Skip to navigation | Skip to content

Share your knowledge. Make a difference.

Reflective Listening Skills

1 - I can do better 2 - Jury's out 3 - Pretty darn good 4 - Splendiferous 5 - Awesometastic (by 31 people)   Your rating: 1 - I can do better 2 - Jury's out 3 - Pretty darn good 4 - Splendiferous 5 - Awesometastic

Ranked #248 in How-To, #2501 overall

Rated G. (Control what you see)

Reflective Listening Skills

 

Reflective Listening Skills are extremely important. In general, most people talk too much and simly don't listen!

Managers and other employees spend more than 40 percent of their time listening to other people but often do it so poorly that the result is misunderstood instructions, misdirected projects, and erroneous actions—millions of dollars' worth of mistakes just because most people don't know how to listen. In this new edition of her classic guide to the art of effective listening, Madelyn Burley-Allen shows you how to acquire active, productive listening skills and put them to work for you — professionally, socially, and personally. With her time-tested techniques, you'll learn how to:
  • Eliminate distractions and improve your concentration on what is being said
  • Locate key words, phrases, and ideas while listening
  • Cut through your own listening biases
  • Interpret body language clues
  • Ask constructive, non-threatening questions that elicit real information
  • Get others to listen to you
  • Master a whole range of listening skills that you can use on the job and in your personal life

 

Download the audio book Listening: The Forgotten Skill by Madelyn Burley-Allen.

 

Listening Skills Audio Books 

Listening Skills Audio Books Online Downloads

There are number of really good audio books about listening skill ready for immediate download online. You may also listen to a short sample of these books, just click any of the links:

Listening: The Forgotten Skill - Madelyn Burley-Allen | Self Help Audio Books / Interpersonal Skills Audios | Audio Book

Download this Audio Book: A Proven Program for Tur more...3 points

Emotional Intelligence : Why It Can Matter More Than IQ Audio Summary - Daniel Goleman | Business Audio Books | Audio Book

Download this Audio Book: Emotional intelligence i more...1 point

How Children Raise Parents - The Art of Listening to Your Family - Dan Allender | Religion & Spiritual / Christian Audio Books | Audio Book

Download this Audio Book: The powerful new book th more...0 points

What Do Women Want From Men? - Dan True | Health & Recreation / Sex & Relationship Audios | Audio Book

Download this Audio Book: Essential information fo more...0 points

How to Talk So Kids Can Learn - Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish | Self Help Audio Books / Interpersonal Skills Audios | Audio Book

Download this Audio Book: Here is the bestselling more...0 points

How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk - Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish | Self Help Audio Books / Interpersonal Skills Audios | Audio Book

Download this Audio Book: These renowned bestselli more...0 points

Hearing vs Listening 

We hear, provided our hearing is healthy, but we often don't listen. Here's the definition and explanation what hearing is:

Humans can generally hear sounds with frequencies between 20 Hz and 20 kHz. Human hearing is able to discriminate small differences in loudness (intensity) and pitch (frequency) over that large range of audible sound. This healthy human range of frequency detection varies significantly with age, occupational hearing damage, and gender; some individuals are able to hear pitches up to 22 kHz and perhaps beyond, while others are limited to about 16 kHz. The ability of most adults to hear sounds above about 8 kHz begins to deteriorate in early middle age.

When we hear something, it's just sound waves reaching our ears and then being forwarded to our brain. If we are ACTIVELY listening, then we absorb what we hear, we think about it and we store it in our short term memory, maybe we will later even add it to our long term memory. To listen is an active effort, hearing is passive.

An active listener is what we all like. If somebody is listening to you, you feel good, you get the impression that your conversation partner is valueing what you say and that he takes your words seriously. Developing listening skills is important, and with just a little effort and the right techniques, everybody can master this valuable skill in a short time.

Communication Skills 

Why Listening is more Important than Speaking

Communication Skills are very important in our hectic and highly coimmunicative society.

But most people think that communication is talking, telling others about everthing and anything one thinks is important.

But communication is not a one way street! Communicare - the word that is the origin for comunication - means interaction between two or more people. So it's not about monologues, but dialogues.

For a dialogue to be a meaningful exchange of ideas and opinions, both or all parties involved in this dialogue need to be ready to also listen to what the others have to say.

This is why listening skills, especially reflective listening skills are so important!
X
alymi

About alymi

Hi

I enjoy communication and alternative methods of enhancing ones conciousness i.e. through hypnosis.

alymi's Pages

See all of alymi's pages