Your Blueprint to Success

Do you flop about like a flag in a windstorm?

Many of us work with blueprints in our businesses, offices or factories. We know how important a planning structure is for the success of what we are doing. Yet, in our own lives, we seem not to apply this. A niece of mine who is working in a big corporation works on "blueprints" all the time and trains others to do so. But you know what? She never thought it has applications in her own life.

Yes, many of us take our lives for granted, as a great unstructured sandbox over which we not only have no control, but really don't even have influence! We assume that good things will just happen without our planning for it. We flop about like a flag in a windstorm and hope that fate, destiny, karma or other anti-blueprint words will through sheer chance land us in gold.

In the old days, blue print was the name for construction drawings used by contractors to build new structures in a step by step fashion. They actually were blue, because of the printing process used. Today, the concept of a blueprint has grown to cover almost all areas where an orderly process must be followed to avoid chaos. If we have a blueprint, our choices will be guided and directed to where we want to be in the future...or at least close by. How is that for a start?

Pictures on Success

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Have a blueprint to achieve success

Books on blueprints to success

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Make this part of your blueprint

Your constant reminder on success

My own success experience

As a Child

I was reminded of my own experience. As a child, success had been part of both my own and my family's experience. I was top of my class and my father's business was doing extremely well. So, how did we deal with this success? My family told us not to show off, to be humble....not to let it make our heads get bigger. Not to be Mr. Big Head! To always remember where we came from because our good fortune might not last.

Yes, be afraid girl. Prosperity is temporary. You are not sure you will be lucky all the time and luck/karma/destiny was the most important part of success. This ensured that I was always afraid of the future and of the dreadful arbitrariness of destiny.

Start your blueprint now

Success will not wait for you

Affirm yourself

With a lucky charm

Give yourself a lucky charm. You have to value yourself and you need to show it.
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Nurture success early in life

A blueprint for success for kids

What we were told about success

A Blueprint for Failure

Blueprint for Success

We were told that we should hide our current luck. Always put ourselves lower than the others. This, too, became a blueprint...one that could only lead to inevitable failure. At some point failing would be a relief as it would reduce the daily stress of waiting for the collapse. What a recipe for disaster...a disaster that finally came. Our business surely went under after my father unexpectedly died. We saw this as the beginning of the end and we behaved in a way that ensured the expected failure. Our family business blueprint forecast all of these and sensing our loss of spirit former employees with winner blueprints built their own futures on the ashes of ours.

It was almost over when an amazing change took place. My youngest sister who only lived a short time in the era of prosperity had either been programmed differently or had not enough time to learn our blueprint for failure. She was already down there and the only path is UP.

Is this true in your own life?

Look at your own experience

Isn't this true? Look at your own experience.

How were you programmed? Are you still getting ready for your grandparents depression? Are you still waiting for a "crash and burn" outcome of your life's flight?

What is your blueprint of success right now? If you don't have one you will certainly go someplace, but not where you hope!

Reach out for that success

Make this the foundation of your blueprint

“If you don't have a blueprint, you will certainly go someplace, but not where you hope!”

Be a Celebrator of Free Will

Not a medieval determinist

Yes, the way we are brought up has a major influence on the success blueprint that we hold in our world view. Sometimes, these influences are not even in our realm of awareness. They are not in our consciousness. They make us medieval determinists rather than celebrators of free will. It is like a silent conductor making the music of our life, making the cadence go up and down without control or even input on our part. How can this failure of the human spirit be possible?

I have seen this in my own personal life. My husband and I are living a life many only dream about. People say we live a blessed life but we still continue to hammer away at the blueprints our parents, families, teachers passed on.....the conditioning our cultural backgrounds hammered into us and the values our age pushed us into.

Don't give up. It is an unending journey. Enjoy it and give yourself a pat in the back once in a while.

Celebrate your success

Gift yourself

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Remind yourself of success as a journey

Make sure your blueprint reflects this

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A Constant Nurture

Make sure your blueprint includes this

A Blueprint for Success

A New Road Map

Yes, the growth continues and the struggle, too. It is a constant battle to free one's self from all the baggage of the past and create a blueprint that supports success. The whole world seems to have a suspicion of success and puts it to luck rather than building a vision...a blueprint.

