Create a Kinder World: Say Something Nice
Offering a compliment is a simple skill that can change the way you view yourself and the world around you.
Another Perspective
Why offer Compliments? The Answer is Simple.
It strengthens your relationships.
It boosts your self-esteem.
It increases your self-confidence.
It makes you feel good.
How does it work?
Every time you give a compliment, you are focused on the other person. You are actively looking for positive traits rather than focusing on the negative. If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. I agree, yet I don't. If you truly look, you will find something positive to say. Look for ways to boost the spirits of those with whom you meet. Greet people with a smile. Acknowledge them and make their day brighter by saying something nice. Make it a habit and you will see the world in a different light. Develop the skill. Let it spill over into other facets of your life. The cloud of doom will lift. The obstacles that blocked your path yesterday just may become the possibilities of today. Be a Beacon of Light
Smile!
When offering a compliment, using the person's name adds to the effectiveness. Call the person by name and follow it with a smile. "Jenny, you wrote a wonderful story. It touched my heart." Smile!
Olivia at Riverside...
Surf fun
Riding waves
::shofik thwani w '3...
Boogie Board
.
Create a Booster Club of One.
Giving a morale boost to others is great and it makes us feel good as well, unfortunately changing bad habits, like focusing on the negative, takes time and effort. It won't happen overnight. It takes practice.
Practice!
Practice!
Practice!
With a little effort you can turn that frown into a smile. If you're having trouble coming up with something nice to say, listed below are a few praises to practice with. And if you're afraid to practice on a real person, I'm sure your dog would benefit from a compliment or two.
Don't Forget to Smile!
Compliments from Awesome to Zest.
At-A-Boy! That's the way to do it!
You did an awesome job on the project.
You are amazing!
What a beautiful picture!
You care, and that makes a difference.
I knew you were capable of doing it.
Amazon Spotlight
Your dedication is appreciated.
You have a delightful sense of humor.
Your energy and enthusiasm are contageous.
You tell a fascinating story.
Your presentation was fantastic.
Is Your Smile Famous?
What a gallant offer!
You are a gifted singer.
I commend your generosity.
Hello! I'm glad you're here.
You have been very helpful.
Attitude of Gratitude
Attitudes of Gratitude: How to Give and Receive Joy Everyday of Your Life
Amazon Price: $10.17 (as of 07/05/2009)
Be thankful and don't be afraid to say it.
I owe you an apology. I apoplgize.
I can always count on you.
I like being around you.
I like you.
I miss you.
I love you.
Bring Joy Into Someone's Heart
Ceaco Thomas Kinkade 1000 Piece Puzzle - Mountain Paradise
Amazon Price: $13.99 (as of 07/05/2009)
We would love it if you would join us.
What a keen observation!
You are so kind.
You are loyal and I appreciate it.
You have the magic touch.
What a neat idea! Thank you.
There is Hope
Thank you for being open to new ideas.
Your patience is appreciated.
That was quite a presentation. Good job!
You are so right!
You are a savvy competitor.
Thank you.
It's All a Matter of Attitude
Your understanding made all the difference in the world.
Your valiant sacrifice paid off.
Way to go!
What a nice gesture!
It was a wonderful presentation.
You are a winner!
Look and You Will Find a Reason to Smile
You brighten my day!
I love your zest for life.
Do compliments make a difference?
Have you ever received a compliment that spurred you on when you were on the verge of giving up?
Fetching blurbs now... please stand byYes. It was a pivotal point in my life.
StephanieB-Writer says:
Yes I think that compliments have helped. I go to school, work and live on my own so it's nice to hear that someone is proud of me. It makes me not want to disappoint them or myself. It reassures me that I'm doing the right thing even if I'm exhausted.
Posted June 01, 2009
Tuula_Olin says:
I know that when I have received unexpected compliments, I've felt so good that I've started giving others compliments as well! I think it makes the world a better place to live.
Posted May 17, 2009
financialadvisers4U says:
YES!!! Sometimes life can be frustrating. Yet, it is at those times that we often find a miracle. A kind word...or person who reminds of that we have value and that what we are doing is important to them.
Posted April 08, 2009
Floraluniverses says:
A truly and honest compliment can be magical when it cames from the right person.
Posted April 07, 2009
No. Compliments make me feel all warm and fuzzy, but they have little impact on my goals and dreams.
