The Bridge Across Three Generations

When I run my hands over the warm quilt, I'm greeted by a flood of memories. Memories of my dad's 80th birthday. Memories of my parents, who are both gone now. And memories of Spring of 2000, when my mom arrived with a special request.
My parents had driven up from California for a three-day visit. Shortly after their arrival, Mama gave me the "quiet" sign and motioned for me to follow her; she had something to show me. Under stacks of folded clothes in her suitcase, she'd tucked an old quilt top. Its rows of brightly printed cotton fabric squares looked out of synch, from an era I knew nothing about. Soon I would learn that this was no ordinary quilt.
"All it needs is a warm middle and a nice backing," she whispered. "Do you think you could finish it in time for your dad's 80th birthday?"
Of course I agreed. This was a sewing project that would twist my heartstrings and introduce me to the grandmother I'd never had the opportunity to know.
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Old quilts speak volumes.
Beautiful quilts from old scraps grow.
Ah, how good it feels, grandma's quilt.
Quilting is a gift you give yourself.
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Journey of the Quilt Top
A quilt reaches across three generations...

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As the story goes, my aunt was cleaning clutter out of the garage, planning to toss out whatever was left in a musty old trunk that had sat in a back corner of her garage for almost forty years. Its contents meant little to her, since her in-laws had both passed away before she and my uncle met.
Inside the trunk, my dad discovered a brown envelope stuffed with family photos and several old letters. When he carried a boxful of items into the house, my mom rummaged around in there and found a folded quilt top rolled in a sheet at the very bottom of the trunk. She suspected it might have belonged to Daddy's mom--an exciting thought.
So without him noticing, Mama slipped the fabric into my aunt's house so she could ask her about it. Turns out the quilt top was, indeed, begun by my grandmother, but that's as much as my aunt knew.
Mama didn't tell my dad about her find, but instead, hatched a secret plan: She would ask me to finish what my grandmother had begun 75 years ago.
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Quiltmaking During the Great Depression
Busy hands during difficult times...
- The Great Depression: Quilting Publications in the 1930s
- How magazines, newspapers and catalogs promoted quilting during the Great Depression.
- Depression Era Quilts: Uplifting Fabric & Color for Hard Times
- In order to survive, magazines had to sell fashion and optimism. One way they did this was by including new quilt patterns, tips and stories in their issues. Quilting was one activity that a woman could do to fulfill her desire to be creative while still making something practical for her family.
- Speaking of Quilts: Voices from the Late Twentieth Century
- Quilts and Quiltmaking in America
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Speaking of Quilts: Voices from the Late Twentieth Centuryby Laurel Horton,
July, 1999We Americans have adopted quilts as a symbol of what we value about ourselves and our national history. We speak of quilts as evidence of ingenuity and resourcefulness, and the p
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"We were the first site online to offer photo-illustrated, step-by-step directions for the creation of machine-made quilt blocks for the Home of the Brave quilt charity project.
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Thinking about a Grandma I Never Knew
Each fabric square tells a story...

A few days after my mom entrusted the quilting project to me, I started planning how I would finish it in time for my dad's 80th birthday. First I checked fabric stores for a backing that would complement the colors and patterns of the quilt top, yet wouldn't look too modern in comparison.
It didn't take long to locate a simple fabric in a soft shade of peachy-pink. Its pattern was subtle and seemed to fit in well with the 1920's fabric used by my grandmother. Perfect!
Instead of polyester fill, I decided to buy a nice warm thermal blanket. I like blankets as the center layer, because the overall quilt tends to launder better and doesn't turn lumpy with age.
I recalled Daddy's stories--like voices from the Great Depression. Like many in the '20s and '30s, his parents had lived a frugal life. Nothing was wasted, and they taught their children to count their blessings. But as hard as they tried to hold it together, his dad ended up losing the family farm during the Great Depression.
On top of that jolt, my grandfather suffered a serious stroke and died at home. My dad was ten years old when he said that last goodbye to his father. Through the difficult years, he clung to the truth of a favorite verse in the Bible: "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you" (I Peter 5:7/NIV). God proved his faithfulness time and again as my dad and his family lived through some very tough years.
And now I had a quilt top from that era. I studied the old-fashioned prints and textures of the quilt top, and wondered whether the brown and white swatches might have been cut from one of my grandfather's shirts. Could the bright red and white starred print have been my grandmother's apron, or a pair of curtains?
...In time, I would learn the missing details.