Somehow, many are uncomfortable with the success of others unless it is based on a sin and redemption model or the depths of pain coming before a mass of luck. Why? A majority seems to think that success is only possible after pain, denial, suffering or some form of cheating. It never occurs that getting to some place is almost impossible if you have no personal road map or no blueprint.

Your Personal Blueprint

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Changing your Blueprint?

Resources to help you

There are indeed so many resources to help you. Try reading one of these:
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You can Change your Blueprint

This is the Good News about Success

The Good News is now you have the resources to change the blue print. Unearth it so you can let go of it. Don't dwell on it and start using it as a crutch not to do anything. Success is often feared. Not only by you but by many of us. We seem to resist it. Don't know why but we do. We can't seem to celebrate it.

But not to worry. Help abounds for those who seek seriously. There are many self-help books and coaches now who can help you very effectively. Just remember, the key to your new blueprint is YOU.

Something to Think About

A vision without a blueprint will always be a foggy dream.
But a blueprint without a vision will leave you with a tall ladder leaning against a wrong building.

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Where to start with your blueprint

A Vision Board for Success

A Vision is a picture of the life you want for yourself. This is your dream life. when you do your vision, do not think...hmmmmmm... that is so expensive...never in my whole life will I ever accomplish that....no judgment, please. Just paste on your board all the elements of the life you want for yourself. Look for the pictures that best represent these elements and let these pictures shape your vision.

Have fun. You are creating your life.

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Inspiring Video on self valuing and personal success

Visioning

If you like watching videos, there are many you can watch in YouTube. Here is one you can start with.
Vision Statement: The Secret Of Personal Development
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Have a Plan!

Now that you have shaped your dream life on your Vision Board, start with your plan. Yes, you need to make this life happen. Have a plan. What helped me are not those 5 year plans that after your have finished doing it, you have no more energy to make it happen.

What was more effective for me are tiny, bite size commitments I challenge myself with each day. When I am able to do it, my steps are lighter and closer to what I see on my vision board. I am encouraged. These steps are tiny even just to learn how to meditate and practice it for 5 minutes a day. Learn how to do simple html. Save a dollar or do some exercise. Tiny though they are, when we stick to them each day, our inner strength to take on bigger tasks improves.

Affirm yourself

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Some support that helped me

Affirmation and Visualization

KohKong

When I started, I was still organizing courses to help our teachers and one of these was on Affirmation and Visualization. I learned about how we had been programmed and how to change that. So, encouraged with this new found insight, I practiced it and I was surprised at the changes that took place in my life....the dreams that were realized to the detail, too, of what I have affirmed and visualized. This prodded me onward.

There are a number of lenses here on Squidoo on self-development planning and doing affirmations and visualization. Here are some you might want to check out.

Exercise your Will Power

To execute the plan

Yes, most of us make our plan and set our goals in that. But only few have the persistence in exercising that will power. We often dismiss successes of other people as genetic, genius or genie's help. Far from it. Those people have spent the 10,000 hours Malcolm has set as the benchmark for mastery. Many and I include myself just jump often at the invitation of a friend, a neighbor's chat or just plain laziness. The television or that magazine you haven't checked out recently are just too inviting.

But wait a minute. Do not also overtask your will power. Why? Because by doing so, you become more vulnerable and are more likely to give up on staying on track. Find yourself some wholesome distraction or give yourself a break. Celebrate your success as you take on a benchmark in your blue print.

Failure before Success

Let's find out

It is often said that most successful persons in history have the experience of defeat as their common denominator. They have known failure, thus, they have become successes. What do you think?

Is failure necessary for success?

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Yes, it is only when you have failed that you succeed

No way, you don't have to fail to succeed

 

Books on honing your will power

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There are many books to choose from. Get one that suits your own personality.

Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength by Roy F. Baumeister, John Tierney

Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength by Roy F. Baumeister, John Tierney

One of the world's most esteemed and influential psychologists, more...0 points

The Willpower Instinct: How Self-Control Works, Why It Matters, and What You Can Do To Get More of It by Kelly McGonigal Ph.D.