KarateKatGraphics says:
I'm usually too stubborn to give up on something I really care about, lol, but like some of the others said, it's super therapeutic for me to *give* sincere compliments. Accepting compliments is a skill I'm still learning. All it takes is a smile and "thanks," right? Doesn't seem that hard...but sometimes it is!
Posted March 11, 2009
.JPG)
tweety0126 says:
Your lens is great, love the photos. Compliants do go a long way in making a person's day a little brighter. I've received them at times when I really needed some encouragement. I've also given friends compliants when they've needed them and I didn't know until they say, "you don't know how much I needed that today".
tweety0126
Posted November 23, 2008
TrueFX says:
no, not yet :(
but that's why I've took the mission to be there for everyone I know.
I can, however, boast that I have received compliments from people who were grateful for my support and understanding at the moments when it was so important to them.
Posted November 23, 2008
EasyBusinessToStart says:
Not in an earth shattering kinda way. It has helped me have a great day though!
Great lens!
I love the positive vibes!
Joy
Posted November 23, 2008
aijadaina says:
Receiving a sincere compliment can set the tone for the rest of the day. Most of us don't expose our daily life's burdens to the public. You just reminded me not to be so critical of others...
Posted November 22, 2008
Try It!
Try handing out compliments instead of criticism for a day, a week, or even a month. See if it changes your attitude and the attitude of the people around you. I'm willing to bet that the world around you will be a little brighter. You may even find a reason to smile. Other Thought Provoking Lenses
-
Using Music to Lower Stress
-
Stress. For people constantly on the go, it's a fact of life. There is always something to do and never enough hours in the day. Some people work well under stress. They thrive on the "Life in the Pressure Cooker." For most of us, a little stress is...
-
Setting and Reaching Goals
-
"The greatest discovery of this generation is that a human being can alter their life by altering their attitude." William James How often have we grumbled or growled about the way things were going in our life. We blame our failures and other peopl...
-
Living Within Your Means
-
During these uncertain economic times, the average citizen is cutting back on their spending determined not to add to their debt load. They've cut back on their driving and added a few accessories to last year's wardrobe rather than buy a new one. Fo...
Feedback Please!
Did this lens make you stop and think?
MeltedRachel wrote...
Great lens! I know a lot of negative people who are quick to criticize rather than compliment and it's very hurtful but I've come to realise it's because they are hurting inside. I hope if we all start a chain reaction of compliments the hurt and negative cycle will stop! 5*
Posted June 27, 2009
MeltedRachel wrote...
Great lens! I know a lot of negative people who are quick to criticize rather than compliment and it's very hurtful but I've come to realise it's because they are hurting inside. I hope if we all start a chain reaction of compliments the hurt and negative cycle will stop! 5*
Posted June 27, 2009
iflo wrote...
If you live in the moment you'll have to give compliments to someone's work because that's the best thing that is in that moment. Love the lens!
wish you peace and love,
Florin
Posted June 26, 2009
StrangeConversation wrote...
A lens which should be read by everybody! Very well presented and a wonderful message I just had to favorite right away!
Posted June 21, 2009
About the Author
Lensmaster ElizabethJeanAllen, aka Lizzy Jean, has been a member since March 16 2008, has rated 3,690 lenses, favorited 454, and has created 165 lenses from scratch. Lizzy Jean donates their royalties to Squidoo Charity Fund. This member's top-ranked page is "The Mallard Duck". See all my lenses
Offer a Helping Hand
The Squidoo Charity Fund has raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for charity. Thanks to the Squidoo community, we've built schools in Cambodia, given underprivileged classrooms computers and software, funded important reseach against Juvenile Diabetes
Bring a little sunshine into your life.
by ElizabethJeanAllen
I tell my students to Learn from the Past, Live in the Present, and Plan for the Future. With Squidoo I can do all three.
(more) Related Topics
ElizabethJeanAllen Recommends...
Favorited By
- Lamarena
- esitesro
- Forever_Thinner
- Beaddoodler
- site-builder
- KCMindGeek
- KesiaLynn
- pennystretcher
- Cal-A-Mari
- K_Linda
- dialectdesigns
- MobyD
- spindigg
- Tipi
- WendyKrick
- TechCorner
- AlisonLee
- Chadrew
- mukunda22
- Tammylove
- DFT
- mrkensworld
- MUJERDEEXITO
- coachtom97027
- mazbond
- Lisa_Jo
- darelief
- sprete
- Judy-and-Mike
- MaryJM
- See all 112 people