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Ties That Bind
Completing the quilt my grandmother began...
I didn't expect my quilting project to affect me the way it did. It was as if time had stood still.I'd carefully pinned my three layers - Grandma's quilt top, the warm blanket middle, and the new peachy backing - and joined them around the edges on my sewing machine. (My grandmother would have hand-stitched the entire quilt.) Often I'd pause to run my fingers tenderly over this stranger's tiny, neat stitches. What was my Grandma like? I wondered. What did she worry about? What gave her joy? Was she happiest when creating something beautiful with her hands?
What would she think of me, working on a quilt she'd begun so many years ago?
I vividly remember the morning I sat cross-legged on my living room floor, the quilt spread out before me in a sea of color. All I had left to do was connect front to back with yarn ties. I was not a formal quilter per se; I didn't know anything about tiny hand stitches in swirly designs. I'd simply made a few comforters then finished them off by tying the corners of every other square with a bright piece of heavyweight yarn.
As I completed Grandma's quilt, I felt for the first time that she was a real person, connected to me not by hugs but by a common love for the same person--her son and my father.
Suddenly my thoughts turned to Daddy. When he saw the quilt again, would those squares of fabric look familiar to him? Would he even recognize it as his mother's handiwork?
I could hardly wait for his birthday to arrive.
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The Day I Gave the Quilt Away...

On my dad's 80th birthday, we drove down to spend the weekend with my parents. That morning we were planning to take them out for breakfast, but I couldn't wait any longer. I had to give him my package.
I sat closeby so I could see his expression when he opened his gift.
He took one look at the quilt, pulled it up against his chest, and wept.
When he regained his composure, he pointed to all the different fabric squares.
"That was Dad's shirt," he said quietly.
"Mom's favorite dress. She loved blue."
"These curtains hung in our dining room."
"Oh, and look...there's the apron my aunt made for my mother."
Before I left for home that weekend, Daddy hugged me again and told me, "When my time comes to leave this world, I want you to have this quilt."
Little did I realize what lay ahead...
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Gift products created from heirloom quilts
One of my favorites was her "crazy-quilt," which was a popular form of quilting in the early 1900s. Crazy-quilts were made by thrifty women who couldn't stand to throw out an older piece of clothing. Everything was cut into manageable pieces, and turned into a beautiful creation. This product line was created from photos I have taken of this crazy quilt from various angles. I'm also planning selected fine art prints that I will be adding to my Zazzle gallery soon.
Quilters' Thoughts...
May your sorrows be patched and your joys be quilted.
Life is a patchwork of memories.
Quilts are like hugs from the ones you love.
The Great Depression
Links about that difficult era...
- Great Depression Art Gallery
- Modern American Poetry site includes this collection of art from the Great Depression
- The Dust Bowl
- An interesting overview of the weather's effect on an entire region and ultimately, a nation.
"The simplest acts of life - breathing, eating a meal, taking a walk - were no longer simple. Children wore dust masks to and from school, women hung wet sheets over windows in a futile attempt to stop the dirt, farmers watched helplessly as their crops blew away." - Photographs of the Great Depression
- About.com has an extensive collection of actual photos from the Great Depression. People's expressions tell the story here.
- Timelline
- Timeline of the Great Depression
- Riding the Rails
- From The American Experience
Full Circle
The rest of my quilt story...the Bigger Picture
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My mother passed away in 2004, and my dad joined her in 2006.
Grandma's quilt is draped over a rocking chair in my living room. To me, it's much more than stitched fabric squares; it is the story of Daddy's life and legacy.
When I realized that my father only had days to live, I prayed to be there when he passed. God graciously granted my request. Looking back, I believe it was no accident that my grandmother's hands began this simple quilt, and mine finished it. And in-between those decades-spanning stitches lived a precious man who was loved by us both.
As I sat by his bedside, my thoughts turned to Grandma's quilt. Like a flashlight illuminating a darkened closet, I suddenly recognized the bigger picture:
This woman who poured her love into each tiny stitch was also the one who labored to bring my father into the world. She heard his first cry, saw him take his first steps, and stood proudly by as he left to serve his country during WWII.
She witnessed my dad's very first breath, and in a few minutes, I would cradle him in my arms as he drew his last.
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- I love old quilts. One of my favorite possessions is a quilt with blocks made by my great-great grandmother that were sewn together by my great-grandmother, and with batting and backing added by my grandmother (from the other side of my family from the ones who made the blocks and sewed them together!). These are wonderful heirlooms that can be treasured for many generations. Thank you so much for providing this wonderful lens highlighting them.
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