Secret Admirer Note Ideas

Be up front about your intentions but not too forward. This will prevent them from thinking you are creepy. It's important to start off on a good foot. Keep them wanting more. You do not want them to be put off from your note, especially if you plan on giving them a series of secret admirer notes.

EXAMPLE: Their Name, please know that I'm overwhelmed everyday by your presence. I do not mean to be rude or intrusive.

It is important to use her name guys, this goes for you to girls. More often than not, men unintentionally make women feel more like objects than people. Using a persons name is a little more personal and will make them feel special.

This secret admirer note idea works because you state your intentions early, it's not too forward and it gives them a great compliment without seeming to want something in return.

The take away from this example is that you sparked their interest in a pleasant way.

The secret admirer note idea you don't want to forget.

As I mentioned earlier, it is important that you not want anything in return other than the satisfaction that you gave them a compliment that made them happy. If you are not sincere and are only saying nice things to get something in return for your benefit it will show.

Men remember that women are already on guard and if you truly care, you want to make sure you say the right things that will portray your true feelings.

Bob Grant - "Ladies, believe it or not, men crave respect. Play on that and you will drive him crazy!"...from The Women Men Adore and Never Want to Leave

A good example of something to add to the example above or written by itself is this:
"I only wish to pay you a compliment and thought you should know that you lighten up someone's day...everyday."

Here you are saying that them being happy is enough for you. It also shows you have interest in mind more than yours. Therefor you DO care!

A powerful part of that sentence is the words "I wish". This is because people generally like helping others out. For someone to grant you a wish is nice for them as well. The fact is that your wish is benefiting them and NOT you sparks emotion and admiration. You see, now you are writing the secret admirer notes, but they are also starting to admire you as well.

Very powerful stuff.

How you put words together, verbally or written has a huge impact on how you are perceived. If done just right, you could win the heart of just any man or woman you wanted. That's a fact! If you do and say certain things in a certain way then women WILL become attracted to you~Tiffany Taylor (best selling author of Guy Gets Girl)

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Here is a secret admirer note idea that will scream confidence.

This may not be more of what to say than what NOT to say. As above I talked about the powerful phrase "I wish". A phrase that is often use and should never be used is "I hope". When you say that, you say that you don't have any hope and someone needs to give it to you. So to break it down...no hope equals no confidence.

Another bad idea is to say anything in the terms of "I'm afraid to talk to you because you will reject me". This will not only make you seem unconfident but like a sympathy case as well. I don't need to explain how that's not a good idea.