Romantic Hug

Love and sex will always be the hot topics some people enjoy reading about them for fun, humour and enlightenment. Some people may read about love and sex to acquire the power of attraction or to solve some love problems. Therefore, if you enjoy readings, then this lens will take you to fill that atmosphere of knowledge by some good wording, imaging, philosophising and overall humour in between the lines.

In addition, there are some examples of love problems I have treated through love consulting services. The stories you will read here are either real stories or false stories some people have submitted to get their love problems solved.

I support this section of my consulting services by wording love using some philosophy at Love Problems Blog.

Background to Romantic Hug as a lens:

I wrote this lens attributed to Gil Gilmore the first time and kept it in my folder even before I built lenses for Multicultural Projects, Wolfenstein 3D, Squadron of Poets group, Squadron of Poets, Sudanese Music and Political Refugees.

On Saturday, 24 May 2008, I opened the folder to add more content and make it a lens for Gail Gilmore. However, what has happened was that I indulged in writing the following paragraphs and then a wave of a relevant lens had taken me at the point of love in this lens, as if I was flying on Pegasus, to shift my ideas.

Here at this point the Love Consulting lens has been born full of emotion and intellectuality. Instead of calling it love consulting, I have chosen Romantic Hug to express my sincere willingness to touch that nerve inside your habitual emotions. However, Love Consulting is a warm process in my Ezine Act, Politics, Business and Love website, where I do three kinds of consultation in politics and business in addition to love.

I intended to bring herein some love problems and some solutions to those problems, so those interested in touching this profession, could read something useful in handling such love problems, through warm and sincere love consulting services.

Therefore, we have some good purposes here to enjoy Romantic Hug.

You may need an essence of elegant Romantic Hug through reading in different cultural backgrounds. Choosing to remain sophisticated will always be your way to attract women to adore you personally. However, treating all women as lovers, will send you back to the desert or to drink from the sea;-)

Women are more envious by nature than men are. OK, OK, your objection is acceptable at the guestbook module below.

I said back to the desert and I did not mean that you came from the desert. I said that because I consider women are from the Paradise and men are from the Desert. You may remember at this line Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. No, I have not read it yet. I read about it in different languages and it is in my list.

I remember I had so many girlfriends. My friends envied me because of this secret attraction. They expressed their envious nature in front of me even by asking so many times how it comes that I had all those beautiful girls around me.

They even bed on the issue as some of them said because I am smart and handsome and the others said I played some tricks with girls like Elvis Presley did (in his movies of course).

I kept telling them, ok - this has nothing to do with being handsome and so attractive to women. This has nothing also to do with tricks. It is as simple as that. I had never missed any great movie screened in my city and in London at the same period. I read almost so many books and magazines for boys, which came out of the printing houses those days. I had the complete big home library no other fellow had. Girls used to come to visit this library and borrow books I lent out to them using the same registration process at any public library.

Yes, some of them used to send me letters inside some of those books, or even used to underline hot sentences on this book or that to attract my attention. I remember oh, girls, girls, girls; Elvis! However, I had been the very shy person in history;-) I have learned the arts of bright letters and polite touches early at that time.

Did I mention something about how important it is to be sophisticated to attract women?

Not intended at all to write my autobiography, but I needed to highlight how I deal with the other sex and how I obtain regards and recognitions from the other sex. When people acquire recognition and respect, other people, specially the gentle sex get attracted to whisper out their love problems seeking resolutions from trusted wise people.

Some people have it difficult to connect to this sex or that. Those some folk fail in friendship and love relations, so they use the love consultation services to send their queries and problems in using different websites on personal relations. I have received so many of those requests from some people who sought some resolutions to their problems. Through my Love Consulting Services, the stories I have received enlighten some values that could be motives to generate Romantic Hug's Lenses.

I have not got down the road to play with girls using their weakness. I have been always in serious and well-defined relations, whether they are simply normal friendship or love. In schools, my mates sought my advices in this matter or that. I was always ready to give them useful highlights as if that matter was mine. No, I have not studied problem management skills at that time. I have just read many books in Psychology, Philosophy, Logic and Social Sciences.

In addition, I had been the only student in the school to argue with the teacher who taught us Psychology, Philosophy, Logic and Social Sciences. That was my habit since elementary school when my teacher nicknamed me "the Sophist". Well, I knew some people take the word by its negative meaning. My teacher was right and he meant the right meaning of the word for the right child in class as he explained it.