The Willpower Instinct: How Self-Control Works, Why It Matters, and What You Can Do To Get More of It by Kelly McGonigal Ph.D.

Based on Stanford University psychologist Kelly McGonigal's more...0 points

The Skinny on Willpower: How to Develop Self Discipline by Jim Randel

The Skinny on Willpower: How to Develop Self Discipline by Jim Randel

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Increasing Willpower - Modified Rubicon Method by Rick Dearman

Increasing Willpower - Modified Rubicon Method by Rick Dearman

Did you know more people quit smoking cold-turkey than more...0 points

Willpower's Not Enough: Recovering from Addictions of Every Kind by Arnold M. Washton

Willpower's Not Enough: Recovering from Addictions of Every Kind by Arnold M. Washton

Many people think that what the addict needs is willpower, more...0 points

The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg

The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg

A young woman walks into a laboratory. Over the past more...0 points

Willpower Is Not Enough: Why We Don't Succeed at Change by A. Dean Byrd

Willpower Is Not Enough: Why We Don't Succeed at Change by A. Dean Byrd

Authors A. Dean Byrd and Mark D. Chamberlain addre more...0 points

Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman

Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman

Selected by the New York Times Book Review as one of more...0 points

Master an Unshakable Iron Will by Fern Kuhn

Master an Unshakable Iron Will by Fern Kuhn

Master an Unshakable Iron Will is a culmination of more...0 points

Willpower! by Gillian Riley

Willpower! by Gillian Riley

Given the chance, most people prefer to think in w more...0 points

What Makes Your Brain Happy and Why You Should Do the Opposite by David DiSalvo

What Makes Your Brain Happy and Why You Should Do the Opposite by David DiSalvo

Foreword by Wray HerbertAuthor of On Second Thought: more...0 points

Redirect: The Surprising New Science of Psychological Change by Timothy D. Wilson

Redirect: The Surprising New Science of Psychological Change by Timothy D. Wilson

What if there were a magic pill that could make you more...0 points

Power and Willpower in the American Future: Why the United States Is Not Destined to Decline by Robert J. Lieber

Power and Willpower in the American Future: Why the United States Is Not Destined to Decline by Robert J. Lieber

To argue against the widely proclaimed idea of Ame more...0 points

The Practicing Mind: Bringing Discipline and Focus Into Your Life by Thomas M. Sterner

The Practicing Mind: Bringing Discipline and Focus Into Your Life by Thomas M. Sterner

Present moment awareness is an essential ingredien more...0 points

An Iron Will by Orison Swett Marden

An Iron Will by Orison Swett Marden

Orison Swett Marden says "There are three kin more...0 points

Can't Find The Willpower? by Lew Ph.D. Hamburger

Can't Find The Willpower? by Lew Ph.D. Hamburger

The premise of this book is that most people know more...0 points

Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us by Daniel H. Pink

Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us by Daniel H. Pink

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On affirmation and visualization

Spirit Matters by Shirley Barr – Beavergate and the Visualization of Goals ...
That is such a wonderful affirmation of the power of love, dedication and truthfulness ? so much more powerful than the opposing ideology which rules through force, aggression, oppression and other destructive means. We need to bring balance into this ...

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  • sousababy Oct 12, 2011 @ 8:54 am | delete
    Love your 'Something to think about' red box quote. Thank you for providing so many resources . . I must come back. Take good care, Rose
  • aesta1 Oct 12, 2011 @ 10:29 am | delete
    You are always very encouraging.
  • deyani Feb 1, 2011 @ 6:36 pm | delete
    Love your quote "A vision without a blueprint will always be a foggy dream.
    But a blueprint without a vision will leave you with a tall ladder leaning against a wrong building". --- Blessed ---
  • nort43 Sep 29, 2010 @ 1:58 am | delete
    Upbeat with a plan. I like this...and I'm old enough to remeber the old "Blue" blueprints. I guess the notion of a flexible blueprint is important too.

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