Secrets to Get Him Back

Calling him is probably the worst thing you could do.

You want to make him miss you and wonder what you are doing...If you're constantly calling him, he won't have a chance to miss you, and let's face it -he'll know what you're doing too.

Let his imagination run crazy wondering why you aren't calling him. He'll be worried that you are out on a date with another guy and aren't interested in him anymore. His imagination can be his worst enemy, but it will be your best friend.

Next, you need to have a plan of action.

You want to have everything planned out for the next time you see or talk to him. You will want to know what you are going to say (and not going to say), how long the conversation will be, you even want to practice your tone that you will speak to him in. Men are very in tune with the tone of your voice. You want to keep it soft and light.

When you have a plan in place, you will be prepared when he finally does call (and maybe even asks you out). You won't be all emotional and you will be able to make him remember why he fell in love with you to begin with.

So many women just want to get their man back and they don't think about the consequences. They will call repeatedly, send e-mails, send text messages, etc. until they have no choice but to give up. Some women even send gifts because "its his birthday."

What most of these women don't realize is that when they are being so accommodating and attentive, especially when the man isn't wanting to be with her, it actually pushes him farther away. It also gives him a license to treat her anyway he pleases, because she will still be waiting on him to come back no matter what he does.

I know it is hard, but you are going to have to wait him out. He won't have a chance to miss you unless he has no contact (again, I say NO CONTACT) with you for a period of time.

Take this time to concentrate on yourself. Go get the manicure you have been putting off. Get a new haircut. Join a gym. Just focus on you and what you like about yourself. Remember, if you don't love you, no one else will either.

Many women think this sounds like a game, and they don't want to play games.

It really isn't a game. It is simply changing your behaviors to ones that will appeal to a man. No one has to change who they really are, just what they do.

This book is awesome! I have read it (a few times actually) and it is just incredible. I like it because it simply makes sense. It doesn't go into a bunch of confusing psychological jargon. It just tells you in black and white what works with men and what doesn't.

Bob Grant has been a therapist in Georgia for more than 20 years. He sees many clients with different issues, but has found his niche working with women and their relationships.

Over the years, he began to see patterns and notice that so many of the situations his female clients encountered with men were the same. He would give them a specific step-by-step plan, and over time, he began to see results when the women put his plan into action.

He wrote this e-book so he could help even more women, because obviously he is only one person, and not everyone can travel to his Atlanta office to speak with him.

This e-book offers sensible and practical tactics to get your ex to come back to you. He even gives you a plan (yep, the plan I mentioned above and in my intro) to get him back. Take a look and see for yourself. I hope you like it and enjoy it as much as I have. Get more information about Bob Grant, L.P.C. here.