Can Samantha Jones exist?
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I know some of this is heavy hitting; however, it is all factual. I do not like to sensationalize at all. And, I always strive for presenting solutions (even those that are a 'long shot') - sadly, some people / media sensationalize topics solely for their own gain. I feel the responsible thing (in presenting facts) is an equal weighting and providing some solutions. I find there usually already IS someone who is trying solve the problem.
We need to recognize his or her efforts and support them.
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Is it still a man's world? Tell me I'm wrong.
Posted by: whatrosewrites July 14, 2010 (wordpress)
Simply put, it is a man's world. While working out the other day, a photo of a 43-year old Iranian widow flashed on the TV screen at the gym. With music playing headphones on, I just read the caption: "Sakineh Mohammadi Ashtiani sentenced to death by stoning." Looking into her eyes I thought - what could she have done that was so bad?Later, I read a blurb about her being charged with adultery and her alleged role (unsubstantiated) in her husband's death by her supposed lover. Both her son and lawyer state, "No one has ever said she was convicted of murder" and thankfully world-wide pleas continue to spare this woman's life, thus far. A sad fact is more than 25 other women (that we know of) face the same fate.
Malek Ajdar Sharifi
Apparently, Malek Ajdar Sharifi, Chief of the judiciary of East Azebaijan said, "If we give the details of the crimes she committed, the public will understand the depth of her inhuman and criminal nature. But due to humanitarian considerations we can't give the details."
“Oh come on - we can handle Stephen King novels turned into movies and the horrifying images of 9/11.”
But her actions are somehow worse?
(in my humble opinion)
What a cop out. I am proud, however, that a strong effort led by Canadian women (including CEO of Indigo, Heather Reisman) has formed www.freesakineh.org. Bravo ladies!Heather Reisman (2007 photo shown at right) was born August 28th, 1948. Not only is she the CEO of Indigo Books and Music but is also Chairwoman of Kobo and Editor-at-Large of Huffington Post.
[Photo Author: Joshua Sherurcij / Permission granted to use photo via Wikimedia Commons]
As of July 6th, 2011:
As of October 19th, 2011: 446,081 signatures have been collected.
I added mine, why not add yours? (You can remain anonymous).
I spent hours trying to find updated info . . .
Further along, is a link to a February 8th, 2012 article by Martin Fletcher.
Please if ANYONE out there can update us futher about this, please enlighten us. I read conflicting stories that I am not comfortable documenting (since I am unable to understand another language other than english - I am sorry to not include all of the facts).
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poddys
Jul 24, 2011 @ 8:52 am | delete
- Muslim beliefs are just straight out of the dark ages when it comes to how women are treated. It's all very two faced as well, since if you look at the number of fake "sexy" profiles on Facebook that are set up by Muslims, and even worse hundreds of Yahoo Groups about sex that are created by them. Go to groups.yahoo.com and search for groups using keyword "blogs" and see what I mean.
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Back to the 'man's world' point . . .
I'm not saying it is mens' fault - in fact, women are problematic.
I recall seeing a little corner headline in The Toronto Star last year that read, "Sadly for Elin, Tiger is human." I wonder, would we ever see that kind of sweet, forgiving little headline if Elin cheated on Tiger? (Without knowing for certain, I'm guessing a man came up with that headline).Hey guys, ever thought it might have been lonely for Elin, being at home with the kids while Tiger was touring the circuit, away for weeks at a time? Here's guessing how that scenario might play out: most (not all) men would look down upon Elin with disbelief that a woman could do that to Tiger. But worse, some women would vilify Elin. "Poor Tiger, how could SHE do that to him? Come here Tiger, I'll take care of you."
Ouch, I know that hurt and I am a woman. In my experience, women do not have as much compassion for one another.
[NOTE: I have no knowledge of the conversation between the two women depicted in the photo - it simply was an expression I was looking for. It is aptly titled 'Really?'
Source: omnia_mutantur on flickr / Licensed under Creative Commons / See at: http://www.flickr.com/photos/omnia_mutantur/3871431140/sizes/o/in/photostream/]
Boys will be boys . . . right?
Sometimes, boys do not get disciplined for what girls do - why?
