My Review of Leadership and Self-Deception
Learn from a story told about Tom Callum, a new manager to Zagrum. As Tom takes on his new role, he learns that things at Zagrum aren't done quite the way he is used to at other companies.
In a series of interviews with Bud Jefferson, Tom learns about "the box" and self-deception.
This book is written in an easily readible and understandable story format. The characters are realistic and engaging. The story is fun and informative. A great read if you want to become a better leader, spouse, parent, or teacher.
What Is Self-Deception?
And Why Is It Important To Understand?
An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of "self-betrayal."
- When I betray myself, I begin to see the world in a way that justifies my self-betrayal.
- When I see a self-justifying world, my view of reality becomes distorted.
- I then become self-deceived.
Once I am self-deceived, I:
- Inflate others' faults.
- Inflate my own virtue.
- Inflate the value of things that I perceive will justify my self-betrayal.
- Blame others for my original act of self-betrayal.
A Key Quote From The Book
"...people respond not primarily to what you do but to how you're being..."
Leadership and Self-Deception
What Do You Think of The Book?
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Fetching blurbs now... please stand byLove it! Great read.
recoveringengineer says:
Great leadership book. It's good for everyone who wants to have better influence with others.
Posted August 24, 2008
Sorry, not my cup of tea.
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