My mates and other friends admired the way I solved some of their problems through friendly discussions. Those were not only love problems, but other emotional problems between them and their parents too.

I actually did that by giving them time to extend breathing out their stresses. I would then speak in this situation, about what I should do if I was one of them! They trusted the way I kept their whispers confidential and the way I let them express themselves. We did not know at that time those were some processes to problem solving.

There are so many values here to Love Consulting I have learned from my own personal practices. However, the "Science" gets in very late to sophisticate those personal practices. Through Problem Management studies both in English and in Danish languages, I get the complete vision (I never needed) to manage personal problems. There is no contradiction and wonder in this statement. However, I have always the pleasure to expand my knowledge.

Did I mention something about the complete vision (I never needed) to manage personal problems. Well ... read more highlights to this statement below.

When I entered this field through professional studies some years ago, I found that some groups of our elders have been doing this professional problems management following their own naturally social experiences. We call those groups of elders "mediators", meaning "Ajaweed" in the local Arabic language and Hukama, pl. of Hakim. They mediated different settlements to many personal problems and even tribal problems.

The role of those mediators has stopped, during those difficult political situations in Sudan, the civil dictatorship and the military dictatorship have created, decades after decades since the Independence Day.

Those mediators have never needed to study in colleges to succeed in mediating difficult personal, family and tribal problems. They only have that sense of wisdom by nature. This is why the ancestral wisdom ties some of the generations to their families, without having to ignore their acquired modern orientation.

When the second dictator in Sudan overthrew the malfunctioned democracy, he immediately resolved the communities of those mediators by banning their activities. They have been running their problems management through the local people's administrational committees in the suburbs. They had their own (ordonnance).

Oh, my goodness; is this a romantic hug or a political hug? ;-)

Lot of waters ran under the bridge since my first Romantic Hug! I had those romantic hugs in some emotional sophisticated and poetic jerking! I did not know that time, whenever I had a romantic hug, if I was hugging my sweetheart or my verse;-) This has happened every time we met. My poetry still flows with that nostalgic feeling even in any new love relation. My romantic hugs deliver warm metaphoric verses.

However, that experience enriched my thoughts and strengthened my back while fighting those dictators.

During those two periods of civil and military dictatorships, I invented my own remedy through having romantic hugs, creating romantic hugs and sending romantic hugs to some girlfriends, I knew. I created my beautiful romantic corner in this world doing my dreams alone anytime I had outdoor confrontation with Politics.

I in fact lived like other people bad political situations since the Independence. Through romantic hugs, having them real or imaginary in some letters, I made my own creative remedy to cure my soul from the infection of the dictatorship and terrorism. Those politically combined systems are still infecting people's lives. They infected people's life more than the binary deathful malaria and bilharzias that are killing hundred thousands of people there in my homeland and other regions in Mama Africa.

I sent out romantic hugs in metaphoric poetry to raise awareness. However, I had been very practical when I wrote many articles in my newspaper and other magazines and newspapers. In those articles, I wrote hard critiques to those dictators building subjective points from daily circumstances, occurrences and facts.

What is interesting about Romantic Hugs, when it comes to Love Consulting, is that some few guys used the free consultation services to both have fun and make some jokes. Some of them used it purposely to get professional problem management skills to handle solving love problems. I came to know this fact through different practices while tracking and following up some submitted cases. However, I am not sad because of that. It is my pleasure to continue assuming that some people who used or will use the services need my help.

When I receive some requests, I actually skip reading the messages to look for the information my tracking tools have collected during the submission of the love consulting forms. Normally when users use the forms to submit their love problems seeking resolutions, the system will track their locations and provide me by some information about them. When I see that, some of those people who used the forms hid this information, I get to their messages to read them. Their messages will either encourage me to reply to them or delete them. When I decide to reply, I will actually do that using a secondary email address, as I know some people are Phishing through those forms to get my primary email address.

I continue my contact to solve those problems I discover as real love problems through two or three follow up. In addition, I do this actually, because my system helps me identifying the real requests from the Phishing.

To keep track of different follow up I should create some files in the Love Consulting folder and save them using the names of those users who submitted the forms. The schedule for the Love Consulting begins Sunday every week unless there is an urgent request or emergency to follow up some days in the week.

This is a preparation lesson to love consulting session. Just before you begin or even request a love consulting service; it is necessary to have this information submitted to the love consultant expert, if your case is about a marriage between two people who came from different ethnical, cultural and economical backgrounds.