Actually, women's bodies have more erogenous zones than men's. From an anatomical standpoint, polyandry (having more than one husband) makes more sense. A woman can have multiple orgasms and enjoy sex many more times a day than a man could. Historically, this practice was done mainly for keeping property inheritance within a family (such as two brothers married to one woman) or done due to the scarcity of women in certain cultures - but not of the woman's choosing.A little known historical fact is that women DID get to choose from a selection of "lovers"; in Vienna (1716) Lady Montagu felt that, "Many women of the nobility had two husbands - one for the name, the other for the 'game'." It was considered gauche (lacking in social graces) not to invite all three to dinner. Philosopher Voltaire was another example. For part of his 16-year affair with married woman Marquise du Chatelet ("the divine Emilie") all three resided together.
Yet why does having a healthy, dare I say, normal sex drive and openly embracing it, mean someone female is "bad"?
"I am probably more of a Carrie Bradshaw type but I secretly want to live like Samantha Jones." ~ sousababy on Squidoo
Have your say . . .
What do you think about the rights of women worldwide?
Overall, do you feel it is STILL a man's world?
Yes, it is STILL largely a 'man's world' (worldwide), here's why:
gypsyman27 says:
My answer is in the middle, women still are treated poorly, but have made strides that cannot be ignored. See you around the galaxy...
Tolovaj says:
Hello, my English is not perfect (well, sometimes it is really bad) and I am sometimes typing too fast ... I tried to say nothing can stop women on the way of getting more rights. I used a word process and thought it is clear process means something is changing. I also wrote an article (last year) about differences and equalities of sexes (not only human, I explored much of animal and plant kingdom) and it was awarded ... The point was not on rights or present or near future, it was on differences and general history of the world. I supported strong theory women's sex is made to last, male sex is only an experiment of mother nature. And it is a good thing we are different (again I am not talking about differences in modern human society). So we should start thinking of improvement of world as it is, not as idealists think it should be. Hope I cleared my point.
sousababy says:
Dear Tolovaj, I appreciate your honesty and candor. I am saddened, though, that you feel 'NOTHING can stop the process.' For survival as a species, I feel it will become crucial that women share equal rights with men (perhaps sooner than later). I am working on an article about how sex-selection will mark even less rights for women in society and a rise in the abuses of girls and women, worldwide. I hope it will underscore how men and women need equality in our world in order for peace to have a chance. Take good care, Rose
Tolovaj says:
Looks it is a man's world, but we can not deny ladies have some power too. And it is growing and nothing can stop the process:)
PipPipHooray says:
It's funny that if I were born 20 years earlier I have no doubt whatsoever that I would've been labelled a feminist just for me being me! I'm constantly amazed at the difference in thought and belief system between myself and my Mum and that's only a 25 year gap so I'm excited to think where the world will be in another 25!! I'm thankful however that I feel I'm completely released from that 'women are inferior' mental stronghold that so many woman are brought up in! Look out world... we're a comin'!! :)
GrowWear says:
Still a man's world. Changing slowly but surely, though. However, in my world, it's a woman's world. In my husband's world, it's a man's world. That's just another way of saying "mutual respect." I'm appalled by certain things in our society. For instance, the churches around here still require that women keep silent. That's quite the ultimate insult.
Tipi says:
Still, but improving in some respects, but then it is all about respect, isn't it.
hamshi5433 says:
A women`s success is in her own hand! I see haters as a bunch of MOTIVATORS! I think it still is a man`s world for god himself created the man first and then the woman..but he also made them both to have equal rights which woman rarely have... :/
pheonix76 says:
I'm kinda in the middle for the US. I just read a report that women seeking advanced degrees now outnumber men. On the other hand, women still get paid LESS for doing the same jobs as men. Worldwide, it's sadly still a man's world in many countries and it's appalling how women are being treated in the 21st century.
CherrrieB says:
Its hard to tell. There are men that "think" a man's world means being a jerk or obnoxious. Whereas I would not mind a strong man figure when the man knows what he is doing and respects others.
No, I feel that (worldwide) women are enjoying the same freedoms as men:
poddys says:
I think that there are a lot of women out there who have asserted their place in the modern world. Today they have their opportunity if they wish.
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Pinkchic18
Feb 29, 2012 @ 10:42 am | delete
- I looove that show, I seen the season collection in the store the other day on sale for $175! I couldn't bring myself to spend that much, but oh dare to dream.
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gypsyman27
Feb 26, 2012 @ 5:31 pm | delete
- I really enjoyed this show when it was running. I could find myself attracted to any of these ladies. They were all sensual and beautiful ladies. I had to reach for my feminine side to answer your quizzes.:~) I really enjoyed this Rose, you have a way with words that I love. So I send you my love, dear friend. See you around the galaxy...
