limp, but mostly my problems are invisible. I want to shout out to the world at times so that more people can open up their minds and realize that SD's do much more than lead the blind or alert the deaf. My PTSD is due to "amongst other reasons" to Domestic Violence, my husband, not my daughter's dad, whom was mentally abusive, but my ex, he nearly killed me he beat me so bad one evening, it's a miracle I'm alive to talk about, but I can't say too much more because I'm already feeling that knot in my stomach just with what I have just typed. Anyway, people need to be educated about SD's and all the different reasons people have them. Any ideas on how I can educate people in my community? I really don't like crowds, especially speaking in front of them, so maybe an online approach or maybe in time with Brutis by my side I could speak to smaller groups like at a library or something. Well if you have any ideas let me know and also know that I feel your pain and I definitely understand where you're coming from. Wish me luck in fighting my landlord, I now we'll prevail, but with PTSD you always have that "when is the other shoe going to drop feeling". I'm just trying to stay as positive as I can, I know that knowing the laws certainly helps, but I'm still extremely anxious and stressed over all this. Thanks for listening and please if you would like you can email me anytime at lauries1114@yahoo.com
    Thanks, Laurie
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    Laurie Schlessman Nov 11, 2011 @ 12:28 am | delete
    Nice to meet you, just happened on this site tonight. I'm going through some extreme anxiety right now because of my Co op board members. They are trying to evict me because I have a SD. I'm working with the FHA and we're giving them one more chance to accommodate me by issuing a letter that I will deliver tomorrow, if they continue to pursue eviction or react unfavorably again, then it's time for me to file a complaint and I'll be forced to sue. I too have PTSD, panic attacks and GAD, plus mobility issues do to degenerative disc disease in my back, hips and ankles. I also suffer from Fibromyalgia, inner ear imbalance and chronic sinus migraines. My SD is my life saver. Because of him I am forced to go to the store and get out of bed even when I'm exhausted from not sleeping most of the night because of pain issues, since he's here now I find myself not checking the house locks and windows as much as before he came. He makes me feel safer and he counter balances me when I walk, helps me in and out of bed, helps me walk up and down stairs and so on. I've dealt with "invisible" disabilities for years now and the biggest thing that angers me is the way people perceive you. I do walk with a limp, but mostly my problems are invisible. I want to shout out to the world at times so that more people can open up their minds and realize that SD's do much more than lead the blind or alert the deaf. My PTSD is due to "amongst other reasons" to Domestic Violence, my husband, not my daughter's dad, whom was mentally abusive, but my ex, he nearly killed me he beat me so bad one evening, it's a miracle I'm alive to talk about, but I can't say too much more because I'm already feeling that knot in my stomach just with what I have just typed. Anyway, people need to be educated about SD's and all the different reasons people have them. Any ideas on how I can educate people in my community? I really don't like crowds, especially speaking in front of them, so maybe an online approach or maybe in time with Brutis by my side I could speak to smaller groups like at a library or something. Well if you have any ideas let me know and also know that I feel your pain and I definitely understand where you're coming from. Wish me luck in fighting my landlord, I now we'll prevail, but with PTSD you always have that "when is the other shoe going to drop feeling". I'm just trying to stay as positive as I can, I know that knowing the laws certainly helps, but I'm still extremely anxious and stressed over all this. Thanks for listening and please if you would like you can email me anytime at lauries1114@yahoo.com
    Thanks, Laurie
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    Molly Oct 10, 2011 @ 11:41 am | delete
    I have an Emotional Support Animal, my labrador, Cypress. I want to train her to become a Psychiatric Service Dog, I have GAD, Panic Disorder, SAD and Mild depression. It causes me to be unable to go out in public alone and sometimes forces me to not attend my classes. I would really love some input on training or finding someone to train my dog for this purpose. Please e-mail me @ soleil.lupo@yahoo.com if you can help me. I live in Louisiana.
    Thank you so much.
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