"We're Letting You Go"
Have you recently been "let go", "laid off work" or "made redundant" by the economic downturn or otherwise?
Do not lose heart. Although shocking, emotionally draining and devastating, the "blow" is only temporary.
Find relief, comfort and helpful tips in this lens to aid you during this stressful time and focus on taking positive steps to getting back on top.
Do not lose heart. Although shocking, emotionally draining and devastating, the "blow" is only temporary.
Find relief, comfort and helpful tips in this lens to aid you during this stressful time and focus on taking positive steps to getting back on top.
Laid Off From Your Job
The Emotions
In 2008 there were a record 2,650,000 unemployed in Japan. In the same year, Spain recorded 2,590,000 and in the United States a whopping 8,924,000.As if being laid off isn't emotional enough, each person who joins the ranks of the unemployed faces the additional challenge of living on less. When you are earning the money, you never think to cut back, but when the same expenses come and you have no work, there is no choice but to simplify.
While searching for work, you need to cope with the mental and emotional anxiety caused by unemployment. You may also have to live on less. There are two practical steps you can take to deal with the emotional challenges.
The loss of your job inevitably creates anxiety. You may wonder how long you will be without work and how you can make ends meet in the meantime.
First, identify your fears. When your emotions are so intense, it is difficult to think about matters logically. But you have to. Exercising control is essential. The things you fear most likely won't happen. By focusing on the present and the problems at hand you remove the stress of unnecessarily worrying about tomorrow.
Ask yourself these pertinent questions :
-What do I fear the most?
-How likely is it that this fear will become a reality?
-How much energy do I expend worrying about what may or may not happen?
Secondly, cultivating contentment is crucial to your wellbeing. Your viewpoint can affect your emotions. Being content means limiting your wants and being satisfied when your daily needs are met. Living more simply may not be what you are accustomed to, but wishing for what you had previously will only intensify your distress. It's your viewpoint not your circumstances that make things seem unbearable.
Ask yourself these personal questions :
-Have my needs for today been cared for?
-If so, can I take one day at a time, confident that my needs will be taken of tomorrow as well?
The right viewpoint is the first step in facing up to the challenge of living on less.
Remaining positive and actively taking steps to find employment is rewarding. Persistence does pay off. You may spend weeks in fruitless job hunts and feel like the doors of opportunity have closed a bit like waiting for a train to arrive at the station but it never comes.
There is one thing you can take control of and that is your own actions. Following up on sending resumes or curriculum vitaes to countless companies who even remotely seem to need your skills, is vital. Following up on all responses and preparing thoroughly for each interview will give you the added advantage over other job seekers who are less efficient.
It is draining going to many interviews perhaps being grilled by top managers, but your persistence will pay off in the end. A savvy employer is bound to see your determination and diligent effort and will hire you.
How To Develop A Budget
Before buying, think.
Ask yourself questions :
*Do I really need this?
*Is the old item actually worn out or do I just want something new?
*Would buying a good used item work just as well?
By establishing a pattern of saving with little things, you will do the same when facing large expenses.
CAUTION : If you use a credit card, do so responsibly. Many budget plans have been ruined by the temptation to "buy now, pay later"...
Ask yourself questions :
*Do I really need this?
*Is the old item actually worn out or do I just want something new?
*Would buying a good used item work just as well?
By establishing a pattern of saving with little things, you will do the same when facing large expenses.
CAUTION : If you use a credit card, do so responsibly. Many budget plans have been ruined by the temptation to "buy now, pay later"...
- Write down your essential monthly expenses - keep a record for an entire month of all that you spend on food, housing, (rent or mortgage), utility bills, car expenses, and so on. For bills that are paid annually, divide by 12 for the monthly amount.
- Organise expenses into categories - these include food, housing, vehicle and travel costs etc.
- Figure out how much of your savings must be applied monthly to each category - with annual bills you must calculate how much needs to be put aside on a monthly basis.
- Write down the combined net earnings of all in your household - subtract deductions like taxes. Compare this with the expenses.
- Set aside the amount needed to satisfy each category monthly - if using cash, a simple way is to mark envelopes for each category. Then place cash in the appropriate envelope periodically to cover the assigned expense.