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SilmarwenLinwelin Oct 27, 2011 @ 12:40 am | delete
- It's an ok show, if you have nothing better to do !
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poddys
Jul 24, 2011 @ 8:57 am | delete
- I think the last quiz should have been a Poll, since you asked who someone was most attracted to, but gave the answer yourself. What spoiled the show for me was the hideous outfits that Carrie wore. I don't think she is that pretty anyhow, but her lack of fashion sense really shows.
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seegreen
Jun 25, 2011 @ 7:54 pm | delete
- My problem with the show, while I like it, is that it clings to outdated stereotypes. I never saw Samantha Jones as that radical. I also dislike Carrie for being so whinny and clingy. Whenever I watch the show I have to remind myself that it is American and views about sex and women over there are quite conservative.
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PipPipHooray
Jun 25, 2011 @ 5:18 am | delete
- I'm a diehard Sex in the City fan... have watched the seasons at least 3 times and am still not tired of it! One of my all time favourite shows without a doubt!
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bames24
Jun 24, 2011 @ 2:29 am | delete
- I never liked the show but I had the chance to watch the movie once on tv and I thought it wasn't much... but then I am more the CSI type... :) I love your lens though
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MaxReily
Jun 11, 2011 @ 3:41 pm | delete
- Love the show, though I've only seen random episodes. Great lens. loved the quizzes. I think every woman identifies a little with each of the four on the show (but I identify least with Miranda and Charlotte).
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GrowWear
Jun 7, 2011 @ 2:39 pm | delete
- There probably is a Samantha Jones IRL. There are a lot of young women today using their own minds and being their own counsel--despite the fact that there's still the "locker room" mentality that denigrates any woman that does what she feels is her choice to make.
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Momsbusy247
Jun 4, 2011 @ 2:06 pm | delete
- The show is fascinating! I think Samantha Jones exist, in today's modern world women are a lot liberated and will make no apologies for it, which is so admirable. In their world their is no double standards but in the real world it still exist, Sad but true.
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Tipi
May 30, 2011 @ 9:10 pm | delete
- I'm still in the dark, don't have HBO. Your lenses certainly do have fun and interesting twists and turns along the way.
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Koupie Apr 2, 2011 @ 3:04 pm | delete
- Hi madam :) Sorry I have been missing, I have been rather busy since I got LOTD, but it's been awesome.
You always write such great stuff, but am sorry I never liked this show. I prefer Two and a Half Men, hubby and I both loved it, now we have to watch re-runs thanks to Charlie LOL
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MTF-briguy
Mar 31, 2011 @ 8:39 am | delete
- As usual, I have to agree with poutine (please don't tell I said anything positive about her..lol), a very well presented site!
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poutine
Mar 28, 2011 @ 6:30 pm | delete
- Well presented lens.
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JoanneOtt
Mar 19, 2011 @ 2:08 am | delete
- You said "In my experience, women do not have as much compassion for one another." This is so very true! For example, in politics, women are often much harsher on other women than they are of the men! As far as SATC goes, I have a feeling those women LOVED playing those roles. It will live on in syndication for a long, long time.
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SereneSea Mar 16, 2011 @ 12:36 pm | delete
- Not surprised about the search engine hits on your blog and the keywords that people are looking for? People are generally looking for something entertaining to relieve them out of the stress and strain from a hectic week.
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sousababy
Mar 18, 2011 @ 5:03 pm | delete
- Oh yeah, it's all good. I do the same. It was something that I hoped men and women alike would view and perhaps help in the worldwide effort to spare Sakineh's life. I just wish I knew more about her current situation. Thanks, as always, for supporting my work. Your comments always contribute so very much. Fondly, Rose
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Momsbusy247
Mar 14, 2011 @ 9:54 am | delete
- I like the show for pure entertainment and nothing else, I do not put much worth in any of the characters attributes, it is just entertainment.
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sousababy
Mar 14, 2011 @ 12:32 pm | delete
- Oh me too, the show IS just for fun. The underlying intent here really is the fate of Sakineh (and women who face similar barbaric treatment all over the world). Using the SATC show to draw attention to this subject was one of the best marketing moves I ever made - it drew people to read it (on wordpress and I hope, on Squidoo too). The freedoms we enjoy as women in North America are NOT entirely equal (yet) but thank god progress has (and is) been made. We do not face execution by stoning. Thanks for visiting!
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MarianaFargasch
Mar 12, 2011 @ 1:56 pm | delete
- Thanks for the great lens! Loved it as much as I love the show!
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