Your intention here if you are a prospect is to help your love consultant expert see the problem from different angles. Your love consultant expert will then focus in essential information s/he needs to give you the best of his solutions to the love problem.

If you want to begin love consulting sessions then you may consider requesting the following information from your prospect before you take any step to solve the problem. Consider that not all love-consulting forms are sufficient entirely to request all the information you need in the following case.

How Do You Begin a Pre-Love Consulting Session?
How Do You Help Your Love Consultant to Help You?

Well, if in the case I am writing about, the love consultant has no enough information; the first step to do is to request this information through an email like the following. However, the requested information helps both the prospect and the love consultant acquire more insights that are fundamental.

Examples of Information Needed for Love Consulting Sessions

Hello Sonia (I assume the prospect name is Sonia. I received a request from somebody by this name from India. Most of the requests I received for love consulting were from India.)

Thank you for requesting my "Love Consulting Services".

I am determined to do these free "Consulting Services" to help lovely people like you live better; and that is something very simple I am doing every day taking the wisdom from my long experiences. I lived with so many nationalities and I know "some" great deal of backgrounds.

Therefore, to help you out of this very small "thing" you might feel as a problem, I need some personal information about you, your family and that person "supposed to be your husband".

I deal honestly with such information to help other people. I have no intentions to disclose any information that can identify you personally.

Take your time to write back in a descriptive way, so I can help you tailor the best solution that suites your case.

Put this information in details like this:

¤ My Personal Information:
- About me:
A- Age:
B- Studies:
C- Current Post: i.e. profession, current income if any
D- Hobbies:
About My Family:
A- Living Standard: i.e. my father's post - my mother's post
B- Family Members: brothers and sisters, their posts, education etc...
C- Family traditions:

¤ About My Fiancé:
A- Age:
B- Studies:
C: Current Post: i.e. profession, current income if any
D- Hobbies:
About his Family:
A- Living Standard: i.e. father's post - mother's post
B- Family Members: brothers and sisters, their posts, education etc...
C- Family traditions:

¤ Copy and paste the above part of the "Consulting Services" course in your notepad to edit the information needed. When you finish checking, copy and paste the information in the body of your e-mail and send it.

Please NOTE: DON'T send attached files.

... and from this point, we'll begin the first session

My best regards

Sonia has just got confused when she discovered that her romantic hugs were going to waste and elapse away. Her boy was unsure. He loves her but he was just unsure. What makes her feel that way about him was that as she told me a new girl has approached him, attracted him and he ignored Sonia sometimes.

She wanted to bring his attention to not to hurt her. I told her some words to whisper to him about another boy who likes her. Following my advices to her, she told him the other guy is serious and he wanted to marry her. The other guy believes in love after marriage as he told her when she told him about that she respects him only and feels a brotherly feeling towards him; and she hopes that he will find the nice girl who loves him.

Her lover took the alarm and began to ask how about their love. She told him that she thought of him getting too far with the other girl, so she did not want to disturb their moments of joy. She told him even love means that anyone who feels it could sacrifice for the other person to be happy. His reaction was very different from any time before. He told her the other girl knows about their relation. Sonia asked him if he could sense any sign of self-respect in this matter. She lectured him about what dignity means the second time we got into contact, precisely as I told her.

He denied that he has intention to love affairs with the other girl. However, he asked of her forgiveness.

We came to a solution.

Sonia is still seeking me monitoring and mentoring her to complete her steps towards getting married. The guy is too busy to complete this process in the very near future. Most of all Sonia is very happy. When they get married, I will feel that I am getting married myself to my joy only. I have some dreamy romantic hugs in this vision ;-)

Long time ago, I had an Italian girlfriend. She was over 60 years old! I saw your smile ;-) She and I love people together. We love our environment too. Therefore, we planned environmental projects I added many items to them later and drafted the fundamental law with a chancellor who was one of my friends to create the environment organization. My profession as journalist and my media network achieved high concerns and public sharing in all those environmental activities.

When my girlfriend died, she left a legacy not to bury her remains but to burn it and throw the ash from the heights of the country. I explained that by saying she wanted her love to the people to go to the people forever.

As you see, love can create so many useful things to adore, share and develop not only new activities from them but also a new look and feel to the world.

What I should call this act? It is an Environmental Romantic Hug, which has dramatically enchanted by the love of nature.