From Unemployment To Self-Employment
Entrepreneur Rather Than An Employee?
Unemployment has generated millions of bitter victims who feel betrayed by their employers. Many employees have been laid off their jobs more than once by disloyal employers or companies who have been adversely affected by the global recession.Have you considered an alternative to returning to work or hunting for a job working as an employee? Granted, there are many types of business opportunities and investment options available to savvy entrepreneurs all with varying associated costs. However if you have an entrepreneurial streak and have a vision of something greater than yourself, perhaps you should explore your options and do some due diligence.
Imagine firing your boss rather than him firing you? Wow wouldn't that be something? Consider your goals and ask yourself the following questions :
-Do I want to work for a disloyal boss who'll "let me go" the minute hard times strike?
-Do I want to spend gruelling hours working for a measly salary?
-Do I want to commute long, unproductive, tiring hours to and from the job every day?
-What do I want to do rather than have to do every day?
-What do I hope to achieve for my loved ones today and tomorrow?
-What future will a salary provide for me and my family?
Why put yourself through the daily motions of pain and suffering every day when you can choose to do things differently? It starts with having the right mindset. Why do you do what you do?
Some self-examination questions :
-Why am I doing what I am doing?
-Am I passionate about my job?
-Do I inspire others like my children, working as an employee?
-Am I satisfied working for a boss even though I am a highly paid corporate executive?
-Do I still want to be where I am in the next five, ten or fifteen years from now?
Think clearly about where you stand and what aspirations you hope to achieve in your lifetime. Discover an online marketing education business opportunity that is empowering entrepreneurs and individuals globally in more than 170 lands and is rapidly growing.
Great Stuff on Amazon
Mindset Resources
Positive thinking is powerful. Changing your mindset is the most essential step towards living a more successful and holistic life. Here are a few recommended media resources to get you started in the right frame of mind...
"Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success."
- Dale Carnegie
Take A Seat
How Do You Feel?
-
-
TimmySquid
Oct 5, 2011 @ 10:29 am | delete
- Good lens especially for those who have had the heartache of being laid off and having to support a family. Thanks for the great tips.
-
-
-
COUNTRYLUTHIER
Oct 1, 2011 @ 10:14 pm | delete
- Never ever give up. Grow where you are planted and you will find success.
-
-
-
COUNTRYLUTHIER
Oct 1, 2011 @ 10:14 pm | delete
- Never ever give up. Grow where you are planted and you will find success.
-
-
-
SailingSeth
Sep 19, 2011 @ 6:36 am | delete
- Great lens. I think it's definitely worth reading, particularly in these unsteady economic times. Thanks for sharing.
-
-
-
john_garcia
Aug 9, 2011 @ 3:05 pm | delete
- Very Good article I would add however preparation is everything. Protecting your family and lifestyle, mortgage and ensuring those commitments are meet whatever life throws at us would be a lot easier if we protected against the risks that could cause us and our family hardship. Unemployment insurance in this case would ensure that you could maintain your home and way of life reducing the pressure and stress in finding alternative employment.
-
- Load More
Featured Lenses
This UpMarket page written by
Quickstart-Home-Biz
Zurieka & James Model are passionate entrepreneurs & mentors who inspire serious individuals & empower entrerpreneurs. Together they are guiding savvy... more »
Deluxe. Remarkable. Creative. Unusual. Successful. Upmarket businesses push the envelope -- does yours?
Connect with UpMarket
This author recommends...
-
Top 10 Toughest Jobs and the Most Dangerous Jobs in the World
The world's toughest / most difficult jobs need not necessarily have to be the w... -
Truck Driver Jobs in Fargo, North Dakota USA
Fargo, North Dakota is in the United States of America. I was a partner in an in... -
The Best Jobs For The Future
The future is cloudy, a likely economic depression makes all projections a bit chancy.... -
Property Caretaking: How To Get The Job & Make The Most Of It
A Connecticut farm where we were caretakers You may have heard some buzz about &... -
Cover Letters For An Administrative Assistant's Resume
A cover letter can be very important when applying for an Administrative Assista... -
Part Time Jobs In Fargo, ND/FM Area
Part Time Jobs in Fargo, North Dakota area. Jobs updated daily for PT Jobs withi...