Raising a Blind Child

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Tips for Parents of Blind Children

Raising a blind child is an experience filled with adventure! Some days are hectic, others are peaceful. Somedays you are surprised at how far you and your child have come, and other days you are surprised by how far you still have left to go. Somedays you celebrate your child's achievements, and other days you cope with bad news concerning your child's medical condition. One thing parenting blind children is not: It is never dull!

This lens is written by the mother of a blind child. My daughter is thirteen years old and is blind from retinopathy of prematurity. She has a small amount of light perception only.

Being this little girl's mom has been one of the most challenging and wonderful experiences of my life. I could not do it alone, although many times I have felt isolated. This lens is written in hopes that you will feel a little less alone and a little more connected to people and resources that can help you as you guide and teach your child toward life as an independent blind adult.

My daughter is blind. Raising a blind child is a lot like raising any child, and in many important ways it is very different.

Ever since I brought my daughter home, I have been hearing that most people learn 80 percent of what we know through our vision. That means my child is missing out on 80 percent of what her sighted peers are learning unless I figure out ways to bring that information to her other senses. This is quite a bit of time-consuming work.

It can feel like you are trying to reinvent the wheel if you try to figure this all out by yourself. Why do that when you can tap into the wisdom and experience of parents who came before you?

You don't have to reinvent the wheel or experience isolation while raising your blind child.

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Encourage Your Blind Child to Try New Things

My daughter has no vision yet took this photo

type=textMost people probably do not think about a child who is almost totally blind being interested in photography. I did not either. It never crossed my mind that my child who could not see would enjoy taking photographs; yet, she loves to do this. A lot of her pictures do not work out. Sometimes it might be just a shot of the plain white ceiling or a close-up of the front of her shirt.

Sometimes her photographs turn out very nicely. Like this portrait she took of me using a little point and shoot, Canon Powershot, camera. I think it turned out pretty great!

Be sure to give your blind child opportunities to do things that it would not seem possible for her to do. The purpose is not to frustrate her, of course; but, to broaden her horizons and increase her self-confidence and independence. You never know where an experience might lead.

Blind people do things everyday that no one considered possible. Encourage your blind child to follow her dreams!

As a wise person once said, "You don't have to see the stars to reach for them!"

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Dark Light

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Dark Light: The Art of Blind Photographers

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Motivating Your Blind Baby to Walk

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Are You the Parent of a Blind Child?

I like to know who is visiting my lens, so that I can better address the concerns of my readers. Are you the parent of a blind child, a teacher or have some other interest in this topic? Help me make this lens better by identifying the needs of my readers!

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Adapting Your Home

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Tips to Help Your Low Vision or Blind Child at Home

This manual from the American Federation for the Blind will provide tips and guidelines for making adaptations to your home that will help your child with low vision be able to utilize their remaining vision as fully as possible. Some helpful tips include closing blinds in kitchen and bathrooms, making use of task lighting, installing lights under cupboards to illuminate work areas, and painting switch plates in bright hues to increase visibility. For more tips, check a copy of this handy guide!
Making Life More Liveable | American Foundation for the Blind
Making Life More Livable is the essential guide for adults experiencing vision loss and is an invaluable resource for their family and friends. Full of practical tips and illustrated by numerous photographs, this easy-to-use resource shows how people who are visually impaired can continue living independent, productive lives at home on their own. Useful general guidelines and room-by-room specifics provide simple and effective solutions for making homes accessible and everyday activities doable for individuals with visual impairments

Orientation and Mobility

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Preschool Blind Child with Cane

Watch me go!!! Blind preschooler uses cane.
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Get a White Cane

National Federation of the Blind - Free White Cane Program
Request a free white cane from this organization. Online form to fill out.

Does Your Child Use a Cane?

Does your child use a white cane for mobility? Tell us about it in the comments section!

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Books for Parents and Teachers Working with Vision Impaired Children

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Braille Literacy

Braille Books for Children

Help your child with braille literacy skills when you check out these lenses.
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Sources of Braille Children's Books and Magazines
American Foundation for the Blind offers a list of sources for borrowing or purchasing braille and print/braille children's books and magazines in the United States.

Books in Braille for Young Children

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Learning Braille

A fun braille literacy activity

Here is a fun activity you can do at home to help your child practice their braille alphabet skills.
Brian learning Braille May 2009
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Pre-Braille Literacy

Preparing Your Blind Toddler or Preschooler to be a Braille Reader

Concept development is crucial for future braille literacy. While your child is small, give her many experiences and help her develop her understanding of objects, places and people in her world. This is vital to her future ability to understand what stories are about.

Another aspect that is important to future braille literacy is fine motor development. The finger tips must be enough to discriminate the small bumps in the braille cell. The fingers must also be strong enough to operate the Perkins braille writer throughout the school day without becoming fatigued.

Here are some lenses with suggestions for play activities that will build fine motor skills.
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For More Information About Raising a Blind Child

Wonder Baby
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Blind/Visually Impaired Education
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Games with Braille

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Braille Toys on eBay

Blind children sometimes need adaptations to their toys to enjoy them fully. Here are some toys that have been brailled or otherwise adapted to make them accessible to your blind child.

If you see something you like, better click on it. These brailled toys go fast on eBay!
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  • vallain Dec 5, 2011 @ 2:32 pm | delete
    I stopped back to admire all the improvements you've made to this page. It's a good resource for a parent of a blind child. Blessed.
  • Tipi Dec 5, 2011 @ 11:29 am | delete
    I've always thought there was something special about your avatar picture and that specialness is Frischette bringing out all she sees in you.....all vision is not seeing for sure! That 80% issue seems insurmountable but you have demonstrated that there is so much more and may your sharing be an encouragement to many! It is my pleasure to bless and FB'd.
  • Ruthi Dec 1, 2011 @ 10:11 pm | delete
    A wonderful lens and even more wonderful it was a gift! I cannot imagine the difficulties of raising a blind child, but it's awesome that you are sharing these resources with others. I will be passing this forward.
  • KathyMcGraw Sep 6, 2011 @ 7:49 pm | delete
    I found this quite interesting, especially the part about photography. It's so true that if you as the parent don't let them try to develop their interests you then set up boundaries and sometimes they stop trying. *Blessed*
  • RenaissanceWoman2010 Aug 30, 2011 @ 7:59 pm | delete
    I appreciated this opportunity to learn more about the needs of blind children and what it means to raise a child who will thrive no matter what special needs exist. Thank you for teaching me and raising my awareness. Very important learning.
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